Take time

I know that most of us come in JustChat to unwind and chill from the days work and other worry of todays world and things going on in our own personal lives, but perhaps when someone comes in the 40’s room with a problem or really needing someone to listen to them we remember that “we” too have had times that we need that as well. I know in the past years that you know as well as I, alot of things of life have changed in JC and there are some that have caused us to be wary and distrustful. Hence alot of us are wary when someone comes in asking for help or just saying they need a listening ear. We hesitate because we feel it is someone coming in just trying to wind us up, etc. But perhaps we need to be maybe just a bit less cautious and be willing to be like we would like others to be to us. I know we all have been there in that persons shoes. We all in the time I have been here this last 5 years, going on 6 now, have needed that listening ear. Just a thought, not judging anyone, trust me because I too have been guilty of thinking perhaps it is someone just trying to stir trouble, etc. But perhaps we all can just be a little less hasty to and allow someone to ask for help, we all need it from time to time. That listening ear could make a big difference in that persons life.