Pole Dancers

Am I the only guy who doesn’t find pole dancing sexy or erotic.

Pole dancing seems to have came to the UK from the USA, the country where they first had go go dancers, topless dancers, and dancers in cages etc etc.

I find strip-tease sexy, and watching a woman dance is sexy, especially if she is wearing sexy clothes.

I think the pole idea must have began just as a way of giving a female dancer some kind of prop, and the fact it is a phallic symbol is I think supposed to be a turn-on for men, in the same way a man can get turned-on watching a woman holding or fiddling with anything from a pencil to a banana, especially if she puts in in her mouth and kinda plays around with it, mouthing it or gently biting the end of it. Whilst I find these things can be erotic and a turn-on, a woman dancing around a huge stainless steel pole just leaves me cold.

Think about it! Maybe it can be a little sexy and erotic watching a scantily-clad woman carressing the pole, or rubbing it up and down with her hands, that can plant the idea in a man’s mind of the woman doing this with his knob, but when I see any woman grab onto the pole and swing around it 360 degrees, especially if they go around it 2 or 3 times in one go, and sliding down it, I just can’t feel aroused or stimulated by that because I would never let any woman do that to my knob, it would just be too painfull. I think it would also damage me.

Now, in case you think I’ve written this post for men only, you’d be wrong.

I want to know if any women would find it sexy seeing a scantily-dressed man on a stage dancing around a huge vagina-type prop, like a massive sponge f a n n y? Or a huge pair of paper-mache tits?

I don’t think women are turned on by props the same way as men are. I’d say they like stuff like the Chippendales etc, or male strippers, especially uniformed guys like a sea captain or sailor, or a fireman with a hose, or a copper with a truncheon maybe. C’mon all you JC women, tell us what you find sexy in a male dancer? Is it the uniform? The 6 pack? The small tight buns?