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then bumping into your ex in town with her new boyfriend
i mean, what you meant to say, when she asks… are you ok
i mean, i still love her and i see her happy with this small midget, personal opinion – she can do a lot better, i don’t mean me, i mean somone better then this little scrabbie midget whos just come from the lord of the rings
i did’nt tell her that though, i just mumbled some crap and toddled off to some place where i did’nt know where i was going too, pretending to look intrested at somthing in a shop window, which happened to be the scope shop – not good
ruined my night out now, so any ideas or suggestions to make me snap out of it and move on..
apart from shag a stranger… did that last weekend, did’nt work.. maybe shag a better looking stanger?
not much you can do chick :?
we have all been there and its awful.
first time i bumped into my ex with his young(shes 11 yrs younger than me) blonde bit of stuff was awful. i didnt know what to say and i was sooo jealous. but the more i saw them together the less it bothered me. now i couldnt care less :Dthinking i should’nt have posted this, as i know people should’nt really take much care out of somone else love life, or lack of one
just felt i just needed advice though, so thanks gb
its been 18 months now though, in that time i have met 5 or 6 different girls.. no one came close.. well one did, but she did’nt feel the same as me, now we don’t even talk to each other
but its just life seems to have stopped for me since i left her, can’t seem to get back on track
i guess i am relying on the fact though, i did meet somone i liked, fact she was intrested should’nt come into it? i mean i am guessing i’ll meet somone again in time like her,who would be intrested
anyway, look at me go on, i’m not even drunk lol
whats happening today, i’m gonna get such a slating for this thread, i know
In my opinion (which i know on here dont count for much) shagging a stranger is the wrong thing to do,you should be going out to meet the right one for you(which in time you will find).Anyway hope you have a nice night and keep you mind and eyes open she could be around the next corner
@soulie wrote:
thinking i should’nt have posted this, as i know people should’nt really take much care out of somone else love life, or lack of one
just felt i just needed advice though, so thanks gb
its been 18 months now though, in that time i have met 5 or 6 different girls.. no one came close.. well one did, but she did’nt feel the same as me, now we don’t even talk to each other
but its just life seems to have stopped for me since i left her, can’t seem to get back on track
i guess i am relying on the fact though, i did meet somone i liked, fact she was intrested should’nt come into it? i mean i am guessing i’ll meet somone again in time like her,who would be intrested
anyway, look at me go on, i’m not even drunk lol
whats happening today, i’m gonna get such a slating for this thread, i know
You know soulie they say you shouldn’t go out looking for love as it happens when you least expect it. Maybe you are just trying to find somebody to much, and maybe that is why you find nobody who you care for enough.
Or maybe your trying to replace your ex with somebody else, so much that nobody can live up to her or come close. You might never love somebody the way you loved her, but you will find someone who you love as just much in a completely different way.Whatever happens dont worry about it too much, as girls dont go for men who worry alot or who are on the re-bound from their ex’s.
well said racquel
having spoke to you many times soulie you know what i think about it all.
you cant replace the ex just gotta find someone totally different, dont compare every lass to ex it doesnt work and you’ll find someone when you least expect.
just try to get on with things.no mate, leave them to it, shes happy, so i’m happy i guess… well i’m not happy, more bitter
i think what is needed, is 5 pints of stella a dance, and a pizza on the way home
must be hard 4 you i would just try to live your own life and you will meet sum1 who loves you and you will love em back its hard if you still love this women i was with my boys father 4 seven years and we split up i thought i would never meet any1 who i would love. but i did and now im happyer than ever in fact i meat him on the net noe we r getting married and live toghter you will 1 day meet sum1 ele who you love im sure of it xxxxxxx
Soulie, most of us have been there at some point and can relate to how hard it is. You know my background, you know the problems it cost me and I truely believed I’d never move on (much as I might have tried to kid myself). You do though. I don’t know how or when but at some point you do finally look back and realise that things are different. I will always love my ex in some way, despite him being a tw@t… you just realise your no longer “in love” with them. You’re time will come, just dont keep hunting for it.
Oh and as a final thought… if Claire and you did get back together would you honestly be really happy. I don’t think you would be. Sooner or later the doubts you had would creep back in. yes we make mistakes, yes things change, but reality is ex’s are ex’s for a reason, hard as that can be at times.
We’ve had our differences, but you are a nice guy and Im sure in time you will meet your soul mate.
Now chin up, get out there and go get sloshed with your mates lol. Have a good un x
It’s like the fu.cking Trisha show in here. :roll:
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