Mothers Day 26th March UK – 14th May USA

@squeezy wrote:

@becky wrote:

Thats why im so thankful my mom is the best ever coz i could have one like my hubby :lol:

I know – my MIL is a pain – she smokes & drinks (heavily), has no manners whatsoever :shock: Yet she wonders why the kids never stay over :roll:

I’ll still get her something nice for OH to give her on Mothers’ day though

OMG you have just described my MIL she is all that plus some :lol:

@squeezy wrote:

Lol…maybe they were seperated at birth?? :lol: :lol: :lol:

Or maybe it’s just something that happens to women as they get older :shock: :shock: :shock:

Pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee dont say that i would rather die than end up like her! Washed up old biddy :shock:

well maybe she is right BBlue…. as your words are foolish. My teenage years was a battle field with my Mother. The things I called her. Your Mother at the end of the day is still proably tryin to keep you as her little girl. ( my mother still does it at times with me ) her natural instints is to protect her own. She might not like the paths and directions you are taken is part of your grownin up, she doesnt’ wish you to make mistakes.. and proably is bein over protective… which is entirely natural. Can you sit there and think of unpleasant things you have said to you mother..? and have said sorry for…?? Its part n parcel of Mother n Daughter relationships… make the 1st move… talk to her.. if you can’t feel you can do this, write down your feelings, write down how you feel about whats she says to you. ( she proably has forgotten she said it in the heat of the moment). She will be findin it hard her *baby* is grown into a young lady. Mothers do think we know best..!! My own wee Lass is grownin up quickly ( too quickie) before my eyes… and already the battle lines are startin to get drawn. BBlue life is too short… Honestly too short.. I lost my Father 4 yrs ago on the 28th March…. and 2day im still bitterly regret things were not put right before he died… and the guilt torments u…

@Beatty Blue wrote:

@abitofmary_j wrote:

@Beatty Blue wrote:

@abitofmary_j wrote:

BBlue…. when your older and have kids… you’ll apprectiate you own mother more..!!! believe me.. I gave my mam such a hard time growin up… to the point where guilt now lies in my path..! its easy to bite the bullet and say your sorrys…. your mum will probaly be only lookin out for U… at the end of the day she will be the best friend u’ve ever had and will ever have…. but sadly u don’t realise that when younger..!

but you’ll look back and think JMMOG… that MJ was right… lol

well… first of all I will never ever want to have kids. Life’s too short to be wasted on them :roll:

and I know my mom loves me and only wishes the best for me. But WHY does she have to be so bloody stupid!?!? why?! she doesn’t have all the answers, she doesn’t know everything and first of all: SHE DOESN’T KNOW ME!!! :x just because she’s seen me growing up doesn’t mean she has any idea who I am… and she cruelly left me alone when I needed some one to help me through the hard times in my life. And I will never forget the time when she looked at me straight in the eye and said: “I think you are a fool” :evil:
she loves me only because I’m her daughter (she kind of has to) but as person… she doesn’t even like me. :?

Oh BBlue….. re-read what you typed…!! why you say… well maybe if you start will actually airing your feelings to your mother. When I read you post. ( in a mother eyes ) I was very disheartned. Yet it was very familiar.. think ive have said these words myself at some point about my Mother. You Mother can’t help you if she doesnt know theirs a problem. She will just presume its the chip on your shoulder that children get towards their parents. She is not a mind reader, if you actually spoke with her, or even pen’ed a letter to her atleast she will know YOUR feelings, then try to guide you.
I think you should be very lucky like myself we both have our Mothers. sadly not all are so fortunate….

erm… no

I don’t hate her, but I still mean what I wrote.

She called me a fool and hasn’t taken it back. I don’t have to take that [-(

@Beatty Blue wrote:

just to make myself clear: You don’t have to tell me how short life is!!! I don’t have the time to listen onther people telling me how foolish I am :?
and my relationship to my mother is getting better… she starting to let me live my own life – finally!

well if you don’t wish to read/listen to what other people say. don’t make foolish comments on the threads then..

and how rude your post is.! people only telling you how it is, we’re not much older but alot wiser. This comes with age my dear. you will learn. a wee saying you might not of heard of… and will make sense to you 1 day. *A son is your son until he takes a wife… A daughters your daughter all of your life.*

you will have many moments with your Mother, commuication is one of value…. glad things are getting better.

lol… aye i saw ur post… i mind we got called oot on Asemble day…. all us bad ums’ lol lined up for the strap…. i mind i was up for 3… lol and i ended up gettin 5… lol as when the Rector aimed…. his arm doon half his back…. and this strap comin at me at 110mphs… with full force… i moved me hands lol i did it again as i got a huge laff fae me audiance the things i did for laffs lol…. ohhh the pain when he did get me…