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  • #991109

    Jack..You’re secretly showing you’re smart,Lol.
    Why did the people in the forum stop coming?seems a good idea. At least for the legal side .
    Given hints and tips they seem to be doing ok. I watched 14 come in,I adopted 5 and my five are still here in F1 and there is one of the non adopted that did thier own thang ,still coming back,the rest didn’t come back at all so it works,as long as they’re given support and a little bit of help along the way.
    The racial abuse and the name changes to abuse very much younger members.
    Lol You’ve seen me in action JackH ,I haven’t swallowed the rule book,Lol I have my own morals to live by and have fun in there myself Lol
    xxx

    #991122

    Sometimes we have to try and engage with our newer members they do appreciate it but the silly scrollers are making it harder and harder,
    The block function works for two minutes and that’s because they login and out again etc so almost defunked feature.

    You trying to imply I’m not intelligent ?? Lol
    I have intelligence in abundance unlike some I’ve encountered recently lol

    Xxx

    #991130

    It really does seem to help, I watched new people log in and log out before and the regs never said hi,My annoying welcome to jc might annoy some on occasion but the newer members now say hi to new people too,So it works. One of the newbies said something that made me think a little,F2 is not heavily populated,if some newbies are too nervous,or having problems,sending them to F2 might be a good idea,double page to check they are ok ,might work?I know some have difficulty with the speed of the room sometimes.
    Block is an issue. *lol *adolf *shiddy * all know far too well to just change names and relog in to spam, ugh.
    You’re from Southampton I just assumed it was a given,Lol Just kidding,Lol.
    Yes,I saw someone write yesterday with all credulity that the earth might be flat and we’ve been fooled.She mean’t it too!!,Lol. Maybe you can convince her the opposite,Lol,Chat is always a debate ground after all ,Lol You could sell ice to eskimos Lol
    xXx

    #991134

    Hey did you know that the earth is actually flat?
    People don’t like F2 because it’s far to quiet and it has a few who are idiots too so they stay clear which I can totally understand.
    welcoming ppl works however unless as you do
    And don’t have open private messages then it leaves you wide open to get rude messages, the old type of chatter has been victim to this over the years myself included.

    You never did answer my question in pm lol

    Xxx

    #991137

    Actually that is the only issue,Dog nights. Recently I was in jc late and was the only name remotely female and only female actively talking,one member got nasty and sent full pm page declaration of how he would rape me,the others kept talking in chat asking for attention ,calling eachother names ect ,telling me to talk to them ect.The pm box went off so many times I left. I couldn’t write in main. It’s wrong.
    I have password with each person apart from my newbies who can pm anytime,i do pm them when they are in the room ,with an assist if they seem to be being bullied ect. You on about Merlin pming you?LOL I’ll let him see that and tell me off ,Lol . It’s quieter in F2,Might be worth double logging and seeing what it’s like during the day ,see if there is a way to move at least a few of the nervous chatters there . I will check the pms,Lol Not sure which thing I didn’t answer ,Lol
    xXx

    #991140

    Mostly during the day F2 is pretty much dead
    Saying that it is the same in the evening at times.
    You leave my wizard alone you Winchester snob lol.

    I am in the minority who believe in defending
    People who are unfairly treated sometimes it’s the silly trolls try their luck but noooope I give it back tenfold been here too long to sit n let it happen lol

    Xxx

    #991238

    Hello! And welcome to the boards Sara :)

    Since I have been referenced here, I would first like to praise you on everything that you wrote in your introduction, I agree with most, I just wish you would stand by your own values, Sara. I am not easily offended by people on chat, by the way. I spend my mornings on the laptop, so I like to chat while I do other things and then I log out and live my life. I will sometimes and read the boards while I check Facebook in the evenings. However, I do want to bring this up because you are starting to make me feel uncomfortable and since I have an hour or 2, I will do so now. :good:

    I just want to clarify that I, at no point stated that I believe in a flat Earth! Nor do I agree with the flat Earth theory. I did however mention I was to attend a flat Earth seminar conducted by an apparent scientist of some sort. You see, I absolutely love conspiracy theories, exploration of ideas and love love love understanding how and where people achieve their reasoning behind claims, such as the Flat Earth Theory.

