how sh*t is our government

I dont think I know many people who can admit their first pregnancy was planned, its one of those things in life where you say “we’ll get buy”. And somehow you do.

The benefits system is not meant to be a long term solution but is in place theoretically to help those that need it most to get buy.

Can we all say we have had perfect lifes up till now, and everything has gone smoothly? Its a terrible thing to judge on a message board, but understandibly we do.

Bare in mind this girl is young and carrying a baby and is only asking for advice, I dont think she should be burnt at the stake for being honest and extremely worried for her families futures, its never easy having your first child.

I do agree that Uni could be put on a back burner for now, but that would have to be your boyfriends choice.

@pats wrote:

@kentlass19 wrote:

you know me pats, nothing stops me smiling!!

thanks for all the advice and comments you guys, i only ever seem to post rants and complaints on here anymore :lol:

thats what us older girls are ere for lol.u rant. :wink: i remember only avin a nylon baby carrier fa my eldest……went to me mums an it was pi/ssin down so i slid him into a plastic bag fa protection..the bus conductor sed blimey i dint know they came in carriers bags these days. i giggled all they way there.

Pats that it a lovely story, not that being penniless is lovely but just thinking back to when people didn’t give a fuck brings a smile to my face x x

@pats wrote:

@*Sian wrote:

@pats wrote:

@kentlass19 wrote:

you know me pats, nothing stops me smiling!!

thanks for all the advice and comments you guys, i only ever seem to post rants and complaints on here anymore :lol:

thats what us older girls are ere for lol.u rant. :wink: i remember only avin a nylon baby carrier fa my eldest……went to me mums an it was pi/ssin down so i slid him into a plastic bag fa protection..the bus conductor sed blimey i dint know they came in carriers bags these days. i giggled all they way there.

Pats that it a lovely story, not that being penniless is lovely but just thinking back to when people didn’t give a fuck brings a smile to my face x x

strue sian…..we ad fook all and a new baby. i had to lug all me washin to me mams oncce a week………..dint ave carpets……….an only furniture we had was 2nd hand….but we were happy.

That’s what makes me angry about people of today, all worried about having the latest gadgets (not being shyte about bons post here) :lol: and topping up their mobiles they seem to forget what is important.