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Mooosey, I’d say I get on with the vast majority of people in here. Out of a pool of about 200 odd chatters, theres maybe a dozen or so I dont get on with and try to avoid. We can’t all get on and all like everyone. It would be easier to list the few I don’t get on with rather than the vast majority I do. Why you want to single out 3 of the 200 odd chatters in here to try to make some sort of point against me says more about you than it does me I think. I dont suppose you get on with absolutely everybody either do you? And out of the majority that you do get on with, you can be sure plenty of them will have “issues” of some sort.So I’m failing to see your point really. Furthermore, it’s all about chat styles and chat approaches and what we wish to get out of chat. Because we have different approaches to chat, different reasons for coming here, it doesn’t make any one more valid than the other. One could argue that those with the “issues” perhaps need chat friends more, to talk about the issues. I like to have a heavy deep kind of chat, and chat about things of substance, with some meat on the bone, to get my teeth into, rather than the flippant throwaway light and fluffy meaningless pointless lol pmsl rofl lo lo lol banter that others perhaps like. Maybe thats why those with “issues” gravitate towards me, and I them. Of the 3 you mentioned, with the exception of Blossom, who I have never really considered as a friend, just someone I used to chat to, Tracy and Mizzy will only speak very highly and respectful towards me, as I do them, 2 out of 3 aint bad. As Mizzy herself said to you
Me and Elvis are friends in chat, do not presume that I do not have my own personality and cant make my own judgements.
So what really is your point here?
Erm .. so you know how you mentioned on a previous thread , about Linda ? And your lack of comprehension ? Or that it’s so convoluted that you don’t bother ? DITTO !!!
Yawn
Apologies if I’ve missed a valid point unlikely tho it is …
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Just an add on … i mean no harm but Mizzy has admitted herself she has issues.. he choses women with issues No offence intended but. Mizzy. Blossom . Madmoiselle ? She’ll hate me for saying that but she’s not too stupid to see it pattern ?
You need to keep my name out of that list.
You even implied I was on drugs in the room, once or even twice..
Methinks you must be projecting, as I have neither mental health issues, nor am I on drugs.
No moose I’ve no reason to apologise since I’m not happy you brought me and my ‘issues’ up to make your point. I’ve now decided I don’t have any issues so in future everyone can stop discussing them. You all have issues anyway, probably bigger issues than I do with your point scoring argumentative nonsense.
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ELVIS-
“Am I only one who doesn’t even bother trying to read Linda’s posts?”
???, well you did, replied, apparently you read some. Commented. Actually complemented on yours, yours on mine. Actually some nice. Did not read post? Umm, am I stupid? Lies?“Actually Linda is the only one here that makes me feel stupid, that’s because I don’t understand….”
Could have or any one else,
would explain best I could. Think did some times with difference of fries and chips. Holidays and vacation word meanings for us here, you there..
Stupid a word use personal against me I openly admit, I am. You well I am even more glad for this purpose when you say it. Do not know how anyone who really read this did only understand my fear, my own stupidity and safety for where I live. What things I offered in learning about here.
You and a friend took a sensitive area and post and started a September 11th (911) attack in my Country. Structures if buildings. Said we “know” put it in private chat by you. Your friend did not listen..”home spun, Seattle,” by the way correct your friend with honesty, the proper name in the United States is Seattle, Washington, not near Texas. Continued conversation scaring me to death, saying you here 911, and also involved with the planning of it. This is why my strong responses were made. Fear.
Do not understand that? Another terror attack? Personally going through it 6 times before. 2 times in. 4 times way too close.
