HOW PARANOID CAN YOU BE

@blonde_55 wrote:

I PM’d Thin to tell him what London had put in the room – it wasn’t a secret. I did it cos he was mentioned and I thought he should know. I didn’t ask him to put it on the boards – that is not true, but he told he would and I wasn’t bothered.

I don’t consider that to be gossip. Nor did I ask Thin to keep it confidential – how could I when it had been put in the room? It’s hardly a serious matter.

What astounds me is Annette being all high and mighty about betraying confidences. She betrayed a very serious confidence I had told her in Pm. She betrayed it to Alias, and why? Because I had put her on iggy for saying Claire had slept with Thin.

That is worse than anything Alias Joker or Thin has ever done and I will never speak to her again. Beware that she cannot be trusted. What a hypocrit.

Don’t bother posting vitrioloc replies. I won’t be reading any more of this.

Wether you read this or not. You have had your say- Now I will have mine.

YOU PM’d Thin . YOU are a gossip.

I have NEVER spoken to alias in PM – let alone divulged any of your ‘ secrets’.

The so called confidence you are on about we spoke of was in M SN NOT PM in the room.

You seem to have forgotten , convienently. We spoke of my relationship with JL , and i said that if you didn’t want to speak to me any more , i would understand. You then proceeded to say that you couldnt NOT speak to me , as that would be hypocritical of you , as you had an affair when you were married.. and that i should take what happiness i could, because life is too short.

However since then little miss claire was having one of her drunken abusive rants at me in the room, and kept on and on… you then joined in , and made a comment about my relationship with JL.. actually insulting me about it.. which i thought was rather hypocritical of you.. you then decided to iggy me. To say i was stunned , is an understatement!

I then told you exactly that , considering you had an affair when you were married.

I said it in the ROOM – NOT IN PM to Alias or anyone else.

You see Blonde , that is where you and i are different .I keep my box locked and don’t tittle tattle … i say what i have to say , in the room , for all to see.

The times i have fought your corner,over alias … and yet many a time he has come in , and not said anything about, or to you- yet you sit there goading him , until he does.

So don’t you dare sit here , on the boards calling me a hypocrite and not to be trusted.

I think those that read this , will make their own minds up as to who is the hypocrite,and a Liar here.

@eve wrote:

Just to the pms thing. I would be interested to know how the contents of a pm I had with someone, someone that i truly believe did not repeat it, was revealed to a third party word for word . I thought only guides could read pms and then only when asked to for purposes of establishing abuse. I do intend to get to the bottom of this as I thought the third party involved used to have a “tame guide” so to speak . However, that guide, as far as im aware, is not longer in JC ( no Poli, not u :) ), . I will find out.

Copy and Paste.

Email to third party.

Or take a screen shot.

Simples.

@annette-curtain wrote:

@blonde_55 wrote:

I PM’d Thin to tell him what London had put in the room – it wasn’t a secret. I did it cos he was mentioned and I thought he should know. I didn’t ask him to put it on the boards – that is not true, but he told he would and I wasn’t bothered.

I don’t consider that to be gossip. Nor did I ask Thin to keep it confidential – how could I when it had been put in the room? It’s hardly a serious matter.

What astounds me is Annette being all high and mighty about betraying confidences. She betrayed a very serious confidence I had told her in Pm. She betrayed it to Alias, and why? Because I had put her on iggy for saying Claire had slept with Thin.

That is worse than anything Alias Joker or Thin has ever done and I will never speak to her again. Beware that she cannot be trusted. What a hypocrit.

Don’t bother posting vitrioloc replies. I won’t be reading any more of this.

Wether you read this or not. You have had your say- Now I will have mine.

YOU PM’d Thin . YOU are a gossip.

I have NEVER spoken to alias in PM – let alone divulged any of your ‘ secrets’.

The so called confidence you are on about we spoke of was in M SN NOT PM in the room.

You seem to have forgotten , convienently. We spoke of my relationship with JL , and i said that if you didn’t want to speak to me any more , i would understand. You then proceeded to say that you couldnt NOT speak to me , as that would be hypocritical of you , as you had an affair when you were married.. and that i should take what happiness i could, because life is too short.

However since then little miss claire was having one of her drunken abusive rants at me in the room, and kept on and on… you then joined in , and made a comment about my relationship with JL.. actually insulting me about it.. which i thought was rather hypocritical of you.. you then decided to iggy me. To say i was stunned , is an understatement!

I then told you exactly that , considering you had an affair when you were married.

I said it in the ROOM – NOT IN PM to Alias or anyone else.

You see Blonde , that is where you and i are different .I keep my box locked and don’t tittle tattle … i say what i have to say , in the room , for all to see.

The times i have fought your corner,over alias … and yet many a time he has come in , and not said anything about, or to you- yet you sit there goading him , until he does.

So don’t you dare sit here , on the boards calling me a hypocrite and not to be trusted.

I think those that read this , will make their own minds up as to who is the hypocrite,and a Liar here.

I had an affair when I was married.

Just thought I’d tell you all that. :P

And if anyone can understand that , even without the typos ,, then hats off to them !! :lol:

Yes Panda, My point was that what was said, was said in pm No one but myself and the person i spoke to should have known what was said. I will find out how it was read and passed on.