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20 December, 2010 at 11:22 am #456075
Dear God! y cant ppl see that only cosy was to blame for his o wn bloody downfall!!!
20 December, 2010 at 1:45 pm #456076@eve wrote:
Dear God! y cant ppl see that only cosy was to blame for his o wn bloody downfall!!!
Eve, whilst i realise how you feel about Cosy .. i do wonder , if it had been anyone else, would you be saying the same thing.
I, as i am sure , along with many others , know only to well what Cosy is like. But Thin, knew what he was doing … and finally got the response from Cosy that he wanted.
Now i know you or someone will say cosy should have ignored it all..NOT that easy when it is happening to you. I repeat , Thin is a Bully .., simple as that ..he gets even more pleasure when someone responds , like i am doing now .. but you know what? we all know what Bullies do when they have worn down their Victims .. They start on someone else … and low and behold , because i once again , had the Nerve ( shame on me !) to voice my opinion on it all ..Thin has now started with the little nasty remarks to me …NO bother to me though- I have had it all had it all before from him.
So you see as i said before , Thin is a bully , simple as that .. we all saw it happening , some even told him to stop . he took no notice- That’s the kind of person he is lapping up all the attention, and laughing at it… not considering for one minute the upset it could be causing.
Now, no doubt, i will be frowned upon for sticking up for Cosy. well i’m not, all i am saying is , this should never have been allowed to happen.
So i ask again where the hell are the moderators on here ? Because what happened on here , should never have been allowed to happen.
What is even more worrying, on another thread, Thin has made a comment about Cosy being banned ,and seems to wondering why he has got the blame for it! :roll:
20 December, 2010 at 2:51 pm #456077I may aswell add my opinion for what its worth …. I agree with both eve and Annette!! Cosy is psycho and Thin is a bully!
I, like eve have been on the receiving end of cosy’s threats – its common knowledge – however he did fall short of making them face to face against me, unlike he did to eve. His behaviour and attitude for the most part is vile and even those close to hium will agree he changes his moods frequently, doesn’t often see things in the same way most of us would and almost always assumes the way to deal with issues is to get verbal/physical as a resolve!
All that said – I tend to take very little notice of him – simply because I believe he has ‘issues’ and I think most would agree to be of the same mind. Does this give him the right to behave how he does and expect others to accept it? Nope. But for me what it does is buys him a little bit of consideration – would you kick someone on sticks? Just cos you knew it would cause maximum damage?
Thin – you had the ability to see the bigger picture – you knew exactly what you was doing – you pushed knowing he was unstable and how he would react! Why did you do it? You take nothing serious on here? Its ‘banter’. You did it simply to make yourself look like the bigger man … kinda got lost in it all really – cos to gain any kind of respect – you would have had to choose someone who was fully able to respond in an ‘acceptable’ manner and not someone who, in my opinion is unstable thus making him to a point ‘vulnerable’. I use the word vulnerable for lack of a better one but I hope ppl know what I mean.
Your excuse for having ground him down the way you did was because he gave out your personal information? Well excuse me – have you not done the same in the past? I for one know you have – where’s the difference? Other than by all accounts cosy did it in cosy style – and out in the open – not behind private chat/fone calls!
I have never been one to keep my thoughts to myself on here or in chat – if I feel strongly about something – I will say so …. you didnt tho – you just pushed and pushed – just to make yourself feel like you had won the battle with him? Did you really need your ego boosted so badly?
I have no qualms about cosy having been banned – I think it is of benefit to most – and deserved! You’re not banned simply because you didnt make threats …. doesn’t mean you are any less guilty as him for all the hassle the petty row between you two has caused – odds on I’d say he actually came out of the battle looking far better than you did. Sad really considering I despise him and I actually used to like you!
Martini – you seem to have gone very quiet after all the c rap you helped to create – you better than most should have known that what you was doing was gonna lead to where it did – hope you feel better for it! Karma!
Summary …. cosy – you have always to my knowledge behaved like a tvvat – and I dont ever see that changing …. Thin – you are so two faced … I dont think anyone will ever fathom you!
20 December, 2010 at 3:03 pm #456078@annette-curtain wrote:
@eve wrote:
Dear God! y cant ppl see that only cosy was to blame for his o wn bloody downfall!!!
Eve, whilst i realise how you feel about Cosy .. i do wonder , if it had been anyone else, would you be saying the same thing.
I, as i am sure , along with many others , know only to well what Cosy is like. But Thin, knew what he was doing … and finally got the response from Cosy that he wanted.
Now i know you or someone will say cosy should have ignored it all..NOT that easy when it is happening to you. I repeat , Thin is a Bully .., simple as that ..he gets even more pleasure when someone responds , like i am doing now .. but you know what? we all know what Bullies do when they have worn down their Victims .. They start on someone else … and low and behold , because i once again , had the Nerve ( shame on me !) to voice my opinion on it all ..Thin has now started with the little nasty remarks to me …NO bother to me though- I have had it all had it all before from him.
