Shocking!!!

Why?

@johnboy25 wrote:

I thought we were allowed to express our opinions on here regradless if whether or not we all agree. It seems I’ve got the wrong idea, if only someone had told me sooner….

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Well that,ll teach you to bloody ask in future then wont, it. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

@bat wrote:

@johnboy25 wrote:

‘At worst we were naive’ said the parents in a newspaper interview ‘But we are good parents’

Naive? Try stupid, careless or irresponsible and insert the word ‘extremely’ in front of either or all.

Exactly. Well said.
I,m sick to death of seeing pictures of them two, wandering around, meeting people, shaking hands, kissing everyone and being treated like effing royalty. I want to know where the tears are. Anyone seen any pics of them looking in the least bit upset? Because I havn,t. Not one.

:?

One minute this thread is about the mass media intrusion and invasion of this incident….and then someone complains about not seeing the right sort of photo!

I sincerely hope (and dont even begin to get supercilious on me and say it wouldnt happen) you never ever find yourself in the same situation and be judged because you havent got the right facial expression or the right “manner” for someone who has had a child abducted.

I couldnt give a flying fig if this entire media circus with the parents is played out to the extreme…why? cos I wouldnt wish to be in their shoes for all the gold and silver in the world and if they wanna play it this way n u dont wanna watch or rwad about it…simple, use your little finger n turn the Tv over n dont buy a newspaper for a while.

Having a view about something, even a criticism DOESNT equate to total avoidence thereafter lol, how idiotic

So you see a news story you dont like never watch the news again? You see one episode of a show thats crap never watch another one?

Your footie team looks like they were bending over for the opposition the night before? Never watch them again?

Hell, I bet yer partners REALLY dread having dinner on the table 18 seconds late dont they?

Does the inverse work too then? As you ARENT getting a negative vibe about this fiasco will you now be going to the OTHER ridiculous extreme then? Watching news coverage of missing girls 24/7/365? Watching the parents of this little girls home movies and replaying all the news coverage over and over endlessly?

Why not? If a negative view in your tiny mind equates to never watching again doesnt a non negative one equally equate to constantly watching it?

Thinking the parents are panty slime, thinking they dont seem bothered or could even be seeming like theyre enjoying the attention doesnt magically remove curiosity for the next episode in the series so you can see if the butler, the parents or a passing politician did it

Well I would be very surprised if politicians COULD fix a problem like that, even the scientific and psychological comminities (no btw, psychology isnt a science) dont know exactly what paedophilia is or what causes it, nor can they agree on a foundation for defining or explaining it

Society itself is the symptom, the fact the majority are sheep who dont think for themselves with an open mind but think they think freely within a spoonfed box, the fact society at majoratively on the one hand sees them as sick and on the other wants them punished and treated like criminals for one shows the lack of understanding, logic and consistency

Even the fact society on the whole cant even discuss topics like paedophillia sensibly but descends into nonsensical emotional kneejerk overreaction is a contradiction that negates discussion which in turn negates any understanding which itself inturn means it will continue to continue

Infact considering the fact that the governmental and majorative social view is that prostitution should be illegal despite it being loosely linked to massive reductions in paedophillia and rape shows a distinct lack of understanding of the issue or willingness to try and understand

Add to that the current trend for media driven post modern feminist “cosmo” personal values and aims rather than a sense of family and responsibility combined with isolationist social living rather than community based living and the enviroment is one that allows any form of organised abnormality to flourish

Politicians can never solve a problem like this, the law can never solve a problem like this, psychologists are very unlikely to solve a problem like this as all of them are only involved AFTER its happened

So who can solve it? Parents, each paedo, each rapist, each mugger, each burglar, each criminal of every kind is partly or wholly that way inclined because of their upbringing whether through enablement, entitlement or through learning directly from their parent morality or the lack thereof

Thats a personal problem, and not one that has a “quick fix” or some miraculous piece of legislation that will fix it, its something that would require society as a whole to take a few steps back in many areas but not others to the mindset a few decades ago, that would require the abolishon of touchy feely left wing hippy parenting and a re-introduction of concepts like discipline, consistent parenting, joint parenting, having the time and energy for the kids people choose to have rather than wasting that time in the pursuit of “things” or their own social lives

We live in a time where being a parent has become a fashion statement, where kids to varying degrees are fashion accessories born because its a RIGHT rather than because people want to be parentS, born into a world that only sees the mother as being of any relevance even tho demographics say otherwise, born into a world that thinks they pretty much raise themselves unnaided and that its “other peoples kids” who are bad

Our bar for bad behaviour is set too high, the age we start to control and direct our kids is too high, everything can be claimed is the fault of someone or something else from ADD, through additives all the way up to the schools, peer groups or the government

Until some personal responsibility becomes the ethos nothing will change, until a bad parent is called a bad parent whether they are “upset” or not nothing will change, until kids are controlled, disciplined and taught how they SHOULD behave and think nothing will change

And that even if it started in every household the country over today might not show massive change for as many generations as its taken for society to descend into the cesspit this country is today

But people are looking for and want an overnight solution to a problem generation after generation of parents have created over the last 40-50 years

Never gonna happen