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10 October, 2012 at 12:06 pm #512006
I would imagine there are quite a few people feeling uneasy right now.
As for censorship, I agree that I wouldn’t want to return to the bad old days. I was simply expressing my personal opinion that I don’t think abuse should be joked about and made light of.
10 October, 2012 at 2:29 pm #512007I think Jimmy Saville was part of a culture of inappropriateness when under-age girls flocked round celebrities. I am very sure that other DJs and pop stars did things with under-age girls, probably consensual, perhaps in knowledge of their true age, but not necessarily so. Jimmy’s actions could easily have gone unnoticed as part of this type of hero worship.
Rather than seeing this as an isolated case and going after the people who didn’t report him, we need to understand how it happened and do our best not to let this kind of culture develop around our celebrities.
This is all much bigger and much more worrying than just Jimmy Saville and needs all of us to look into our hearts about the risks we accept and what is suitable for girls under 16 when it comes to contact with celebrities.
Every “grope” and assault from the 60s to the 90s is not going to come out, but the lessons about how to better protect youngsters from this sort of thing need to be learned.
10 October, 2012 at 5:09 pm #512008@jen_jen wrote:
I would imagine there are quite a few people feeling uneasy right now.
As for censorship, I agree that I wouldn’t want to return to the bad old days. I was simply expressing my personal opinion that I don’t think abuse should be joked about and made light of.
I don’t think anybody was making light of abuse.
But I’m glad you don’t want to go back to the bad old days of wowserism, where books like Lawrence’s The Rainbow were burned.
So what is abuse? It’s quite a wide-ranging affair whihc is being so vaguely talked about, from unwanted petting to rape.
I’ve no idea of what Jimmy S did or didn’t – I didn’t like him when I was a teenager, watching Top of the Pops back in 64. He strikes me as a representative of bling culture, buried in a gold coffin taking up three graves, or so I’m told.
But he’s dead, can#t defend himself and I don’t like the circus that’s developing. I’ve said from the start of this thread that it’s a workplace culture whiere the pwoerful can get away with anything and those who stand out get punished or evend estroyed whihc is the real problem there.
But in terms of harassment, where are the lines to be drawn? There are obviously things which are unacceptable, and I’m happy that the type of control abuse so long practised by men and women is now being highlighted as wrong.
But what is abuse? where does it become unacceptable? What should be censored, and what should be open to punishment???
10 October, 2012 at 5:19 pm #512009@sceptical guy wrote:
From my memory, underage girls were seen as part of the rewards for pop bands in the 60s. There was certainly plenty of opportunity.
I do hope that any allegations about Sir John Lennon, Sir Paul McCartney, Sir Ringo Starr, Sir Mick Jagger aren’t being covered up!
I’m sure none are made, though, as these gentlemen were surely saintly when it came to girls.
You sound as if you think all men would regularly have had sex with 12 or 13 year old girls. That really does not say much for the male of the species. I know the point you are makiing, but unfortunately, you have done the equivalent to shooting yourself in the foot.
10 October, 2012 at 5:31 pm #512010@minim wrote:
@sceptical guy wrote:
From my memory, underage girls were seen as part of the rewards for pop bands in the 60s. There was certainly plenty of opportunity.
I do hope that any allegations about Sir John Lennon, Sir Paul McCartney, Sir Ringo Starr, Sir Mick Jagger aren’t being covered up!
I’m sure none are made, though, as these gentlemen were surely saintly when it came to girls.
You sound as if you think all men would regularly have had sex with 12 or 13 year old girls. That really does not say much for the male of the species. I know the point you are makiing, but unfortunately, you have done the equivalen to shooting yourself in the foot.
Scep, what exactly are you saying? (or not saying)
10 October, 2012 at 7:22 pm #512011@jen_jen wrote:
I would imagine there are quite a few people feeling uneasy right now.
As for censorship, I agree that I wouldn’t want to return to the bad old days. I was simply expressing my personal opinion that I don’t think abuse should be joked about and made light of.
Very true but..
Jimmy Savilles last request was for his ashes to be put into an Etch-a-Sketch so that kids could continue to fiddle with his knob
What do Margaret Thatcher and Jimmy Saville have in common ?
They both shafted minors in the 1980’s.
Dont fancy one if those Jimmy Saville tracksuits…its normal size tops but you need to squeeze into child size bottoms!
10 October, 2012 at 7:30 pm #512012dear jim
please can you fix it for me to go on holiday with a girl from my class
thanksjeremy 30
i wasnt going to bother until somebody else started.
10 October, 2012 at 7:36 pm #512013And the above two posters are examples of why a 19 year old boy is now serving 12 weeks inside!
10 October, 2012 at 10:37 pm #512014@minim wrote:
@sceptical guy wrote:
From my memory, underage girls were seen as part of the rewards for pop bands in the 60s. There was certainly plenty of opportunity.
I do hope that any allegations about Sir John Lennon, Sir Paul McCartney, Sir Ringo Starr, Sir Mick Jagger aren’t being covered up!
I’m sure none are made, though, as these gentlemen were surely saintly when it came to girls.
You sound as if you think all men would regularly have had sex with 12 or 13 year old girls. That really does not say much for the male of the species. I know the point you are makiing, but unfortunately, you have done the equivalent to shooting yourself in the foot.
minim, sometimes we put things in the right way, sometimes not.
I try to make my points in my own way, sometimes well, sometimes not well.
The discussion in its serious aspects has moved on to what constitutes harssment – to me, anyway. We’ll see if that is taken up or left behind.
The actual accusations against Jimmy S are ongoing – some of them seem quite bizzarre – molesting an incapacitated women in her bed in Stoke Mandeville hospital, I was reading on teh BBC website, though the woman who saw this was too ill to complain at the time(!!) Seems odd. But if true, very damning. How do we know it’s true? No doubt the Yard will let us know one way or the other.
11 October, 2012 at 7:53 am #512015@minim wrote:
@sceptical guy wrote:
From my memory, underage girls were seen as part of the rewards for pop bands in the 60s. There was certainly plenty of opportunity.
I do hope that any allegations about Sir John Lennon, Sir Paul McCartney, Sir Ringo Starr, Sir Mick Jagger aren’t being covered up!
I’m sure none are made, though, as these gentlemen were surely saintly when it came to girls.
You sound as if you think all men would regularly have had sex with 12 or 13 year old girls. That really does not say much for the male of the species. I know the point you are makiing, but unfortunately, you have done the equivalent to shooting yourself in the foot.
I know Scep has made his point in quite a controversial way, but I do think that there are wider issues about the actions of male DJs, rock stars, actors etc. etc. over the years.
And it is quite damning, not of the whole males species, but of the people who have abused their power.
We do need to think about how young girls relate to celebrities and how we protect them. Is it acceptable to let vulnerable under age girls have days out unsupervised with a celebrity on his own? How do we protect girls who flock round pop stars and can be taken advantage of, willing or otherwise. How do we stop girls who want a career in the media from being abused and all of the nastiness of the casting couch or the casual grope while working?
These questions are more important than simply condemning a dead man who has committed abuse, especially when our common sense tells us that it is not an isolated case.
We can fry the guy who pulled the BBC investigation from Newsnight and take down Jimmy Saville’s headstone, but the unpleasant stench of a culture which allowed abuse must be challenged.
We don’t need to ruin the many who kept their mouths shut to protect their reputations, mortgages, or kept quite so that they could carry on working to feed their families. We certainly don’t need to ruin the reputations of any of those people who were victims. These people are all suffering right now as we speak.
But once we stop flinging the mud and blaming everyone else, we do need to understand all the implications and not put all this down to one bad apple.
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