that turns you on…………now hang on, hang on……….listen first!! Now obviously, for me, just to look at my fella gets me, his smell, his touch, the fact that he makes me breakfast every morn and all that crap, but i’m sitting at his desk and i’ve just seen something with his hand writing on it and i thought………….god, i love that man 8) is there something that you look at (pish off perves, that includes you angel :lol: :wink: ) that makes you smile about your other half