REAL MEN

@kent f OBE wrote:

Someone who makes your wishes…your curiosities…your dreams come true…..however you must remember he is only human
Someone who says you are beautiful even when you know you look awful
Someone, when you look at them you just feel inner warmth knowing they are there for you
Many many other things too…….however ladies we must remember we are hardly perfect ourselves

Wonder what an ideal woman is for a man?

How about:

Rules that real women should aspire to:

1. Always treat your man like a gentleman.
2. Respect him as a person, not just when he panders to your wishes.
3. Be caring and affectionate and take some interest in what he does and where he is.
4. Remember special days and tactfully remind him soon enough for him to enjoy them too.
5. Don’t put him through ‘tests’ when he has no idea he’s being tested.
6. Don’t keep things secret, tell him the things he needs to know if he’s to behave more like your ideal man.
7. Don’t sulk, accept his apologies and move on.
8. Tell him what it is about him that helps you to love him.
9 Don’t assume that dinner equals foreplay, or that it diminishes your femininity for you to contribute.
10. If you are going to break up with him then tell him, don’t act like a jerk until
it all falls apart messily.

All the above come naturally to many women. Real woman and real men exist. But I wonder how many who complain about the lack of the ideal other are themselves ideal?

Some say if you meet the ideal person, stay well away from them, because you’d only ruin them.

All I know is, it helps to choose wisely and be the kind of person that your ideal would want to be with.[/u]

5. Don’t put him through ‘tests’ when he has no idea he’s being tested.

That really tickled me :lol:

@Wordsworth50 wrote:

@kent f OBE wrote:

Someone who makes your wishes…your curiosities…your dreams come true…..however you must remember he is only human
Someone who says you are beautiful even when you know you look awful
Someone, when you look at them you just feel inner warmth knowing they are there for you
Many many other things too…….however ladies we must remember we are hardly perfect ourselves

Wonder what an ideal woman is for a man?

How about:

Rules that real women should aspire to:

1. Always treat your man like a gentleman.
2. Respect him as a person, not just when he panders to your wishes.
3. Be caring and affectionate and take some interest in what he does and where he is.
4. Remember special days and tactfully remind him soon enough for him to enjoy them too.
5. Don’t put him through ‘tests’ when he has no idea he’s being tested.
6. Don’t keep things secret, tell him the things he needs to know if he’s to behave more like your ideal man.
7. Don’t sulk, accept his apologies and move on.
8. Tell him what it is about him that helps you to love him.
9 Don’t assume that dinner equals foreplay, or that it diminishes your femininity for you to contribute.
10. If you are going to break up with him then tell him, don’t act like a jerk until
it all falls apart messily.

All the above come naturally to many women. Real woman and real men exist. But I wonder how many who complain about the lack of the ideal other are themselves ideal?

Some say if you meet the ideal person, stay well away from them, because you’d only ruin them.

All I know is, it helps to choose wisely and be the kind of person that your ideal would want to be with.[/u]

This really made me smile and feel quite warm and young again Words…..its probably what most of us were like when we were younger and first started dating seriously…..the innocence of new realtionships

thank you xx

they all die a death eventually……….c’est la vie chucky x