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@irish_lucy wrote:
you forgot to wash their mouths out with soap :lol:
Ha ha Lucy… thats your job :D
@tico wrote:
Between them they have the iq of a baked potato, they both should be banned,along with a couple of other prats on here.
persecuter
@boojangle wrote:
A hobby?
No . I’d say you need to find a set of balls and act like a man ffs … Annette has made it more than clear what you asked of her .. why the hell should she now put it in the words you want?
What is so lacking in your life that you need that level of control on a message board?
Personally – from the outside looking in on all of this – I’d say she doesn’t want or need control … you do . is that because in ‘reality’ you feel you have none or little? Is that why you choose to go from 1 night stand to 1 night stand? Because you have control … its on your terms?
Personally I think to continually goad the way you have is a form of bullying . its intimidation … and you bloody know it!
Had this behavious been displayed in the room – you would and probably should have been banned for upsetting the ‘experience’ for others – I’m actually confused as to why those same rules dont apply!
We had found common ground and are civil Thin … but this whole episode has made me realise what a weak sad pathetic man you really are!
Annette ….. we dont see eye to eye .. but fgs .. DO NOT give him the words he wants . it wont stop . he just needs that moment of control!
Bye X
rescuer turned persecuter
and ideas above her station as self proclaimed shrink :P@fat bob wrote:
:lol: ok carry on then.
persecuter turned rescuer
and full time walter mitty :P
@kent f OBE wrote:
@mrs_teapot wrote:
Well Im sorry I dont agree… I want this to stop as much as anyone else…but having read it through I have concluded Annette is playing games.
It would be the easiest thing in the world to say Yes Thin I feel bullied by you. What you have to take into consideration here is that both parties feel aggrieved not just Annette… however, it is within her power right here and now to stop this… and she refuses…
I understand Thins insistence she says those words,,, he has been painted the aggressor,and maybe thats not the case here.. either way it can end this moment… I think Thin is sincere in his promise never to speak to Annette again if it is made clear that she feels bullied.
All Annette’s words skating around saying she feels bullied just makes a mockery of the people who have supported her as a “victim”… Im sorry if this upsets anyone…. its how I feel about it.
See, that’s what I love about the “QUESTION” thread……different people see thngs so differently and diffferent takes on questions or statements can be very interesting
fence sitter lol
@irish_lucy wrote:
@jen_jen wrote:
hmm if thats the case everyone who comments on the Thin/Annette saga could easily be the Rescuer and also the Persecutor and having to witness it all we could also be the Victims.
Intestering read though.
Shame both say – ok we’ll ignore each other yet both continue to comment on it, regardless if its not directly to one another :roll:
Ok Lucy . I was actually making a point to eve .. but read it how you want .. i really don’t care any more .
@mrs_teapot wrote:
@irish_lucy wrote:
@jen_jen wrote:
hmm if thats the case everyone who comments on the Thin/Annette saga could easily be the Rescuer and also the Persecutor and having to witness it all we could also be the Victims.
Intestering read though.
Shame both say – ok we’ll ignore each other yet both continue to comment on it, regardless if its not directly to one another :roll:
The rescuer person sounds terrible… I hope Jen doesn’t think thats me!… if it were up to me I would put them both in a darkened room and feed them bread and water for a month….(laughing at that thought) :D
There’s a difference between a “Rescuer” who plays in the drama triangle and a would-be rescuer who is genuinely trying to help Mrs T, although it’s easy to start with good intentions and find yourself being drawn in.
It can be a shock to realise that you are playing in, or being drawn into, a drama triangle. And it takes a lot of effort to stand outside the triangle and refuse to join in. I know from personal real-life experience, but once you can stay outside the triangle it is very empowering and it can be fascinating to watch how the participants play the game…although you will draw their ire as they realise you’re not participating and they then try to make you a victim.
@A.Groanup wrote:
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persecuter
No Thin, you miss the point.
You and Annette are playing in the drama triangle, switching roles, either knowingly or unknowingly. Others are getting drawn into the triangle in an attempt to help sort things out, but it’s not their triangle, it’s yours and Annette’s.
@jen_jen wrote:
No Thin, you miss the point.
You and Annette are playing in the drama triangle, switching roles, either knowingly or unknowingly. Others are getting drawn into the triangle in an attempt to help sort things out, but it’s not their triangle, it’s yours and Annette’s.
you mean you have a point lol :wink:
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