HIDE AND SEEK

Yesterday a chatter who is known to attention seek and provoke fights to get that attention had a go at me. It was quite nasty and vicious and not based on any fact whatsoever, but knowing the chatter I knew exactly why he was doing it and didn’t respond. Everyone else knew what he was doing to so he didn’t get the reaction he was looking for. Now I’m no saint, far from it, but if I can do it so can others. Try it sometime, it might be easier than you think.

@jen_jen wrote:

Yesterday a chatter who is known to attention seek and provoke fights to get that attention had a go at me. It was quite nasty and vicious and not based on any fact whatsoever, but knowing the chatter I knew exactly why he was doing it and didn’t respond. Everyone else knew what he was doing to so he didn’t get the reaction he was looking for. Now I’m no saint, far from it, but if I can do it so can others. Try it sometime, it might be easier than you think.

The same chatter also called me a few nasty names a few days ago..he even started a thread about me which turned out to be a funny one in the end…..Cosy you trouble maker you :lol:

“two people can be in the same conversation and experience it completely differently. Two people can be in a romantic relationship while living in the same house, and experience their life together completely differently. I grew up in a house with my parents and 3 older brothers, and we all experienced those years differently. Why? Because we were all having our own individual experiences.”

I think that sums it up pretty well…fact is, what we experience and believe in is right, a personal experience and personal interpretation cannot be wrong as such…however outsiders looking in will inevitabely have different views, therefore throwing other things into the pot, 4 others may have similar view but even those 4 views will have slightly different angles on them
Not sure where it all went wrong on these boards….maybe so much mud has been thrown around no one has anything to lose anymore with having their 2 penny bit thrown in….dunno….. :roll:

I started writing a long reply but you know what? I can’t be arsed.
Yes Annette, you’re right, he’s wrong, keep biting back if it gives you so much satisfaction.
What you put out is what you get back.

@annette-curtain wrote:

@jen_jen wrote:

@annette-curtain wrote:

@jen_jen wrote:

Yesterday a chatter who is known to attention seek and provoke fights to get that attention had a go at me. It was quite nasty and vicious and not based on any fact whatsoever, but knowing the chatter I knew exactly why he was doing it and didn’t respond. Everyone else knew what he was doing to so he didn’t get the reaction he was looking for. Now I’m no saint, far from it, but if I can do it so can others. Try it sometime, it might be easier than you think.

Been there , done that ……. as well you know and makes no difference. In fact , i would say makes him worse. But , let him carry on , just as you no doubt will , and have a go at the ones who bite , instead of the one that goads.

But don’t you see that having a go at the one who goads would be biting too?

Not if he isn’t directly goading you in the first place , no.

And i think you know once again Jen , that you and i are not going to agree on this – so will leave it there now.

Can i just say though , that those who keep shouting the ” Ignore it ” comment, try doing the same if it is annoying them, instead of making it , as always,look the one who bites back fault.

You Mrs Curtain are just as capable of doing the goading,We all see it but you don’t.
Its a given fact that we can always see the faults of others but not our own, I might add that I include myself in this comment, Shocking isn’t it lol imagine me having faults!! :shock: