Swinging

It’s not something I think I could do, If I am having sex with my partner I don’t want anybody else to have a go :-… There are many if’s and buts in the swinging game, my mate goes to clubs (now on her own) but with her partner it caused a whole heap of shyte, she started prefering sex with others and promptly fell out of love, now I see it as, if she wasn’t having sex with all these other men then she wouldn’t have been swayed.. Simple really.

Now open relationships is another can of worms, if you don’t want to be comitted to one person be on your own… not rocket science eh? :lol:

@rubyred wrote:

aye thats true…sheest Im an old fashioned gal after all :) ..swinging may be okay with a lover,but i dont think theres a place for it within a Marriage.
I never realised i was soo Puritarian ;)

Me too, I dunno where I got all these morals from, must be something to do with my change in hair colour! :lol:

My mate swings on her own now, basically shags loadsa womens men :? I don’t get it, she just loves to have her cake.. All the best to her, better than going down a normal club and picking up blokes, atleast it’s a safer than taking any old tom dick or harry home

@rubyred wrote:

see i get disgusted by that too…I WOULD never knowingly have a relationship with a married man ! some women get off on the fact,but defo NOT me ! Im at an age,when i have a laugh with a bloke in a pub ( for instance) ,but soon as he mentions the wife,i feel the shutters coming down,upon the conversation.
Im all for a laugh,as ya know Sian,and its damm hard as the men out there DO want me :) Id feel like i was letting another woman down if I went off with her man,,no matter WHAT shyte they tell themselves. I know of females that do it too,been in bad relationships and see it as their RIGHT to try and fvck up others. grrrrr.

Yeah I get ya… married men slupper are the worsterist! Dirty moo’s have no self respect and deserved to be head fucked by the men they think they can have, I can understand if the man has lied and she hasn’t any knowledge but to go on in knowledge Urgh!

My mate sleeps with other men whilst their wife/girlfriend watches or is getting some off another bloke. :? Like I say, not my cuppa bovril

thats fair do’s to yer mate though,,she obviously like it and she is not going out there to be a kunt. She must get turned on,,takes all sorts eh? as long as they dont scare the horses :)