    No, I don’t believe the Earth is flat, nor did I ever state that I believe that, in fact, I stated I was against the theory but intrigued by the reasoning behind it. Having an open mind is how I try to live and seeing the trending topic on Facebook, curiosity got to me!
    For example, Wilbur Voliva (spelling? Lol) strongly believed in a flat Earth and he explained this with math, an interesting concept, though the Sun according to him was much closer in his theory, the equation still coincided with present science. He was also a cultist nut job! Of course we know better thanks to the power of modern science. But it’s still interesting, you really should look into it! :yes:

    You keep saying some other things that are simply untrue and confusing, considering that they are things I don’t condone.
    Your attacks at me started when a troll came into chat abusing and saying some horrid things about females, including you, and I asked if he had mother issues… You were quick to jump down my throat even though I, along with others were defending fellow females. And that was the first encounter I had with you… Considering you were new, I was a bit shocked that you did that. People asked you why you were acting so nasty and you said you would tell them later on Skype, leaving me very confused!

    Then we had another person come in and say some horrible things about your son, I jumped to defend you, yet you somehow concluded that I say bad things about your son? :-(
    You called me a pedophile and accuse me of grooming Archie, a guy who was a regular chatter and well known to tell everyone he was in love with ‘Cherriepie’. Again, just to clarify, I don’t know Archie personally, nor have I had extensive chats with him on a personal level. I will remind you that you are new here, and even though I tried to explain that Archie was very sweet to me but had a crush on me (my username?) and became a pest, you choose to ignore it and continue calling me names.
    Sara, I don’t know you at all. I have no interest in making your time in JustChat unpleasant, but you make it hard to just put you on ignore when you make serious accusations such as pedophilia, and the whole room starts talking about your accusations…This is something you should not joke about, this is a serious global issue and you can get yourself into trouble. Online defamation in regards to pedophilia is a real thing. :negative:

    You also falsely accused me of being involved with Shiddy in a sexual manner on Skype, when in fact, I don’t have him on Skype, nor have I ever seen Shiddy apart from a link posted in chat once …and what is posted here on the boards. Shiddy cleared this up and still you ran with that lie and spread it where you could. Considering I am very much a taken woman, I have to correct you and ask that you stop spreading this lie. :unsure:
    You got upset at a certain chatter, that you ‘adopted’ for saying nice things about me, you apparently made a pact with another to “run me out”? and you also mentioned the father of my child in a very horrible way. You made false accusations that I spoke ill of him in main chat, when I know that I never have because I hold none of what you said about him to be true, I have never even spoken those words about him… I don’t know where you get this stuff from…But you were vocally adamant about it for some strange reason.

    You speak about trolls, yet you use their tactics and turn a lovely chat into a very uncomfortable and frustrating one… for me anyway. You have to understand that you might dislike other trolls, but you are my troll in chat.
    OH, and…Stop accusing me of having people spy on you…Lol this is so ridiculous on so many levels, and I am more than happy for any moderator or admin to have a look at my pm logs to clarify any doubts you have surrounding the claim that I recruited people to spy or whatever thoughts you have. Do you realize how embarrassing this is as women to have to do this with you day in and day out?

    As a regular and long-time chatter (and poster) I want to thank you for contributing to welcoming of new JustChat members and chatters, I too love new people joining but I also love our oldies, I personally love seeing familiar names. Let’s get the most out of this online community in a positive way. But in order to execute the goal of making this a nice place to chat/make friends, I do ask that you please stop focusing on me by making up rumors and talking about things you have absolutely zero knowledge about, considering you are a new member and all. And if you have your doubts, ask!

    I hope we can move forward and stop this silliness. I did ask for an apology which you ignored. We will have the odd troll here and there, it’s the internet after all, but let’s not become the trolls. You have discredited no one but yourself by doing all this.
    AND!!!!!! Stop mocking my egg-less cake D: which is fair enough! LOL… but I want to explain what you don’t allow me to in chat, it’s a clean eating mud cake recipe and your mockery is with malicious intentions, not a playful one. I love cooking by the way, so sometimes, I alter recipes to see if they taste better or just as good when we remove the fatty things! Also FYI, Pepsi Max contains Aspartame (E951) which directly hinders brain receptor signals that help you identify when you are full, be careful!

