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30 July, 2007 at 11:30 pm #280844
@sharongooner wrote:
@matty wrote:
@sharongooner wrote:
Talkin of myspace has yours disapeared Matty?
it did do.. its back now.. but just for my blogs.. use face book now
So you gone up in the world, myspacers not good enough for you anymore now you got your own place?
I see :?
i no longer like myspace to be honest, also i found somthing on face book called word press, so going to do the blogs on there, just found myspace a little to repetive, i also got fed up with the spam that kept appearing everywhere
30 July, 2007 at 11:31 pm #280845what is face book, i aint ever used it or no anyone that uses it. Is it better than myspace?
30 July, 2007 at 11:45 pm #280846yeah, its now bigger then myspace too.. http://www.facebook.com has various applications that come with it.. infact over 700 i think, if you choose to install them on your page, anything from fantasy football to somthing really pointless like “the bar” where you can buy your friends a drink
its a good way to organise and keep in touch also and to see what everyone is upto with a click of a button
30 July, 2007 at 11:47 pm #280847My friend tried to look at her mates piccys on there but it wouldnt let her. Do you have to be a member?
30 July, 2007 at 11:48 pm #280848you have to be a member and in most cases you have to be friends with the person with the pictures
31 July, 2007 at 12:07 am #280849Sounds alot like myspace if you ask me. and i am happy with my mates on there, i would have to start all over again, and none of my mates are on there. :?
31 July, 2007 at 12:10 am #280850@matty wrote:
ok, here is somthing for you all to ponder with, i’ll try not to go on
but my friend currently works in a very enjoyable job for a little amount of money, the reason it is enjoyable is because she gets on so well with her boss, so well that they go to gigs together, she buys her gifts for no reason, looked after her.. groomed her and given her confidence over the years
however, the time had come for her to look for a job for more money, so she applied for a job and got it.. its about 5 grand a year more, she was over whelmed
but her boss has not taken it too well, her boss has insulted her, called her selfish and basicly shut the door in her face and told her to get out of her house tonight, she feels really bad, her current boss has basicly black mailed her to say, stay here.. or me for or lose the friendship
she is cut up about it, my opinion is, that maybe her boss is’nt the friend she cracked up to be, she is in tears now… and not only has her boss been insulting her but her ex boyfriend has too who is also friends with her… she is now to the stage where she thinks she will refuse this new job for the sake of keeping the peace
I think thats daft… what would you do? and how would you as a friend deal with it, do i step in and try and help and speak to her boss, or leave her to it
to me, she is getting bullied and part of me wants to get involved because this should’nt happen, regardless of how hurt her boss may feel
sharron.. you are the only one up right now.. give us your feedback :)
I would say that the problem stems from the fact that your friend’s boss became not just an employer but a friend; and I imagine that she is angry and lashing out because she is hurt. She probably feels that the friend she has grown close to, has somehow betrayed her by leaving her to go elsewhere. In time, if she is a true friend she will understand why your chum wants to improve her financial situation. I think there is no going back now..time for your friend to move onwards and upwards..to dry her tears and look forward to happier times.
31 July, 2007 at 9:06 am #280851@oss wrote:
Sounds alot like myspace if you ask me. and i am happy with my mates on there, i would have to start all over again, and none of my mates are on there. :?
welcome to face book :)
31 July, 2007 at 9:21 am #280852Take it the dilema is solved now :lol:
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