over two years…..

you will find every chat site on the internet is the same.. i was on a mobile phone message board the other night, as to see which mobile is best to get

and it was 40 year olds acting like kids, trying to argue that one phone was better then another, it ended up in a personal slanging match between two people… my dad is better then your dad sort of thing, or your girlfriend is ugly ect ect….

same everywhere, its like behind the screen, we can be who we want, do what we want, and say what we want, as it won’t matter to us, as long as it makes us smile within ourself, the trick is.. not to take it too serious.. and just carry on, and just join in the banter, i really do beleive that no one really gets that upset over what is written in a post or in a chat room and sulks all day about it. but maybe thats just me, maybe some folk take things more to heart then i do

anyway, this chicken soup is loverly :) crosse & blackwells.. soup cup.. try it.. its nice

whoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo RS
mwah. last comment i will be making on this too Rs and RD are really cool
glad Rs isnt going anywhere i would miss him it wouldnt be the same without him!(oh and i think soulie thinks every day is going to last forever!haha)

@geoff wrote:

I’m not a fan of London, in fact I don’t really like big cities at all, but London is the prime example. I don’t particuarly like going there without reason. People are cold, they will tread on anyone to get to their destination first. It’s dirty, unfriendly, overcrowded, too busy and it’s survival. However it is also the centre of entertainment and a must place to go if you want to have a good time.

Whenever I go to London, I either come back feeling dirty and metaphorically beaten up, or I come back having had a great time going to whatever destination I have been to. But as soon as I hit my home town I can breath again. people talk to me in a civilised fashion. It’s a smaller community where people generally get on and smile at each other, none of this dog eat dog scenario. It may only have three pubs and not so much interaction, but it’s home and I feel involved and comfortable. But I’ll go to bed thinking about my big night out in the big dirty city.

You need a small place, but without the big place what a dull world we would live in. Find a smaller online community if you get tired of what goes on at JC, but you will go back to the big place because it has a buzz the smaller place can only offer in small chunks. The small place always feels more relaxed but we all need that buzz sometimes.

=D> =D> =D> well put geoff.

@soulie wrote:

@Mart wrote:

@pats wrote:

@geoff wrote:

I’m not a fan of London, in fact I don’t really like big cities at all, but London is the prime example. I don’t particuarly like going there without reason. People are cold, they will tread on anyone to get to their destination first. It’s dirty, unfriendly, overcrowded, too busy and it’s survival. However it is also the centre of entertainment and a must place to go if you want to have a good time.

Whenever I go to London, I either come back feeling dirty and metaphorically beaten up, or I come back having had a great time going to whatever destination I have been to. But as soon as I hit my home town I can breath again. people talk to me in a civilised fashion. It’s a smaller community where people generally get on and smile at each other, none of this dog eat dog scenario. It may only have three pubs and not so much interaction, but it’s home and I feel involved and comfortable. But I’ll go to bed thinking about my big night out in the big dirty city.

You need a small place, but without the big place what a dull world we would live in. Find a smaller online community if you get tired of what goes on at JC, but you will go back to the big place because it has a buzz the smaller place can only offer in small chunks. The small place always feels more relaxed but we all need that buzz sometimes.

=D> =D> =D> well put geoff.

I’m w*nking over your sig pic :D 8)

me too

:shock: :shock: :roll:

@catmanblue wrote:

When I first found JC i was curious as to what a “Chatsite” was – silly me I thought it was a computer “site” where folk could log on at any time and “chat” to folk.

It turns out its where decent folk and chat are spoilt by the folk who go out of their way to intensionally deceive folk: by either logging on as different names, spreading rumours and lies about folk, or publically trying to belittle folk on boards and in the rooms.

Ive had some good nights in 40s but none of it is worth the hurt which its caused when you find out some people you trusted have deceived you.

Yes its virtually – im not really a cat-man-blue – but at the end of the day I am a person who interacts with others and when you use it regularly you do become part of a “community”. Well after recent events on here im ashamed to be connected with the whole dam thing, real life is hard enough without the unnecessary crap you get from being yourself and trying to chill out on an evening.

so to anyone who is leaving dont be ashamed, anyone who is staying good luck to you. As for me im making my mind up if its all really worth it! :evil: :evil:

8) 8) 8) 8) u mean posts like this catty………………….

Useful Hints n tips for the day…. …. Oh I know….. Don’t listen to gossip….. especially if it’s me that first circulated it

as posted by tiggy.