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10 July, 2017 at 7:43 am #106001210 July, 2017 at 9:50 am #1060034
Never saw you as some one who would get bullied paigey.
10 July, 2017 at 10:05 am #1060045blocking on social networking sites would do absuletly nothing within seconds you can create a new profile to carry on the abuse which seems to have been over looked
Then you block the new account.
and i do know about bullying as i get bullied alot in f2
Lol
10 July, 2017 at 11:21 am #1060073And the next one and the next one right Drac? Until the bully, who is very determined, finally wears the kid down, until they cant take it any more. If it was that simple, then kids wouldn’t get bullied and commit suicide would they? So clearly, just blocking them doesnt work. They find ways…..always.
10 July, 2017 at 11:48 am #1060087I used to get bullied in f2 as well. I don’t now as I am a bad arse.
My daughter was bullied at school. I went to meet her after school and told the child to leave my daughter alone, the headteacher told me off for that. One day after school a kid threw her over a parked car bonnet. She never went back. I kept telling the school she was being bullied but they took far too long to sort the problem out. They never did sort the problem out. She also had some boy try to put his hand up her skirt – someone (wont name names) told him that if he ever did it again, someone would follow him in the dark and smack him round the back of the head with a brick. He didn’t do it again.
In the end we moved to Cambridge and she never missed a day of school there and had no trouble at all.
And I didn’t have to do any prison time :)
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10 July, 2017 at 11:51 am #1060091Good for you Mizzy. You do what you gotta do to protect your kids. Well done.👍
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10 July, 2017 at 12:04 pm #1060103blocking on social networking sites would do absuletly nothing within seconds you can create a new profile to carry on the abuse which seems to have been over looked and i do know about bullying as i get bullied alot in f2
and you also dish it out
10 July, 2017 at 12:59 pm #1060126And the next one and the next one right Drac? Until the bully, who is very determined, finally wears the kid down, until they cant take it any more. If it was that simple, then kids wouldn’t get bullied and commit suicide would they? So clearly, just blocking them doesnt work. They find ways…..always.
It takes a lot longer to create an account than it does to block one.
10 July, 2017 at 1:54 pm #1060138If there is more than one bully, the amount of time taken to create an account is meaningless. Bullies work in packs. They bombard, its like when you get lots of guests in here all on one person like a tag team. Some people are better at defending themselves than others. Some people lack the ‘total bastard’ element to their personalities. They are sitting ducks unless someone stands up for them, or they manage to learn how to defend themselves. We cannot expect a child to be able to defend themselves against multiple bullies. Unless they have cruel parents, they are unlikely to have the ‘bastard element’ and simply wont understand the spitefulness of the bullying. Hence why we protect those vulnerable children. Some would argue that the bullies themselves are ‘vulnerable’. I am not interested in the bullies, only the bullied.
10 July, 2017 at 2:06 pm #1060142If there is more than one bully, the amount of time taken to create an account is meaningless. Bullies work in packs. They bombard, its like when you get lots of guests in here all on one person like a tag team. Some people are better at defending themselves than others. Some people lack the ‘total bastard’ element to their personalities. They are sitting ducks unless someone stands up for them, or they manage to learn how to defend themselves. We cannot expect a child to be able to defend themselves against multiple bullies. Unless they have cruel parents, they are unlikely to have the ‘bastard element’ and simply wont understand the spitefulness of the bullying. Hence why we protect those vulnerable children. Some would argue that the bullies themselves are ‘vulnerable’. I am not interested in the bullies, only the bullied.
Exactly.
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