I never got on very well with Norton, though my boy upstairs is running it, and it is okay.
When I was running it, it picked up a virus that I had to manually delete. I never had a printer, so had to write down all the instructions and do the whole thing manually, what a bl**dy job!
So, got rid of that and used that AVG thingy and that picked it up straight away and got rid of the nusiance.
Im only running the Mcafee as it came free with my new broadband subscription, but I do miss the good thing about Norton and that is what you said above, it remembers things and asks. A bit of a pain at times, but it was there nevertheless.