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7 October, 2008 at 12:26 am #378821
I have never been more sincere in my life when I say that Ruby and Cath deserve the best that life and love can offer up. Any man lucky enough to have either of them on his arm or in his bed, should get down on his knees and thank the gods for real womanhood..warm..witty..kind and with hearts bigger than my head (which is constantly inflated)
Feckit..I curse the day I was born heterosexual! :twisted:7 October, 2008 at 5:50 am #378822sure i’ll be slammed by some buga for bein a soft old sod lol but i will find the love of my life, maybe it will be a different love to the stomach churning love of youth? maybe it will be kindred spirits type of love, being freinds, laughing together and crying and sharing thos private jokes that only the 2 of u share etc……..
so, again i say, the rainbow connection is out there for all of us, the lovers the dreamers………… and me ! lol xxx
Cath
I’ve been told too often I get walked all over because I’m too soft
I’d rather be too soft than the alternative.
At my age that all consuming passion etc etc is more likely to bring on a heart attack
I’ll settle for what Cath said ^^^^ with a bit of wild abandoned sex thrown in7 October, 2008 at 6:27 am #378823@bon bon wrote:
sure i’ll be slammed by some buga for bein a soft old sod lol but i will find the love of my life, maybe it will be a different love to the stomach churning love of youth? maybe it will be kindred spirits type of love, being freinds, laughing together and crying and sharing thos private jokes that only the 2 of u share etc……..
so, again i say, the rainbow connection is out there for all of us, the lovers the dreamers………… and me ! lol xxx
Cath
I’ve been told too often I get walked all over because I’m too soft
I’d rather be too soft than the alternative.
At my age that all consuming passion etc etc is more likely to bring on a heart attack
I’ll settle for what Cath said ^^^^ with a bit of wild abandoned sex thrown inyou know wot bon bon, i been thinking bout what i posted last night, (yes tis my turn to think lol the doc sed i cud on a monday lol) any relationship takes time to build, be it a relationship that comes in late summer in your life or early spring. you have to be freinds, you have to trust, you have to respect, if those go yer done for lol but any relationship has to start with being friends, that said though you shudnt expect another person to change what they are just for you because you love them, i think you should meet somewhere in the middle, else the person you fall for loses their identity and no one should lose that, ok so the poet in me says ,and i know a lot of you agree, ‘to thine own self be true’
and lol bon bon @ all consuming passion bringing on a heart attack but i know wot ya mean lol xxxx
7 October, 2008 at 7:44 am #378824I wonder if you get all those wierd feelings even if it isnt love? (rubes said she thought it was love)…
Ive been in proper love twice, the first let me down, and Im with the second one.
I had all those feeelings loads of times before, but it was never love?
Do you know what I mean?
Perhaps its not love, moe excitement of a new person, I dunno….. its been a while.
Me and Dave still send “I love you” texts” every day, and chat on the phone through the day about nowt…. we still do silly things…… but those goosebumpy feelings are pretty much long gone now!
7 October, 2008 at 8:20 am #378825@sharongooner wrote:
I wonder if you get all those wierd feelings even if it isnt love? (rubes said she thought it was love)…
Ive been in proper love twice, the first let me down, and Im with the second one.
I had all those feeelings loads of times before, but it was never love?
Do you know what I mean?
Perhaps its not love, moe excitement of a new person, I dunno….. its been a while.
Me and Dave still send “I love you” texts” every day, and chat on the phone through the day about nowt…. we still do silly things…… but those goosebumpy feelings are pretty much long gone now!
lol sharon u sound like u got the right mix, goosebumpy feelings? lol you have a lot more now, lol lets not let this thread put doubts in peoples minds, sharon?? if it aint broke n all that lol xxxxxxxxxxx
7 October, 2008 at 10:09 am #378826i suppose it all boils down to the old saying..what IS love???….way to many definitions to actually answer that question . i know i have been extremely lucky. the first time i saw mr pats i thought wow!.lol. them days it was the butterflies and excitement. we have grown together….i was 17 he was 21. we have been through some hellish times..the worst losing our eldest son in a car crash 8 years ago. but what could have ripped us apart bonded us tighter. we have had periods were we didnt have the proverbial pot to pi.ss in. i can remember times we have searched down the back of the couch for loose change lol. we both come from big families and have watched our siblings marry.divorce and re marry…in one of my brothers cases 3 times now. we have fought like cat and dog many many times but never once said i hate you.or i wish i had never married you. our favourite saying in the bad times was always.in a year from now we will look back on this and smile. i honestlly cant imagine my life without him in it. and like shaz.we still say i love you every day….hold hands and kiss in public. we have 3 beauiful children and 6 grandchildren who light up our lifes.
there IS someone out there for everyone.wether you meet them at 17 or 70. i was lucky and met mine early.7 October, 2008 at 12:07 pm #378827Lovely to read all these posts
you get more of an insight as to what people are really likeI find that when it comes to the time I have to fake orgasm, they are on their way out :?
make up your own minds as to whether I’m joking or not :wink:
7 October, 2008 at 12:27 pm #378828@esmeralda wrote:
I have never been more sincere in my life when I say that Ruby and Cath deserve the best that life and love can offer up. Any man lucky enough to have either of them on his arm or in his bed, should get down on his knees and thank the gods for real womanhood..warm..witty..kind and with hearts bigger than my head (which is constantly inflated)
Feckit..I curse the day I was born heterosexual! :twisted:cheers Esme :) Now put the Cilla teeth away dear. hehe x
7 October, 2008 at 12:58 pm #378829it is lovely bon bon to read all the posts hun , thing is we are all so different but u know wot we all have in common? well most of us anyway , we all think and analyse stuff too much instead of just gettin on wiv life ay an letting its surprise us xx
7 October, 2008 at 1:34 pm #378830Hmmm, love comes in many forms, it’s finding someone who wants the same from love as yourself.
I never thought I’d get divorced from my first husband, not in a million but as Cath said, we grow, we change direction.
If I was to have another ten marriages from now til my death I would just laugh and say to myself, better to have loved than to not loved at all. :lol:
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