I took my husband’s name , u just did in those pre-historic times. When I got a divorce after 35 years of marriage my ex actually told me I couldn’t keep his name. Lol. Well since I had had that name twice as long as I had had my maiden name, and it was the name of my children (well my son at least) I didn’t see why I should change.
I never liked my maiden name anyway. I did think about creating a new name but my bank said they would only accept my maiden name and it started getting complicated so I just stayed with what I had, and it has the extra quality of irritating the ex lol.