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Reading between the lines…. Is marriage not the most on ur adenda now..?? 3 yrs is a long time to let slip away when basically its ur insecurity n doubts which could destroy your relationship, things become habit if you let them. Mr Wolfie is not into holding hands etc in public… mind u he does when he’s p’ss’d lol I not overly affectionate in Public.. i mean when I doin the karaoke in the local on a sat, and u see 2 folks way their tongues stucked down each others throats… if rather off puttin… lol
as said before, ask yourself…. Can you see yourself waking up with this man for the rest of your life…??
What does Marriage mean…???
You don’t need marriage to be comminted to each other, as said spend quailty time with each other, you make more of an effort, put the flame back onto a large roar…. the relationship is what you both make of it, if your not happy speak with him…
best of luck to ya..
HERE MARY YOU ARE IN THE WRONG JOB HUNNY ….. HOPE YOU ARE ALL WELL CYA SOON BABA XXXXXXXXXXXX
Skyblue hasn’t posted since July ffs – she has probably killed her boyfriend and served her prison sentence by now!
i been posting drunk again
@skyblue wrote:
:D/ I really don’t have anyone to talk to abou this. I’ve been living with a guy for three years. He talked about marriage before I moved in. But at the time I wasn’t divorced yet. Now that we have been together for three years there is no talk of it. I’ve asked him if he thinks we will get married and his answer was “I guess”. I do love him but am I wasting my time? He tells me he loves me alot but doesn’t ever show it. He never holds my hand at home or in public. Never puts his arm around me. He is a nice guy and would do anything for anyone. I just don’t know if I should invest more time in this relationship. I am in my mid forties and I don’t want to be single the rest of my life. Help!!!
Yes you are wasting your time. He is using delay tactics, and clearly isnt as commited at you are.
My only advise is, im my opinion, DONT hang yourself from the loft whilst waiting.
You wouldnt make a good agony aunt would you :lol:
Im with Tadpole on this one. Anyone who says ‘I guess’ doesnt know themselves if they want to get married.
Why is marriage so important anyway? Its supposed to be for life apparently and everyone just ends up getting divorced. If you ask me marriage just seems to complicate everything in this day and age.
Youve been together 3 years why are women so obsessed on getting married????
so they can have a hen night and mis behave
@becky wrote:
You wouldnt make a good agony aunt would you :lol:
Well what a stupid thread, why ask for advise when the answer is as obvious as if you had a c o c k growing on your face.
@tommy-toxen wrote:
are you divorced now??
if you’re not, perhaps he is getting bored? or even if you are perhaps he is getting bored? maybe you should go away together and rekindle some flames?
it does sound to me like he’s bored and is waiting for something, i only say this because i acted very similar to him in a past relationship, but i’m sure he still loves you, because i loved my ex very much but didn’t show it either because i was just bored.
try doing more fun things together, go out on dates, give yourselves a bit of peace and quiet on your own a bit too in between so then you’re happy to see eachother again.
but most importantly, talk to him about it.
wow tommy…. thats a pretty deep and meaningful insight…me thinks u maybe rite. n e how …hope u manage to work it out hun remember we only have the one life…. and regrets keep us down xx….. do i make sense or am i as thick as i think i am ??
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