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Draculina – The rather insensitive comments you’ve made about Daniel’s suicide being a result of his own psychological state
Is it something that people with a healthy psychological state do?
his not being strong enough to just ignore the cruel things being said to him – moreso than that of the horrible being who encouraged him to commit such a tragic act.
I belive in individual agency, computer screens are not magic. Words on them cannot take control of your body and force actions that you do not intend. It doesn’t matter if you are 90 years old, or 9.
Suicide is a result of reaching a point in one’s life where hopelessness and desperation is far too overwhelming and there doesn’t SEEM to be any other solution.
I’m well aware of what suicide is.
A CHILD usually doesn’t have the common sense NOT to take bullying to heart. His parents obviously and sadly didn’t have a clue.
This is something that is impossible to miss if you pay any attention to your child at all. These people clearly should not be allowed anywhere near children again.
Parents, in my opinion, should always be involved as much as possible, to make sure their child/children are always protected from this disgusting sort of thing… until such time that they are “adult” and emotionally sound/solid enough to handle such matters on their own.
They will never become adults if you try to solve all their problems for them. People who have never had to solve a problem in their life can never be ’emotionally solid’, they don’t even know what it means.
And, if you feel the need to blame a portion thereof on his parents.
If they were good parents then this would never have happened. In the best case they should have taught him the skills and knowlege that he needed to deal with the situation, and at worst the should have recognised his psychological state and make every possible effort to resolve the problem.
Then also blame the bully’s parents for not being present and allowing their child to be a bully
They are also terrible parents.
I mean, by your theory, parents should know, and thereby they should have immediately put a stop to their child’s harmful actions towards others.
Yes.
I’ve a feeling you aren’t a parent, and therefore your thought process doesn’t allow you to empathize and see it from the perspective of a hurting child.
I’ve a feeling you don’t know what you’re talking about, I have two children.
And I know what the perspective of a hurting child is, if you could call that part of my life a childhood at least.
oh DRAC i was just looking what people was talking about on page 14 then seen – Draculina – The rather insensitive comments you’ve made about Daniel’s suicide being a result of his own psychological state – his not being strong enough to just ignore the cruel things being said to him –
so i wanted to see what the prob was i cud not find the post but i seen something what made me want to comment, then i cud not stop typing lol
people need to stop using the word troll as something good or and bad, it should always be used as bad, it is as dumb as certion usa people using the word nigger as like – “you my nigger you are” what means “you are my friend you are”, or “that is sick” meaning “that is great” even thou sick means puke…. the logic of certian humans really makes me think is that movie idiocrasy real, if people are allown to use one word with mutible meaning them that is going to make communication more difficult, wait to late, we have that already called the – Thesaurus, anyway
I couldn’t disagree more. There is no need to redefine what trolling is, it has a very specific meaning and it is deliberately misused by political actors, especially feminists, to further their own goals. It is a type of baiting to induce a desired behaviour in the target.
The best example of trolling I have seen recently was by 4chan’s “It’s ok to be white” campaign. It was a deliberately innocuous statement, that only someone that had predjudice against white people would take any objection to. Which is what it was designed to do, to bait people with that particular predjudice into responding, so that they could be shown to be a racist. And it worked very well at doing that.
If you ask politicians or the media, then they will say the posters are white supremacy, when they are actually the oposite. They reveal racism.
Bullies are bullies……
Abusers are abusers…..
Personality disorders generally reason for them, some history also included too. Environment exposed too!
Why??? Because some of us are seeing your post for the very first time, now, and [we] are deeply saddened, troubled, and angered by your insensitive remarks… and, highly offended on behalf of Daniel, his parents, his family, and close friends. You callously blamed a little boy for “allowing himself to be bullied” into ending his life! To add insult to [fatal] injury, you labeled this child weak and “mentally ill” for having succumbed to the relentless bullying he’d been enduring for God knows how long!… You publicly blamed his parents for not knowing and thereby not stepping in to save him – as if they weren’t suffering enough, dealing with the loss of their precious son… You generalized all those who have committed or attempted suicide as being “mentally ill”, without any semblance of evidence… You essentially absolved Daniel’s bullies from any significant part in his death… And in all this, even after being called out on how very wrong you were to write such a cold, unfeeling post, not once did you show any remorse for your hurtful words, nor did you even think to offer condolences, even in the slightest degree. You make no apologies. You’ve no conscience. I mean, really… what sort of person does [all] that?!! And, that is precisely why people are still replying to that vile post you scripted! Perhaps some day when you have a child of your own, and he/she is being bullied vehemently, you’ll then realize the harmful words you chose to put out there, regarding Daniel, were oh so very wrong!
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OMG – I stand corrected… You do have children… Yet still you firmly stand by your hurtful words. I don’t get you, at all! You think children, no matter how young, should have to fend for themselves.
YOU: “They will never become adults if you try to solve all their problems for them. People who have never had to solve a problem in their life can never be ’emotionally solid’, they don’t even know what it means.”
You’re wrong! As parents, we teach them, we guide them, we support them, and when needed, we stand by them in fighting such battles. My daughter was bullied at school BY A TEACHER. I knew something was wrong… It took me 2 days to finally get it out of her because she was afraid of the backlash she would endure at his hands if she told me. In as much as we have taught her how to deal with bullies/bullying, this was something she couldn’t handle on her own. Nor should she have to, at 13! We stepped in, had her immediately removed from his class, and he was terminated, accordingly. There are some things we as parents must do with/for our children. It does not mean they won’t be able to resolve most things on their own if we step in, as needed. You have the audacity to say his weren’t good parents… But, you have no clue as to whether or not Daniel’s parents warned him about this sort of thing, and/or tried to teach him how to deal with bullying and life, in general. You don’t know a damned thing about them, so you cannot and should not pass such judgment! In the end, sadly it was clearly too much for Daniel to handle… too much for any child to have to handle.
So, when your children someday find themselves in a situation they are utterly overwhelmed by, and [as most children do], find a way to keep their inner sufferings from you, remember to categorize yourself in the same unfair way you’ve categorized Daniel’s parents.
That’s it. I’ve nothing more to say to you.
[we] are deeply saddened, troubled, and angered by your insensitive remarks… and, highly offended on behalf of Daniel, his parents, his family, and close friends.
Lol.
And in all this, even after being called out on how very wrong you were to write such a cold, unfeeling post, not once did you show any remorse for your hurtful words
Lol.
I don’t care about your moral outrage.
You think children, no matter how young, should have to fend for themselves.
False.
My daughter was bullied at school BY A TEACHER.
This is fairly common.
There are some things we as parents must do with/for our children.
They didn’t though, did they? They didn’t even pay enough attention to know that there was a problem.
ou don’t know a damned thing about them.
Neither do you.
So, when your children someday find themselves in a situation they are utterly overwhelmed by, and [as most children do], find a way to keep their inner sufferings from you.
They won’t.
Hi Daniel, you like Post Malone:
He never deserved to die…
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