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@Beatty Blue wrote:

the man’s definitely not gay :!: a bit metro-sexual maybe, but not even bi-sexual :roll: …I know… :-

well erm… ok, when I told HIM that I’ve never felt this way about anyone before and he said something like “well…kinda same here…” :-s now what does that mean?!

There’s more of the story but I’m not sure if I should tell everything. The point is that I feel like he’s taking more distance to me …like we didn’t already have enough (hundreds of miles) :roll: I’m always the one takeing contact and he replys. He did suggested that we could meet next week when he’s spending some time near by, but… is he just hopeing to see me to tell me personally that he’s turning me down? :? or… does he really want to see me? :)

:(

Well don’t tell everything if you dont want to. Maybe he does like you, he just seems a bit scared for some reason, and there could be loads of reasons for him to act that way. You say you lice miles apart, that could be one of the reasons for him acting distant, long term relationships take alot of work. And sorry hunni but you won’t know the reason why he wants to see you until you see him, unless you can persuade him to tell you beforehand. He may just want to spend time with you though :D

@Beatty Blue wrote:

He’s going to break my heart, I know it already :(
I think I deserve it… been turning other men down for so long that it’s about time it happens to me :roll:

but he did say this (and this is an exact quote):
“—In between (certain days) atleast I could be all yours!—” :-s :D :-s 8-[ :-s :-k :?:

Dont be so disheartened, you don’t know what he’s goig to do, and if he’s said that that sounds pretty positive :D. You deserve happiness too though, just be prepared for the worst but hope for the best

I do the same, I know how vulnerable you can feel when you’re open with someone and tell them how u feel, its hard when you dont know if they feel the same way about u. Let me know how things go though x

@nismo wrote:

Is there really any gentle way to let someone down?? :?

Nope, dont think there is Nis.

Honesty is the best policy.

@soulie wrote:

or do i move to scotland and stay with squeezys younger sister, have babies and live on drifters

This one! 8)