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    Amother thought…What IF…( just for example )..The chat room ceased to exist…Would I be joining the addicts in the therapist waiting room…lolol..

    Im actually laughing too myself here..OMG I’VE FINALLY GONE MAD!!

    Ohh well have a fun filled evening everyone and take some paracetamol before your slumber…to get rid of head stress.

    #1022228

    Im not going to tell any lies.Im no good with going out socialising.Im a shy woman.I have a close and small circle of friends.So the fact I can log in to a chat room and talk to people not just in Britan but all over the world is after 20 yrs on line is still Brilliant for me.I recon I’m addicted. :wacko:

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    #1022285

    :mail:Never underestimate an idiot, they may love you.

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    a duty of care:- Now I’ve heard it all! Seriously, these are adults who enter the Chatroom. The rules blatantly state, don’t give out personal information. There is no contractual agreement that says anyone should care about anyone!

    Which is EXACTLY what I thought until I had a phone call…….

    Which made me cry, being reported as a bully for someone like me is devastating, but, because it was a phone call there is no record of it happening, and can easily be denied, i’m a natural carer.  and will remain so, but….

    I don’t agree that for some this is a lifeline, as stated theyre all adults and should take responsibility for their own actions/words/spitefulness

    I care, but I am not responsible for them

    #1022289

    Am I to believe that you are staff here Rosepetal?
    So.. Rosepetal in response to your points:

    You opened this chat community and you have to deal with everything that is thrown at you because that is why you have the role of owner/staff.

    We do by not taking most of it too seriously.

    So you are admitting you don’t take the abuse/trolling seriously nor are willing to help people who come to you for guidance because it shouldn’t be taken too seriously? What if the shoe was on the other foot and you were the subject for the trolls and you had no way of doing anything about it because you were a chatter only, I’m certain you would want things done by the staff members, wouldn’t you?

    Also laws are a lot different to when this place first started out whenever that may have been, i’m guessing years. for this place to get to this level of cruelty:-

    Indeed, however both NS and myself have had several dealings with the police in the past two years regarding some of the more serious trolling issues with certain chatters. Although most chatters naturally won’t believe that or believe that there are some on going investigations, I can assure you it’s true. Both of us of late have been impressed with the police response we have had but due to them having so many other things to deal with it takes time.

    And, again I’m going to have a wild guess that nothing has surfaced in any courts because the whole truth has been twisted to protect the ones that keep the money rolling in? It only takes time when evidence is not given, or the truth is twisted in as many ways as you want it to be to keep this community protected.

    You have the ability and the tools to stop the trolls. :-

    We have a ban and gag facility, the Hosts can cookie ban and gag any chatter at any time. The chatter can come back with 10 minutes. No Host or Guide can be here 24/7. There are no other tools.

    Come on now Rose we all know that’s wrong in every degree, you as staff have access to Ips?..Ips can be traced and you also will know what provider their internet is coming from, how’s about contacting their ISP and have their internet cut off for let’s say.. abusive ways? It can be done and it has been done on many occasions, so yes there is other ways to deal with it but as I said previously it seems that you can’t be bothered it’s too much hassle for this online community.

    NEVER trust them!:-

    Misogynists, egocentrics, narcissists, paranoid’s, schizophrenic’s and total FckWits are always trusted by those who think they can change them because they often misogynistic, narcissistic, paranoid, schizophrenic FckWits themselves.
    As hard as you try they won’t listen!

    Seems it’s not just the chatters that aren’t trusted here, the staff don’t seem to have a good record neither, maybe because people have come to you pleading with you to do something about the rubbish going on and you just tell them to forget it or use ignore, but that never achieves anything in the long run, you want a better place to chat then things need to be changed, don’t they? Listen to the users of this community without them you wouldn’t be needed here nor would u have somewhere to go neither.

    a duty of care:-

    Now I’ve heard it all! Seriously, these are adults who enter the Chatroom. The rules blatantly state, don’t give out personal information. There is no contractual agreement that says anyone should care about anyone!

    Yes, yes you do have a duty of care for the people whom come here to chat, if you didn’t then the laws would not
    have been changed, Ignoring a chatters plea to help them in whatever circumstance arises at whatever time is negligence and therefore that could lead to a chatter self-harming, drug use or worse, you know many of your chatters have mental health issues therefore all of above is possible, if you know of someone’s mental state and you chose to ignore that then that is wrong and the duty of care for that person has just been brushed off because all they are is a number or a name on your screen. It’s not about caring about strangers, it’s about you as staff doing the right thing by people, Yes some have problems some don’t but they all need the same amount of respect from staff members who are supposed to be online to help when they are logged in as staff!

    Live your lives instead of wasting your good years on pathetic people:-

    The best advice ever!

    I know that is why it was typed.

    But in all seriousness here, Why have you only picked up on a few of my points what about the rest?. Or do u fully agree with them?

    Auf Wiedersehn. x

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    #1022290

    Rudeboy you seem a little annoyed by some of my points?..infact you seem quite agitated, they are only opinions on an online community. I as an individual am allowed to express my opinion as are you but do you see me calling people autistic and spineless? to name but a few, there is no need for that to get a point across.
    Maybe people think you are another chatter because you type similar, or same mannerisms possibly, I don’t know, I cannot answer that.

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    #1022293

    Bravo, Dixie.

    #1022304

    Rudeboy you seem a little annoyed by some of my points?..infact you seem quite agitated, they are only opinions on an online community. I as an individual am allowed to express my opinion as are you but do you see me calling people autistic and spineless? to name but a few, there is no need for that to get a point across. Maybe people think you are another chatter because you type similar, or same mannerisms possibly, I don’t know, I cannot answer that.

    No ones annoyed, I just dislike hypocrisy. You state ” I am an individual and allowed to express my opinion” yet whine you have called the police for opinions/ words in a chatroom. You write a war and peace length post wittering on about anyone being abusive having their ip tracked and limiting their ability to use the internet. What is defined as abusive? Maybe calling someone an arsehole could be construed as abusive which you did on the first page of the thread, so can I suggest you pick up your own laptop and head to the nearest police station for falling foul of your own laws hopefully by way of a psychiatrist.

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    “bravo” btw

    #1022308

    Indeed, however both NS and myself have had several dealings with the police in the past two years regarding some of the more serious trolling issues with certain chatters. Although most chatters naturally won’t believe that or believe that there are some on going investigations, I can assure you it’s true.

    Lol

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