So you see as i said before , Thin is a bully , simple as that .. we all saw it happening , some even told him to stop . he took no notice- That’s the kind of person he is lapping up all the attention, and laughing at it… not considering for one minute the upset it could be causing.
Now, no doubt, i will be frowned upon for sticking up for Cosy. well i’m not, all i am saying is , this should never have been allowed to happen.
So i ask again where the hell are the moderators on here ? Because what happened on here , should never have been allowed to happen.
What is even more worrying, on another thread, Thin has made a comment about Cosy being banned ,and seems to wondering why he has got the blame for it! :roll:
thanks once again annette for giving me the limelite i crave
your a star :wink:20 December, 2010 at 3:08 pm #456079@boojangle wrote:
I may aswell add my opinion for what its worth …. I agree with both eve and Annette!! Cosy is psycho and Thin is a bully!
I, like eve have been on the receiving end of cosy’s threats – its common knowledge – however he did fall short of making them face to face against me, unlike he did to eve. His behaviour and attitude for the most part is vile and even those close to hium will agree he changes his moods frequently, doesn’t often see things in the same way most of us would and almost always assumes the way to deal with issues is to get verbal/physical as a resolve!
All that said – I tend to take very little notice of him – simply because I believe he has ‘issues’ and I think most would agree to be of the same mind. Does this give him the right to behave how he does and expect others to accept it? Nope. But for me what it does is buys him a little bit of consideration – would you kick someone on sticks? Just cos you knew it would cause maximum damage?
Thin – you had the ability to see the bigger picture – you knew exactly what you was doing – you pushed knowing he was unstable and how he would react! Why did you do it? You take nothing serious on here? Its ‘banter’. You did it simply to make yourself look like the bigger man … kinda got lost in it all really – cos to gain any kind of respect – you would have had to choose someone who was fully able to respond in an ‘acceptable’ manner and not someone who, in my opinion is unstable thus making him to a point ‘vulnerable’. I use the word vulnerable for lack of a better one but I hope ppl know what I mean.
Your excuse for having ground him down the way you did was because he gave out your personal information? Well excuse me – have you not done the same in the past? I for one know you have – where’s the difference? Other than by all accounts cosy did it in cosy style – and out in the open – not behind private chat/fone calls!
I have never been one to keep my thoughts to myself on here or in chat – if I feel strongly about something – I will say so …. you didnt tho – you just pushed and pushed – just to make yourself feel like you had won the battle with him? Did you really need your ego boosted so badly?
I have no qualms about cosy having been banned – I think it is of benefit to most – and deserved! You’re not banned simply because you didnt make threats …. doesn’t mean you are any less guilty as him for all the hassle the petty row between you two has caused – odds on I’d say he actually came out of the battle looking far better than you did. Sad really considering I despise him and I actually used to like you!
Martini – you seem to have gone very quiet after all the c rap you helped to create – you better than most should have known that what you was doing was gonna lead to where it did – hope you feel better for it! Karma!
Summary …. cosy – you have always to my knowledge behaved like a tvvat – and I dont ever see that changing …. Thin – you are so two faced … I dont think anyone will ever fathom you!
boo i do like a well thought out and reasoned reply
generally your not far wrong
i would dispute a few minor details
but that would be petty i know so i shant bother other than to say i never choose him at all i just commented on his c rap and it kind of grew from there
i think yer last sentance is preety good and that includes me :shock:oh and forgot to say sorry for calling you chubby but it was late and i had been out and i know you thought it tame but thats as nasty as i get x
20 December, 2010 at 3:10 pm #456080what i do find a bit strange is that cosy is less angry now than the rest of you
20 December, 2010 at 3:20 pm #45608120 December, 2010 at 3:42 pm #456082@genie_in_a_butthole wrote:
yep he been in f3 all day seems very happy lol
and i dont think two posts in pats count for a lot25 January, 2011 at 1:10 pm #456083SHALL I IGNOR COSY NOW
Can’t keep a good guy down ?
26 January, 2011 at 1:13 am #456084To Boo
Boo yes i know better than anyone what cosy is like, theres the nice cosy who was there for me when i suffered my own divorce he made sure i was ok rang me put me back on my feet and for that for that i will be eternaly grateful, he comes with me every year to put flowers on my dads grave and its a long trip
Then theres the drunk pissed up cosy the horror the one i hate the one that scares me and believe me ive seen him in some horrible states and hes done some really evil things to me when pissed
I have stood by him for 14 years because i believe in friendships the good the bad and the ugly and been there for him when hes needed a friend ive calmed him down reasoned with him listened to his woes run him about constantly, because thats what friends do. i am not as week as you all think i am i just see the good and the bad in people
If i am as evil as you are saying why were we still friends up till saturday and its all kicked off again and hes gone off on one but once again i will always be there for him because he is my friend but not his girl friend any moreAnd might i just add for everything iv ever done for him and its a lot iv just had a nasty abcess removed from my leg and am still recovering in hospital not once has he come to visit me sent a card or flowers so who is the beter person
now is the time to walk away from you cosy i have no regrets and i dont feel bad for what i did he did worse things to me
Hope that answers your question boo
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