    That is all I have to say for now. I did try to talk to you in chat but you ignore me, repeat the same lies and you don’t allow me to talk lol. The only reason why I have replied to this is because you have made it clear that you wish chat was more pleasant, so be a fine example of your own words. (I totally wanted to use a cliche quote here but I will hold off!)

    Have a wonderful day and I will see you in chat! :good:

    #991248

    Omg seriously I’m bored of reading n hearing about the whole she said he said now it’s getting stupid cherrie I’ve never had a problem with you but your making every evening in chat almost a personal attack on Sara along with shifty shiddy it’s like the cherrie n shifty show
    I would ask you again like I did last night to just drop it if you can’t see that that shifty is doing all this as you are a old chatter then you need to ignore Sara :unsure:

    #991250

    Cherrie. I give you absolute kudos for your post and being upfront enough to speak and explain some of the things.I believe that some things never get explained in jc and that leaves people with a very bad impression.I hope to clear up a few myths.
    I spoke to a member of jc after I watched someone get abused,I hadn’t seen anything like that and was shocked that they would abuse someone who had arrived on the same day as me without knowing them. A member of jc who I had said they had been using the rooms for some time,X was there and I requested his advice on if this was normal. I was very upset I hadn’t been able to stop what happened as the person abused had become a friend. But for the next 5 hours X just chatted, until my friend returned- no regs were mentioned- it was about tv,weirdness and my previous chatroom experiance. When I saw you talk you seemed quite calm and kind to others but kept returning to the same subject,yes to engage with one person but what shocked me was you hadn’t considered anyone else might be upset by your comments,and since then I have learned that very many in there have been in that situation with parents. I didn’t believe family members should be brought up in a chatroom,it seemed beneath the impression of you. I defended not just him but the people in there from such. I still believe that it cuts too close to some and was beneath you,i do believe as a parent yourself you are capable of better and doubt you would say such things in public normally. You were then spoken to by someone else W , however despite popular belief I also confronted him over his what i saw as non defence over who i thought was his friend.There was no pre planning. When he mentioned ‘child’ I was taken aback and actually asked him the age. Its the first time I found out and then you confirmed the age. I am a mother. If your daughter was 17 and speaking to a man of a different age and far older I’m sure you would have the same concerns. Especially if those discussions were in private.I chose from that point to keep away from you feeling that it is better to keep away and talk to people I could understand a bit more.
    You’re message is confusing to me. The fact remains that you did these things and yet you don’t seem the type of person to do these things,but the blame onto those two mentioned is unfair. And complete fabrication by other members of jc or one specifically. The same one who stated we were talking about you yesterday when infact we were engaged in mindless rather fun banter started by the lovely JackH .
    I believe you have made some mistakes but also believe you could be different out of this room ,I dont know. But I believe we have a choice, and since the discussion reagrding you and the essy person I have no clear picture of if you have been naive in your friendships and we’re mistaken about you and a genuine person or not.
    The facts of it look bad don’t they?2 weeks ago the person you were speaking to last night hit on a 15 year old and began discussion what he wanted to do to her despite her saying stop and asking us for help so my impression of you is now tarred but not by anyone else but by the company you’ve kept and by the things that you’ve stated. There is a misguided belief I have to agree with everyone and do as they wish and that is not the case. Just like the impression you have of me and what you have been told is based on being told it.Not actually knowing me. But that is the same as the trolls,you do something wrong even before and it will be used. We’re all different people. And we all develop impressions of eachother. I don’t engage with 5 members of chat,inc yourself currently but do with another 39 ,32 of whom I have never had a disagreement,I feel that ,that is wholly within my rights. As is yours to not want to talk to me.
    Just like the conferences,Just chat is like the film,the more you think you see,the less you’ll actually know.
    Thank you for your post and I hope you will enage in the taking care of and support of new members of jc across rooms one and two,and ensure they have a safe and welcoming time and enjoy the jc as much as we all attempt to.
    Sara

    #991252

    It’s something I have witnessed so much in chat with people who are new getting into conversations with others just like I have mentioned before to others,

    However as a veteran I don’t like seeing people
    Who are decent belittling themselves I have also put my point across about the few people this whole situation involves too.
    But I do wish it could just be left and ignored now or I’ll get my stick out !!!

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