rosebabes stop booting moonshadow all the time

@rusty trawler wrote:

Mostley,i agree with what you have to say.What do you mean though fantastical refrences to sexual predelictations?Look if you mean me talking about things that disgust and abore me.I have talked about three people in this way.One was Jadey in which i was way off the mark,she did explane to me and the room that her brother told me these things,saying it was some sort of test,to see howe i would react.The other two im not willing to talk about on the boards.One person sed in the room that sexual consent should be dropped to the age of twelve.This incensed me,i was very angry and upset about this.The other one,someone sent me something that botherd me.Yes i havent went about things the right way,i should have but diddent.But you know im not the onley one.I wouldent have knon about these things if i hadent been told them.You seem very willing to add my name to that statment,but to be honest i dont care.It gives me a chance to clear things up.You dont seem willing to use anyone elses name but me and claires.

Hi moon,

I don’t want to use to the boards to engage in a tit for tat debate because i think it’s counterproductive and not particularly fair on you. But I’ll respond briefly.

I did mention both your name and Claire’s but only in direct response to things that have already been posted. The thread is primarily about you and is titled rosebabes stop booting moonshadow all the time, so I’m not guilty of putting your name in the public domain. But I relish no enjoyment in this and I also made the following statement:

“Incidentally, I only mention these names because they have otherwise been identified in this thread, there other culprits that I think are just as ‘guilty’.”

I do tend to go on a bit and I think you may have glossed over this. I don’t blame you because I understand what I sense to be your frustrations.

You mentioned my comment about ‘sexual predilections’ but it this wasn’t necessarily directed at you. Not that I’m suggesting that you’re blameless, but more so because I have the memory of a gnat and can’t remember specific instances in detail. I’ll gladly replace that statement by saying a lot of very insensitive things are said – and again I will say there are other culprits that I think are just as ‘guilty’.

I don’t know all the details and to be quite frank I don’t want to. From my vantage point it looks like a petty squabble gone horribly wrong. I’d hazard a guess a few others will share that observation. Again, I’m not necessarily blaming you as it takes at least two people to have a spat.

If I was to ask myself if I thought you are own worst enemy on JC, I would have to state that I do. But if I was to ask the supplementary question do I think you are treated fairly, then I would have to state I don’t think that you always are.

I hope you understand that I don’t intend you any malice and the last thing I would want is for my words to add to any frustrations you may currently have. Feel free to PM if you want further clarification, from experience I’m sure you know I’ll gladly talk to you.

No Rusty i diddent gloss over your post at all.I did say i agree with most of it.I thought it was a very fair and eloquent post about the situation.I dont think you mean me malice eithere.The fact your interested i have a poient of vew and understand people dont kick of in that way for nothing,makes me feel much better Rusty.It is very frustrating at times,when you know people that you need to help you in a situation blatentley take sides.Your right about petty squebles growing in to silly big sensles rows.I have chatted to you in pm before rusty and your always very polite and nice and im sure i will pm you again for your resonable and fair advice,Thanks Rusty.xx

@retake012 wrote:

moons drunk again over the rd :lol:

does it matter Pats ?

not like you to sounds as shallow !

ye always been fair to me doll… I have told moon to stop shouting the odds..

nae worries x