internet liars and horror stories

Well not so much “stories” really as I havent chosen to ignore any lies yet so its not really had an impact, but some observations

The majority of deceit I’ve seen online in the last 10 years on and around dating and friendship sites hasnt been someone doing it TO someone, its actually more common for people to be doing it to themselves

They see what they want to see, totally ignore anything they dont want to see, hear what they want, dont hear or totally twist and rewrite what is said to them so they can have or do what they want at that moment in time

When the truth becomes unnavoidable they then croon on about being decieved or “played” is the buzz word often used and then milk anyone who will oblige for sympathy till they feel like “milking” the next person who will “deceive” them in a totally different way

To be fair it doesnt seem to be conscious most of the time, and both halves of a dysfunctional couple seem to be doing it to themselves equally so i think its more to do with the amount of emotionally broken and dysfunctional people who are turning to online encounters as a means to regaining their confidence and sanity before inflicting themselves on the real world thats the cause

But when someone has repeated “deciets” that are pretty much identical, either they are totally retarded or arent really being “decieved” by anyone except themselves

If someone assumes something that hasnt been said theyre decieving themselves

If someone can see various meanings to something but silently chooses the one they want to be the case then ditto

If someone has things that are important to them but avoids discussing them, or “assumes” their values will be the same as a partners they are deceiving themselves

Etc etc ad infinitum

As adults theres no excuse for not communicating and theres certainly no excuse for repeating the same “mistakes” over and over, well, not acceptable ones at least lol

@oss wrote:

I met…….. rainnyroos and her mate, Matty and his mate, Sian, Lucky and RubyRed and they is all nutters. And before you go asking for any dirt on me there aint any so bugger off lol. :lol: :lol:

you always forget about me oss

ohhh i have met quite a few jc regulars but i cant tell any gossip or they’d only give away all my secrets :-$

im doing super rubes just super. stressing over exams at the min but they will soon be over :D

yes its my final finals lol.
im within reaching distance of a degree :lol: