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Much can be written about this topic, if some of us dare.
But an American defence of this heinous crime raises some interesting points as to why it’s regarded so heinously, as well as a defence.
Longish, but not hard and worth a read – maybe??
Any thoughts arising from the article – if you do read it.
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/12/18/in-defense-of-adulterers?mbid=social_facebook
A sex pest would try to defend it.
Adultery is a good way to rack up the notches. One memory I have of many was when some city chicks husband came bowling out with the camera wanking himself off. Bottle of fizz ,etc.
Call it nerves, but I pulled out sharpish and done a bolt and went to Browns.
I cheated on pretty much all my partners apart from the wife who I have been 100% faithfull too.
As for married women and when I was engaged before, most horny drunk sluts don`t give a fuck they just wanna bareback and go. In some ways a wedding ring gets you more pussy?
Anyways who cares its only a cock up a couple of holes. Trap 1 hopefully, trap2 for the lumps. Or if your lucks in a no questions nosh. When you meet the one you learn the holes better. A good analogy would be a hire car. You flog the fuck out of a hire car but when you get your own car you wanna keep it clean and tidy and dont want the doors getting smashed in or dirty,etc.
I love my Mrs
:)
A lovely song about adultery..both music and lyrics.
Life is strange. Adultery is a sin which deeply hurts people, remember, and can destroy them and scar their children. I’ve seen it.
But it’s a lovely song.
If I could show the world as pure
And strange as what I see
I’d put you in the mirror
I put in front of me
I put in front of me
It was good what we did yesterday
And I’d do it once again
The fact that you are married
only proves you’re my best friend
but it’s truly truly a sin
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Cheats need shooting.
well, the level of grown-up debate isn’t exactly high so far
I guess it’s one of those topics.
I regretted it when I did it in my past with 2 women one night, so much so that even though I knew she would never find out about it I just told her anyway, as keeping secrets is just as bad I think. Of course alcohol was to blame for that, most of my mistakes in life are alcohol related.
Iv’e also done it the opposite way around when I was not in a relationship but slept with another mans wife, I felt just as guilty about that as it’s not right, but I think the person in the relationship is the one who should not be encouraging it.
You live and you learn from your mistakes, we all make them.
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heinous
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(of a person or wrongful act, especially a crime) utterly odious or wicked.
Wielding a big brush and automatically branding adultery a ‘sin’ and a ‘heinous’ act and stating therefore that all adulterers are ‘wicked’, suggests there is/are religious connotations and that some sort of punishment or retribution may be due as a direct consequence. Or alternatively a complete lack of understanding as to why ‘some’ people may commit the act of adultery in the first place. Of course the adulterer isn’t necessarily the ‘villain’, no more than the ‘cheated’ partner is automatically the victim.
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heinous
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(of a person or wrongful act, especially a crime) utterly odious or wicked.
Wielding a big brush and automatically branding adultery a ‘sin’ and a ‘heinous’ act and stating therefore that all adulterers are ‘wicked’, suggests there is/are religious connotations and that some sort of punishment or retribution may be due as a direct consequence. Or alternatively a complete lack of understanding as to why ‘some’ people may commit the act of adultery in the first place. Of course the adulterer isn’t necessarily the ‘villain’, no more than the ‘cheated’ partner is automatically the victim.
Gerry, I actually agree with you.
I was using the term in an ironic manner. I don’t think it is necessarily heinous, but it certainly can be.
I do think it’s a sin.
But I try to take a Christian attitude to this sin – as opposed to the Old Testament, Ten Commandments “thou shalt not” attitude of the Jeremy Kyle brigade.
king, that is a very brave post.
When I first saw your name I had a little chuckle to myself, but the more posts I see the more appropriate I think your name.
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