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    When I first started to chat over two years ago I was lets say less than streetwise. I spoke to people in chat some I liked some I disliked… and yes some I thought were not telling the truth.

    One thing no-one can prepare themselves for though is the what I will call professional liars, men who delight in misleading people especially women, and have multiple names and persona’s.

    They use several computers and have more than one ISP.. they back up one persona with another even chatting to themselves in the chat rooms or on the boards to convince other users of their individual existence. I have been a victim of one of these people… it left me unable to trust anyone here and l very rarely ever go into chat… I feel too vulnerable there.

    Im saying they as if there is more than one…. I have only ever been the victim of one….but Im sure others have their stories to tell….

    #487321

    name and shame mrs t

    but we already know its joker :shock:

    #487322

    @thin ice wrote:

    name and shame mrs t

    but we already know its joker :shock:

    I have decided not to name the person involved… quite honestly thin… he scares me.

    Besides I wonder if others have had similar experiences? Maybe they have tips on how to avoid these people… or what motivates a person to do it in the first place? Im not sure why someone would want to hurt me so badly… just for the hell of it.

    I hold no grudges though… my own silly fault.

    #487323

    maybe they have dissociative disorder or bipolar Mrs T,im a size 8 5,11 legs upto my neck, long blonde hair,(i jest)i know what you mean and i am a little street wise. It seems some thrive on talking a load of bull, probably more sense comes out of the other end of there body.They would not know normality, honesty if it hit them in the face. Ive heard some tales from some chatters mainly about there illnesses,cant get a job cos there illness and there wifes have left them(lol)just looking for an easy ticket ride out of a bad lifestyle, my advice get off ya ass n get a job, being in a chat room 24/7 wont find ya one.It now goes all straight over my head, take them with a pinch of salt

    #487324

    hi lucy and leeds
    well i dont know how you both feel
    but im in two minds about this thread

    #487325

    Thank you Lucy for taking the time to reply…. your advice and shared experience is appreciated. Thank you too to the three ladies who PMed me with their experiences and advice… I fully understand why its difficult to share publicly.

    Happy Friday Everyone :D

    #487326

    @mrs_teapot wrote:

    Thank you Lucy for taking the time to reply…. your advice and shared experience is appreciated. Thank you too to the three ladies who PMed me with their experiences and advice… I fully understand why its difficult to share publicly.

    Happy Friday Everyone :D

    did they all say joker too :?:

    #487327

    huggs for mrs t x

    #487328

    No names were discussed thin… and thank you Dennis… but truly no need Im fine.

    Its quite therapeutic admitting to yourself you were gullible and a bit thick…. and there was me thinking I was perfect :? :D :shock:

    #487329

    ive been duped too
    some one told me it was just sex
    then they wanted love
    when will i ever learn :shock:

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