A well-made cocktail may be a perilous pleasure, but it isn’t the only one. More than a few people have been undone by love, but we don’t abjure it. Rather, one of the central storylines in the history of civilization has been the effort to make love livable.
A good drink, though not without risk, can be eminently livable. Alcohol is no doubt a drug, but in moderation it is a very social one. It primes the conversational pump; it nudges the shy from the bonds of their awkwardness; it midwives romance; it concludes treaties. Firewater, like fire, can be awesomely destructive; learning to marshal the power of both is a hallmark of civilization.
– Eric Felten, “The Art of Drinking Well”, The Wall Street Journal, November 24 2007