I have not betrayed a confidence, I have commented on something I read on the boards before it was deleted. If you don’t want something to draw comment, don’t put it in the public domain, simples. And I hardly think mentioning your name once equates to spreading it all over the boards.
I made a deduction: Martini makes a derogatory comment about you, 2 hours later she deletes it and says she did so cos she was told to…now who would have told her to do that I wonder? :-k