Open letter to Martin Reed – re. treatment of Bencase

@sharongooner wrote:

What a sad story.

Im afraid there are probably just as little regulations in the rooms as there are on these boards…

I hope the lad is okay.

People really aught to remember that behind every user is a real person, could be your own son or daughter, whatever.

There is no respect in this place whatsoever and its totally allowed, often encouraged.

I hope Ben is okay, perhaps a personal message to Martin may get read at some point (if he can be ar./sed).

Good luck and well done for hi-lighting this Ratchet.

unfortunately sharon ‘nice’ message boards can be a lot quieter, what we all have to remember is that anyone who runs a message board site is in it to make money and keep just this side of any chat site regulations, to be honest this place wouldnt be as succesfull as it is without the controversy and the fights, i have felt some of the hurt people have felt in the past, felt some of the ridicule of people but for some reason all of us keep coming back, dunno why, we all get periods where we get fed up with the place at times but ultimately it is as i have said a social outlet and to be honest some fun to be had, but, and heres the but, when it is at the expense of another persons well being then it becomes a no go area , but u try telling that to some ……….

I just got banned from forum 3 by ChatGuideHS for voicing exactly the same concerns as ratchet. I did so during an ongoing discussion about the matter , and in a considered and inoffensive manner without any abuse or bad language , so I am not sure which fundamental rules of the chatroom I must have broken to be banned without any warning.

I have asked the guide for his reasons and apparently he thought I was Bencase so that entitled him to ban me :?

How much more wrong can this get ?

PS i am not Kate either before Pete asks

@cath 55 wrote:

@pete wrote:

@sharongooner wrote:

I think you’ve mentioned the name on about every thread going today, I dont think this is the place for it Pete.

Just in the same way you tell me Im unnecessary, Im just returning. No rudeness or anything, just give it up.

so a light hearted remark is worse than the hounding you did in forum one where you can have a pop at me for trying to save you some worry then apologise to the person ya hounded when you were wrong. The bloody paranoia in here is amazing and if you feel like trawling back through those threads you’ll see either you rainny or bad manners accused outright first and theres no place for that anywhere how many “newbies” have left after a couple posts cause of the treatment they get in here. So couple people make a joke of it bit of overkill.
You can bet your life someone would have said ok Kate. And i try very hard not to do rudeness it aint me at all, sarcasm yeah but i dont like offending people generally speaking but the hypocrisy in this place is jaw dropping

I have to say tho pete sharon is one of the most genuine people on the site and i dunno if ur attacking her or not cos im welllllllll down the bacardi bottle tuts but please remember along with you sharon is one of the people on this site i respect totally for her honesty and complete openess xxx

case is closed as far as Im concerned Cath. Cant stand the site of the name Kate to be honest, infact Im totally sick to the stomach of it.

Plus its all soooo yesterday.

@sharongooner wrote:

@cath 55 wrote:

@pete wrote:

@sharongooner wrote:

I think you’ve mentioned the name on about every thread going today, I dont think this is the place for it Pete.

Just in the same way you tell me Im unnecessary, Im just returning. No rudeness or anything, just give it up.

so a light hearted remark is worse than the hounding you did in forum one where you can have a pop at me for trying to save you some worry then apologise to the person ya hounded when you were wrong. The bloody paranoia in here is amazing and if you feel like trawling back through those threads you’ll see either you rainny or bad manners accused outright first and theres no place for that anywhere how many “newbies” have left after a couple posts cause of the treatment they get in here. So couple people make a joke of it bit of overkill.
You can bet your life someone would have said ok Kate. And i try very hard not to do rudeness it aint me at all, sarcasm yeah but i dont like offending people generally speaking but the hypocrisy in this place is jaw dropping

I have to say tho pete sharon is one of the most genuine people on the site and i dunno if ur attacking her or not cos im welllllllll down the bacardi bottle tuts but please remember along with you sharon is one of the people on this site i respect totally for her honesty and complete openess xxx

case is closed as far as Im concerned Cath. Cant stand the site of the name Kate to be honest, infact Im totally sick to the stomach of it.

Plus its all soooo yesterday.

it sure is sharon but i dont want 2 of the most lovliest people to fall out pete woz only jokin hunnie but im sure u know that xxxxxxxxxx