Is that such a different style of chat/writing/understanding feeling threatened by reading and understanding. Took no joke in both your conversations, in which as American, felt fear…
Often have said in posts like to learn. Attacks of few fine, as our culture and employments different in some degree. Thousands of us in America have jobs called the “Helping profession.” We all work with clients which have confidential agreements. Protection under laws here called “HIPPA.” Many many of us, thousands have to be careful with our clients as some times for reasons,violence may happen against the “helper.” We work with many many connected agencies. So no, I am not on a secret mission, however since one area of expert field is violence, me and thousands like me have many safety provisions set up for us to do our jobs. If providing again for some of you as do not lie. One of your own discussed “Topp”. I personally took this as wanting death/suicide for this person. At a distance, as a helper, provided UK listings to speak with some one to help. What my profession, training and skills do. As a responder help those who wish to die, harm self. Part of my job. Mandated reporter is also by law what must do. Report harm, threats and violence to certain agencies. So hopefully this clears up those who do not understand my post(s). Again hope this provides closure for me and you. What Elvis did crossed the line..1 member liked this post.
P.s.s..
I really forgot a few things.
Often I have tried to explain things perhaps not understood when I have been nastingly attacked (by a small few, think 3/4 of you, direct hits)
Weapons- explained on a post how easy one could get one. Gave mine up 10 years ago. It is our law..”if you hold any weapons and they are lost or stolen, found to be used in another crime or death” person who owns them can get in trouble go to jail. If you know person or not or involved this is the law. Owner of any weapon responsible for them. I did not want mine stolen or lost. One job required to wear one. Retired from it. Enjoyment season/fall would go out at hunting season. As I never liked to kill animals or hunt bambi, I just like to shoot at targets, bottles. Arrows/bows better few years ago. Not keeping up with practice and hay sacks my arthritis kicked in some. Hard on fingers not keeping practice.
Also as in the helping profession we are not allowed to hurt any clients in physical defense. We are not allowed. This is the reason for back up. My friend last week attacked. Broken nose, as knowing she would of, could of, she needs her job as rest of us, to pay bills. The attacker was jailed, now she physically suffers and needs healing time. Had a few of my own issues. Stalker once, 4 months. Protection constantly could not breath/live constantly followed. Eventually caught. Jailed. Still in. He beat up on his wife so bad, almost killed her,his children too physically hurt. As a responder,some one reaching out for help confidential,had to report it to the authorities. My job. So does this clear up the bull or think ballocks if meant the same.(Hard)(Smooth) – down time, paint ceramics, knit, cross stitch, read books, watch old shows, dvd movies. Think said in post “Braveheart, Gladiator, Game of Thrones” some of my favorites, Twilight series (scep).
Learning as telling everyone trying to do as making a visit earlier next year just wish some of you who had mistrust in me, questioned my real name and so forth found other methods instead of making me feel we had understanding in our posts to later find out here reading some posts what you really thought..providing explanation now is my way for closing your evil remarks thrown my way..
Have a nice day. Father’s Day here, have to go to my father’s grave. Report in what things I did wrong this week. I miss him, my true loved friend. Never allowing me to enlist as he knew I would be killed first in the army due to trust issues, helping hand so to speak. GEEZ really did it in these chat places. Need to confess looking at ground/sky what a mess I am…..
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We are all mess in one way or another, many of us carry physical and/or mental scars and guard our hearts closely. Places like this can provide an outlet for people to express their thoughts, their feelings and it can be too easy sometimes to be careless with our words yet amongst all the trolling, ridicule and one-upmanship there is sometimes to be found friendship and understanding.
There are so many different characters here, not all are going to get on,just like in real life and one mans friend will be anothers enemy.
Who to trust in places like this? That has to be a personal call. There are some on here that I have, and do, trust that others avoid. Some that seem to have let some down, that are viewed unfavourably yet they have never given me cause to regret my trust. I have been let down by some that appear sweet as sugar who have taken delight in exposing my vulnerabilities. Tis all a learning curve.
There is always a person behind the words, even if the character portrayed is not the real person, sometimes you need to see deeper than what is typed, sometimes you just need to take what is typed at face value. The trick is figuring out the difference.
Jane if I understood my down load correctly, think I understood. Thanks?
Blossom: ”as I have neither mental health issues, nor am I on drugs.”
Missy: ”I’ve now decided I don’t have any issues so in future everyone can stop discussing them”
Welcome Folks to ‘The All New Abbott and Costello Show”…
I’m hoping channel 4 sign these two up, in these dark days people need cheering up…
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