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@trapper wrote:

@HostLD wrote:

@trapper wrote:

Is there someone “employed” to not post, but look for negative comments then report back, because very few post for ages, then one negative comment and posters appear from the ether to regurgitate bile ad nauseum

Some choose to post now and again because they ARE sick of the vile bile that’s as painful as a pile! :)

post a bit of shite about someone and watch peoples post count rocket, they only come out when there’s bile

I’m ever so radiant and have a lovely figure, no need for that :lol:

@HostLD wrote:

@hecate wrote:

@laine wrote:

Don’t take it personally Rogue, they cannot help it, they call people attention seekers, ugly, fat, snob, posh, liars, murderers even, pull it around……… its projection.
some are so unhappy with their lives they need to hit out at others, to try to make others feel as bad as themselves. that way they don’t feel so bad. kind of……. Ha! ive upset someone now they know how it feels.

some feel you owe them something, because of their sad lives, (erm, its a chatroom?)
they need to turn it off, look in a mirror and get some fresh air.

i was recently accused of being jealous, maybe because they were? but i don’t do jealous, if someone wants to chat to me fine, i’ll chat to anyone, i don’t know anyone personally, and don’t have the need to know about them, they only know snippets about me, not how my life is now only some of my past, but it keeps the gossips happy.
which even then makes you realise just how sad they are huh?
think ive been called everything under the bright blazing yellow thing in here and in chat, but……. they don’t know me. do i care? no, there’s an off button.
do i care what names people use? nope, if people want to use different names no ones business except their own, and no one has the right to ask why. only thing is those who do it to “spy” (even made myself laugh then) to glean info on people to hit out at them. or to abuse others because oooooo its scary … cmon.. they need to grow up! most wont abuse unless a mate is in holding their hand or been rung or texted to give the latest. never felt the need to give my number to anyone. been called names for it, do i care? not a jot! its my number only people i want to have it will have it.
for the record, im not a drunk nor bi polar, i have never commited murder or harmed anyone, i didnt marry my husband for his money i already had my own. not that its anyones business but. whatever floats their raft i guess. being widowed isnt easy. but you have little choice but to get on with life. and i intend to live mine to its fullest before i toddle off this mortal plain, and if anyone thinks anything they say in a chatroom can “hurt” me….. i pity them. i have an off button too!

Laine its not often iv seen you use that off button. I have watched you, wind people up and abuse people, in your own way constantly. I have watched you use your guide friends to further your own campaign to take control of the room every time you enter. I have seen you make friends with people, use them and turn on them for popularity. I have seen you cause situations which have ended in people that have been friends for years fall out.
You say that no one can say anything to hurt you, yet you moan constantly about people abusing you. You constantly abuse people who have problems with alcohol and suffer from bipolar. You have accused two people I know of for saying you have murdered your husband. You are the one saying you didn’t love your husbands, you are the one saying that you married your husband to care for him and that you did not love him. Your business may not be anyone’s business, yet you pipe it in to the chat room everyday. Furthermore everyone has problems, why would you say they have sad lives and they think people owe them something, while you yourself obviously feel you should have the respect of the people who chat.
You accuse people of being jealous of you, yet you set out to to try and make people jealous.
No one is jealous of you laine, infect I think most feel sorry for you.

Everyone can see you buzzing like a bee round the regulars in jc. Pollinating, Planting seeds, making sure everyone understands you want to be the boss. Trying to alienate people who doesn’t agree with you. You are so very transparent. Perhaps be a bit more genuine and stop underestimating people. Then you might get that respect your after, instead of the ungenuine , fawning that some give you.

It’s a funny thing Hecate but Laine is no different to many other chatters in that she comes across as a boasting attention seeking know it all.

She made the mistake of so many others in that she befriended someone with many issues who turned on her in a vile way. She is not the only one to have suffered a backlash from them but in her defence she has not been sneaky.

Because she has the b alls to continue to chat and I have to say there are times she doesn’t do herself any favours, she still soldiers on because like hundreds of others she enjoys chat!
You all seem to think she is different and target her, she’s not! There have been people like her from the year dot.

She doesn’t back down, she doesn’t flounce , she doesn’t bend to people who abuse her so therefore in many of your eyes she is a problem and someone many of you quite enjoy abusing. In fairness lots of you enjoy abusing certain people you have a ‘thing’ about and I can only deduce from that, is that you have serious lack in your real lives which although that is quite normal it’s not fair to inflict it upon people who want to have an enjoyable chat!
What many of you forget is that she is not the first person you have all turned on and seemingly enjoy ridiculing and venting your anger on!

I find it so sad that so many of you hide behind a screen to take up all that energy to be so biatchy to what end?

I am using Laine as an example and I really do apologise for that. She is not friendly with any of the Guides, she is not ‘my’ friend. She would be the first to tell you how I have been honest with her and told her how best to deal with what has gone on, as I or any other Guide would tell her. She is aware I have booted her and will always do so when I see fit as will any other Guide!

It’s such a shame that over the years so many of you can’t move on from the mindset that someone who is different to what you would like them to be can’t be ignored and has to be targeted to make you feel better about yourself.

As much as you can all hide behind any name you wish, your vile abuse and cowardliness is something you have to live with.

Hope you sleep well.

LD

Your entitled to your opinion ld.To be honest I can totally understand why you would come to that opinion. Its easier for you to believe that. to come on here using your position to call someone names We both know who your talking about, and she is no coward. Struggling yes not succeeding but no coward. Many issues, but no cowered. Perhaps if you communicated with both parties you would know the truth. Your only interested in one party, I can understand that too. She did befriend the sed person, but not to help in any way. She befriended the person to became popular when she decided to dump that person as a friend. She is not popular though. People can see what she truly is. Anyways I hope she feels good, and I hope she gets what ever it is she wants. If the boards are only for rainbows, baking and relaxation techniques .So be it.

You’re too kind Trapps …… Toss3r !! :lol: