one word

Yogi, may I ask whats the point you are trying to make here?

Ive read the posts and I’m baffled … whats it all about? you dislike someone here….OK its allowed but why all the reams and reams of waffle about why you dislike them? Its not necessary, noone cares. Just move on for heavens sake and give it a rest..

my word?

perception

@yogi1 wrote:

You don’t even use the rooms, you merely lurk in the boards. Your statement is incorrect.

Oh but I do use the chatrooms, and given that a lurker usually reads and doesn’t post, I’m hardly a lurker either.

As for honesty and integrity, let’s see.
Did she tell you she was in the fire brigade, a brain surgeon, or a catwalk model in order to try to impress you? No.
Did she tell you she lived in a mansion or a penthouse suite in the best area of town with live-in help in order to impress you? No.
Did she claim that she was innocent and chaste and pure as the driven snow? No.
Did she tell you that you were the only one that she had ever experienced this “magical element” with? No.

You, however, appear to have decided to make yourself some kind of chatroom vigilante, kidding yourself that you are performing a public service and that betraying someone’s confidence is somehow socially responsible. All you’re really doing is betraying the trust of the women who have chatted to you and fallen short of your expectations – yep I can see the honesty and integrity in betraying trust and rubbishing people.

For heavens sake get a grip and get over yourself – this is a message board and a chatroom. If everyone who had ever spoken to another chatter who told them they were “different to all the others” or that “we have something special going on here” or that “I can’t talk to anyone the way I talk to you” and so on and then found out they were saying the same to umpteen other people then decided to do what you are doing, the boards would be full of character assassinations and not much else. Most people soon wise up and the naivety that everyone in a chatroom is exactly what they say they are soon wears off.

With all due respect might I suggest that you watch this from beginning to end and relate it to the chatrooms of JC. As you will see, this is the internet and anyone can portray themselves in any way they wish – hell, some even portray themselves as being so morally upright that they can sit in judgement of others, conveniently overlooking the lack of morality they had when it came to posted dubious semi-pornographic images of themselves on a public message board. You may find your expectations become a tad more realistic and your chatting becomes a more pleasurable experience, or you may become so disillusioned that you give up using chatrooms…who knows.

Anyway, back to the thread, you haven’t answered this question for yourself yet Yogi

one word that people might think u maybe?

3 words shut up ruby :D

2 words ello sass xx