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Ok this has the opertunity to go arse ways with the slagging and all that.
A lot of people might not take this seirouse …
But on a seirouse note,Was in the pub with the girls last night.
I my self have had my fare share of blokes, but…one of my mates has had more..a lot more.
Anny hooo,
We were sitting next to a bunch of lads.
One of whom I know perfectly well has slept with A LOT of girls.
Him and my mate were chatting at the bar and messin around having a dance or two.
Towards the end of the night, an argument broke out between the two of them.
All because my mate wasnt going home with this “Stud” who spend most of the night bragging about the girls he had slept with just in the past week.
The argument got verry nasty and he start branding my mate with the name “slut”.I couldnt help but notice how other blokes that were chatting up my mate suddenly turned cold on her apon hearing her being branded a “slut”.
Why is it that a bloke can sleep with thousands and be called a stud. Even applauded for his conquests.
but if a girl sleeps with a handfull of blokes she is branded a vile disgusting slut?@jenndudess1 wrote:
Why is it that a bloke can sleep with thousands and be called a stud. Even applauded for his conquests.
but if a girl sleeps with a handfull of blokes she is branded a vile disgusting slut?It would only be a universal situation if females were cheering him on in the pub too.
Trying to sleep with thousands of women is an entirely natural and positive objective, when you’re in your mid-teens and exploding with acne.If thousand are too many and a handful too few. . . . . . .
might I suggest, as the perfect compromise . . . . . . 238 !!I always find it odd that a man would call a woman a slut after she turns him down. Not to mention how quickly other woman will jump on the band wagon.
I think there is a medical term for it its called super-ego-titus if its a really bad case its called… morbid littlecockitus …dont laugh… tis a serious condition :-#
@mrs_teapot wrote:
I think there is a medical term for it its called super-ego-titus if its a really bad case its called… morbid littlecockitus …dont laugh… tis a serious condition :-#
I laughed :oops:
Thing is these guys that like to carve their notches on the bed post often end up having to have the k4ob extention car in their 50’s……….so what goes round comes round……….don’t ya think girls? :wink:
In a pub, where i assume alcohol is flowing, and a man gets rejected, a typical immature egotistical reaction would be to call them a slut whether they had one or 101 men in the past. As for the other mens reactions. they may have appeared cold, but you can bet your life the next time they come across her they will be more than willing to attempt to find this out for themselves.
On the flip side, did the friend say things to this man that may have led him to think she was up for it, maybe mistakingly flirting and hinting, but not actually intending to go that far, and when confronted with this his reaction though extreme (maybe alcohol ) prompted such words.
My question really would maybe this… if your friend doesn’t think she is a sl ut, there is no worries abt the whole incidence… but the fact you have posted this, maybe she isn’t sure abt how in the past she has acted and is actually considering the words thrown at her in a serious way and maybe feels she has been too loose with her affections. Either way, how she moves forward and deals with this is down to her, if she’s happy to be free with her affections, and has no issues doing so, she should take no notice of the idiot and do what she is happy with, if however it has made her address her morals, she obviously is at a time where she feels it needs some consideration. Either way … bollox to the idiots, she should do what she wants, safely of course, whatever labels are thrown at her and not let them worry her.The two of them know each other. We all went to school togheter and live in the same area.
No major flirting in the sence were she was leading him on. It was just the usual banter between friends. He was boasting about some girl he had been with and we all (girl group) were slagging him about him living in a fantacy world. He constantly brags about how he is this stud in the bedroom, but yet girls that he has been with often talk of his poor preformance.He had spent the previous 20 minutes braggin about how he can have any girl he wants.
Now to be honest, he is verry handsome, and makes for some verry nice eye candy.
He doesnt apear to have any trouble picking up girls.My (girl) friend also is quite attractive looking and is verry much the “sought after” girl in the town.
Did she question her own sexual behavour when called a slut?
nope. She has nothing to be ashamed off.The spark the fuled the fire was when he called her a slut.
He had spent about 10 minutes or so near the end of the night trying to convince her to go home with him and seemed to take the rejection ok.
It was only when he seen her at the bar chatting with another bloke that he shouted across the pub and called her a slut.To be honest the verry first reaction from everybody was to laugh. We thought it was a case of the pot calling the kettal black if you get my drift.
But it got verry nasty when he repeated it a few more times along with some other vile disgusting words.My (girl) friends argument was why was it ok for him to sit and brag about his many conquests and for him to be shown as a stud,
but yet because she had slept with a handfull of men she was branded a vile disgusting slut???Now I dont know if from a female perspective the word slut is taken with more salt to the wound and is more offensive than what it would be from a male perspective.?
We (the girls) found it extreamly ignorant and even a little amused that he, being more sexualy active and vocal about his conquests would brand my mate a slut when she would be no were near his level of sexual behaviour.
He had sat in her company for almost 3 hours with no indication that she was intrested in him. In fact, he had shown verry little intrest in her till near the end of the night.
Then, when after failing to get her to take him home, and apon seeing her chatting up a bloke at the bar he some how saw it fit to call her a slut.If im going to be honest, I was more amused and annoyed at the reaction to other men in the pub whom hardly knew this girl.
They made there opinion of this girl based on one single word from a drunked rejected fool.
I was more surprised at the effect the word “Slut” had on the whole situation and wonderd what it is that makes blokes run a mile from a “”slut”….but when girls know about a bloke with many many conquests…..it would not dammage there opinion of this so called “stud” or “Bedroom Hero”.
It was more of a couriosty question than a male bashing question :wink:
Classic case of sour grapes. If he couldn’t have her, she had to be a slu t. Just the same if he had said she was a lesbian for not succumbing to his charms.
Just the same old double standards that make a businessman determined and a businesswoman pushy, or a sportsman buff and a sportswoman manly.
Someone’s sexual history is nobody’s business as long as they don’t go out of your way to sleep with people who want relationships when they want a one night stand. If both people want a bit of fun, who’s to complain?
And hey, if you are lucky enough to have been able to stay together with the first person you slept with that’s great, but it doesn’t happen to most people.
Slut, stud – all the same really. Sexual genius however is another matter…………………………
Love toy’s post :lol:
The reaction of the man was as has been said, sour grapes. Not used to rejection maybe and after bragging he could have anyone he wanted, he was made to look a fool (brought on by his overinflated ego so his fault!). So he lashed out. So not only is he a twonk of the highest order, but also has the emotional maturity of a gnat.
She obviously behaved with dignity, and I think as long as she hasn’t had sex with more than 238 different men, she’s sound as a pound.
If he has slept with over 238 women, then he is the dirty skanky tart :D
*as I am nowhere near the 238 mark, I have some fun ahead of me! :wink: *
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