Leaving

@forumhostpb wrote:

Well the leavers having left in cloud of self righteous indignation …….. lets all see how long it takes before they return (possibly in another name) to carry on with their incessant whinging.

nuff said now PB? some very nice people have left for their own reasons. These boards are supposed to be relatively speaking free speech?

Lets move on ay? all this bickering and playground behavour is waypast its sell by date dont you think? Lets post some decent topics and get this place buzzing again. I think the fight room is ok for those that like it and i’m not on me high horse, and it says something i guess the way it has grown so quickly, not sure what it says tho lol .

I’ve already said on one thread on here i am still grateful to JC its given me the opportunity to meet people i would not have met and i have made some very good freinds on here.

A couple of months ago no one could have predicted how JC boards were going to get out of the mess it was in , there were some very strong characters on here and JC was not a nice place, but the boards have got through it, lost some very nice people along the way but had scraped through. Forum 3 seems to be dying though with the crossword and suduko going but there must be someone with the time to keep them going.

PB you are a chat host here and should be a ‘step away’ from all this. it would be nice to see some of the other chat hosts around too though. One thing that is good is that martin is around a little more than he used to be.

ok i’ll shut up now and i dont care about those out there that are saying things like ‘self righteous cow’ or similar phrases, I have just as much right to express what is my point of view as anyone else.

hugsters xxx

@bat wrote:

Lets move on ay? all this bickering and playground behavour is waypast its sell by date dont you think? Lets post some decent topics and get this place buzzing again. I think the fight room is ok for those that like it and i’m not on me high horse, and it says something i guess the way it has grown so quickly, not sure what it says tho lol .

Dont talk garbage woman..it,s bloody good fun. :lol: I love a good row..I,ve just started one with sunny lol. :lol: Come on get over to the fight thread and hurl some abuse.. you,ll feel so much better. :lol: And ffs dont discourage PB from hurling abuse too. Leave him alone. He,s very good at it. :lol: He encourages me, (but dont tell him I told you,shhhh) :lol: :lol: :wink:

lol batty hugsters xxxx

@fastcars wrote:

Yeah lets all be nice…. :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

:roll: :roll: :roll: lmao xxx

@forumhostpb wrote:

Ya self-righteous cow Cath :lol:

But seriously, the Boards are only some electronic space on a server. These ones happen to be owned by JustChat – but there are many thousands out there for those who have the desire to explore.. However, the content, and what these Boards are all about as it were, is entirely up to you (the registered users).

To take your point about the other Hosts moderating on here.OK I tend to spend a lot of my free time moderating the Boards, and my colleague Hosts spend their time primarily in the chatrooms, moderating there. So we ‘unofficially’ divide our energies this way, which is why you see me on here more than say GM or CL or NM. That said, we support each other so that if one is away or whatever, then the others will cover for them.

As for leavers Cath. The issue that irritates most regular Board members is the one where a user leaves in a huff demanding that their account be closed and all their posts deleted etc etc and then shortly afterwards they return with a different user name. A lot of them leave declaring that ”this place is shyte” and telling the entire internet how much they hate it here.

Fair enough, we do not and indeed cannot please everybody all of the time but if JustChat is so terrible and they hate it so much then why bother returning? Makes no sense to me.

Sometimes they do it because they have a long running dislike of, or feud with, an existing or current user and they lose no opportunity to carry on stirring up issues with that user, in their new name. In other words the leaving ploy is simply that – it is in reality a poor excuse to carry on an existing feud.

In the end it creates a sort of ‘paranoia’ with current members demanding to know who a new user is and believing that they are an old user returning etc. Sometimes they are totally accurate and sometimes not – but it can discourage newbies from posting which is a pity.

Cath, let me end by reminding you that you personally contribute to making these Boards what they are – along with all the other users who have registered and post stuff. If you don’t like the content then change it. If the topics are boring for you then post some topics that interest you. The Boards are and will only be what the users make them

just hugs xx

@Lambrini Girl wrote:

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lamo lamby xxx