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People cheat for a myriad of reasons…
Would you condemn a woman for seeking love and affection outside of an unhappy abusive marriage? Or a man who seeks comfort from a heartless wife? What about open marriages? Or ones where the partner cant enjoy intimacy?
I know a close friend who cheats on her husband, he was paralysed in an accident, she loves him dearly, will never leave him but they no longer have sex, they cant, but at 33, she misses the sexual release. Another close friend stays with her abusive husband for the sake of her child and has cheated.
Tis easy to condemn, not so easy to try and understand why people cheat.
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well, the level of grown-up debate isn’t exactly high so far
I guess it’s one of those topics.Coming from someone who blows kisses at all women particularly ones exhibiting mental illness traits every day having online meltdowns, it’s hard to take you seriously. I can only assume its motivated by a high sex drive where you feel the need to suck up to women with the kissy kissy stuff continually- either way its painful to witness and embarrassing where men like you encourage the self absorbed attention seeking stupidity. It’s no wonder people take the piss out of the so called “serious chatters ” like you on here with parody profiles- rather than crawling up arseholes of ill women encouraging more posts motivated by whats in your pants typing xxxx have a wank mate and log off.
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magmanimous.
I do think it’s a sin.
The religious driven vehicle of sin doesn’t lead anywhere though, does it. It’s also a sin to get divorced. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. It’s still a one way ticket to hell and that “sin” (guilt) leads to couples staying in unhealthy relationships which may not only irreparably damage them, but also may damage any children involved. Which of course may lead to those same children repeating the negative behavior of their parents. Rinse and repeat. Groundhog day.
People cheat for a myriad of reasons… Would you condemn a woman for seeking love and affection outside of an unhappy abusive marriage? Or a man who seeks comfort from a heartless wife? What about open marriages? Or ones where the partner cant enjoy intimacy? I know a close friend who cheats on her husband, he was paralysed in an accident, she loves him dearly, will never leave him but they no longer have sex, they cant, but at 33, she misses the sexual release. Another close friend stays with her abusive husband for the sake of her child and has cheated. Tis easy to condemn, not so easy to try and understand why people cheat.
It’s still cheating , why can’t the dirty moo buy a vibrator ? Imagine being paralysed in a wheelchair and the wife saying ” Sorry love, your dick doesn’t work so I’m off to ride big Dave down the road”.
There are a lot of things a sex toy doesn’t do, no love & affection, a nice foot rub, a back massage, a cuddle and kiss watching a movie together, regardless of that though, people should just leave relationships when the love is gone (instead of cheating). Life is short, why spend it being miserable, that way both parties can move on and find someone else.
I read something a while ago, they reckon in about 80 years or so the majority of men and women will not be together anyway. The human race will continue but people will be picking and choosing how their children will look, what sex they will be, and all that stuff through all the advances they are making.
It’s still cheating , why can’t the dirty moo buy a vibrator ? Imagine being paralysed in a wheelchair and the wife saying ” Sorry love, your dick doesn’t work so I’m off to ride big Dave down the road”.
There are a lot of things a sex toy doesn’t do, no love & affection, a nice foot rub, a back massage, a cuddle and kiss watching a movie together, regardless of that though, people should just leave relationships when the love is gone (instead of cheating). Life is short, why spend it being miserable, that way both parties can move on and find someone else. I read something a while ago, they reckon in about 80 years or so the majority of men and women will not be together anyway. The human race will continue but people will be picking and choosing how their children will look, what sex they will be, and all that stuff through all the advances they are making.
It’s still cheating , why can’t the dirty moo buy a vibrator ? Imagine being paralysed in a wheelchair and the wife saying ” Sorry love, your dick doesn’t work so I’m off to ride big Dave down the road”.
I wonder then if this “female friend ” was the one paralysed with the man stating he had sexual needs, so wandered down the road to ride Mrs Cartwright at number 23 if the same standards would apply? I’m not condemning the act, but to pretend it isn’t cheating because he is in a wheelchair is still wrong- where does it end? If the husband has a heart attack and is impotent, would the wife have carte blanche to ride any dick going?
There are a lot of things a sex toy doesn’t do, no love & affection, a nice foot rub, a back massage, a cuddle and kiss watching a movie together, regardless of that though, people should just leave relationships when the love is gone (instead of cheating). .
It’s still cheating , why can’t the dirty moo buy a vibrator ? Imagine being paralysed in a wheelchair and the wife saying ” Sorry love, your dick doesn’t work so I’m off to ride big Dave down the road”.
You clearly haven’t read the post as it’s stated the love hasn’t gone , but the wife has to go somewhere to satisfy her itch. Perhaps you are of the belief someone paralysed is incapable of ” watching a movie ” then?
It was his suggestion.
The point in trying to make is that tis easy to judge, without pausing to think why people may cheat.
Is it wrong? A sin? Personally I think yes but not one of us is sinless. Sin is like an arrow missing the bullseye, doesn’t matter how wide you miss the target, you still miss.
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gerry,
to me, the answer to your post is provided by nemesis imho
I don’t see divorce as a sin – it’s often an escape from deep unhappiness and even suicide.
The most unpleasant set of posts here lately (so far) seems to be provided by an upholder of ‘morality’ against sin – a real Old Testament type, with his denunciation of a woman tryng to resolve her problem as a ‘moo’.
It was his suggestion. The point in trying to make is that tis easy to judge, without pausing to think why people may cheat. Is it wrong? A sin? Personally I think yes but not one of us is sinless. Sin is like an arrow missing the bullseye, doesn’t matter how wide you miss the target, you still miss.
There’s no such thing as ” sin” unless you subscribe to a doctrine of religious rubbish which I don’t. Do you honestly think any paralysed man would be happy for his wife to go off and have sex with someone else? He only suggested it probably down to fear of losing her and is probably in turmoil with the whole thing. To imply it’s a happy scenario for both parties is naïve as it gets. Surely if she needs sexual stimulation, he has hands so can purchase a cucumber/large carrot to shove up the randy old bat?
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