Cath I am glad your daughter is ok,,,,,,,,, and don’t you dare appoligize for your post. We all at times need somewhere to voice the feelings we are dealing with, and why not here as most of us are a “family”. We need to be there for each other thru the good and the bad times. Sorry hun, at this point you are having a bad time of things. And your right,,,,,in times like those we do tend to find the right prospective of things. Guess they are given to us to deal with so that we might grow stronger from them and perhap’s do things a bit different It’s hard to say ,,,,,,,,,,,,but all we can do is try. As I said,I am glad your daughter is going to be ok,,,,,and in time things will calm down for you as well I am sure. Hope this will brighten a small corner of your life at this time. 