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@annette-curtain wrote:
@rogue trader wrote:
ffs I might have known
they be on the phone later
I don’t know why I bother sometimes,i really don’t
im not admin on here so cant delete my post
it be on for years now :(:lol: Well what more can I say! :wink:
You know nette im irked at you for saying me laine and thin ganged up on you. For one I don’t gang up on people, I hate that. Two if I have anything to say,i always say it to the person it never comes via anyone els. Three you and I have never got on, and if im in the room I will give you tit for tat usually started by some snide comment from you. You often start a fight knowing certain people will stand by you through thick and thin and most often they will stop speaking to me for a few days.The lie you just threw in about me telling laine that you called her a whore bares up I certainly never conspire with anyone let alone thin ice to gang on anyone.hat I think of you. A nasty side manipulating woman, especially where im concerned. The fact that you turned on laine after she started talking to me hasn’t escaped me nette .The way you gloated when mo and I fell out didn’t either. Put what ever you like about me on the boards nette,i don’t give a shyte, just don’t attack my friends.
I have never read such rubbish in all the time I have been using the boards as what you have just posted Moon :lol:
Keep going …all you are doing is making yourself look even more stupid that you already do .
Actually …… in all honesty – I think you need serious help .
Now carry on ……..but don’t expect any further response from me …. You really are deluded :? :roll:
Maybe it’s time for your next drink :wink:
@moonshadow wrote:
@annette-curtain wrote:
@rogue trader wrote:
ffs I might have known
they be on the phone later
I don’t know why I bother sometimes,i really don’t
im not admin on here so cant delete my post
it be on for years now :(:lol: Well what more can I say! :wink:
You know nette im irked at you for saying me laine and thin ganged up on you. For one I don’t gang up on people, I hate that. Two if I have anything to say,i always say it to the person it never comes via anyone els. Three you and I have never got on, and if im in the room I will give you tit for tat usually started by some snide comment from you. You often start a fight knowing certain people will stand by you through thick and thin and most often they will stop speaking to me for a few days.The lie you just threw in about me telling laine that you called her a whore bares up I certainly never conspire with anyone let alone thin ice to gang on anyone.hat I think of you. A nasty side manipulating woman, especially where im concerned. The fact that you turned on laine after she started talking to me hasn’t escaped me nette .The way you gloated when mo and I fell out didn’t either. Put what ever you like about me on the boards nette,i don’t give a shyte, just don’t attack my friends.
………. and liane the “naked” pic that you put up me and hubbie loved it,it was brilliand.You don’t see anything very well done .x
A few observations.
Laine, Hello.
Chatrooms are not the ‘real world’. You may well be a pleasant Lady in the real world, however, you threw yourself into ‘chat world’ and got it all badly wrong, despite advise from others, probarbly because you seem to always think you know best.
Being honest is, indeed, a virtue, however, in a chatroom, disclosing your life story, repeatedly (very repeatedly) will only lead to abuse because the simple truth is that many who visit JC are not nice, decent, honest, people and believing that they are is quite frankly very niave.
If what you say about your life is true you have indeed had some major traumas, your mistake is sounding like you are the only person who ever has had any. Do you not think some of the people sharing the room have had tragic events? Lost children? Loved ones? suffered illness? etc etc ?
Why do you think they do not talk about it in the room ?? Because they are not honest and truthful??? No !!! It’s because they know better. They know a public chatroom, which hides faceless sociopaths is not the place to divulge personal and often upsetting things about their lives. Many have learned the hard way not to disclose too much information as, inevitably, it will be twisted and thrown at them in a vile and abusive manner.Your ‘Gone’ post and your subsequent lengthly post both smack of the same chat style you used in the room.
A small example :
” I hopeI’m sure
I am NOT
I have never
Being a widow gets a little lonely at times, sad but true, and no matter how much money status hobbies
I get
I got past it
I even invited
a little about me…….. yes i have been open in the room about myself, there is nothing i have said that i wouldnt tell a stranger, so no one can hold any skeleton over me and give me something to reproach myself for, i don’t do behind the scenes gossiping or nastiness, it just isnt me.
i cope
im proud of myself
i proved them wrong
ive been abused all my life and certainly won’t accept it from strangers who neither know the
im also proud that i cani dont have skeletons in my cupboards,
i dont hurt people,
i dont abuse people,
im just a nice ordinary middle aged woman.i am very much liked ”
You may well be very proud of yourself but self praise is no praise at all.
Maybe if you had shown more interest in others rather than blowing your own trumpet constantly people would have been more accepting.
Most people, not all, but most, who go into JC are working class people, they tend not to say ” nipped out to the garden centre but bought a brand new fiesta on a whim instead” . They tend not to chat about holidaying on their 2nd yacht based around the greek islands” I could go on….and on… You may not have thought you were bragging, but trust me thats exactly how it sounded.
What is odd though, people who live well and have money tend not to mention it constantly. Its a ‘class’ thing. You either have it or you just say you have it.
Just to re-quote you ” and no matter how much money status hobbies ” you even managed to do it when displaying how lonely you are, indicating you have money and somehow deserve status ?Another big mistake you made was to alienate the ladies or some of them, who have been in there a lot longer than you. You seemed to think they were jealous of the attention the men gave you. You could not be more wrong, they more than anyone, know exactly what the men are like and for example they know that Clowning, although harmless is desparate for sex chat and a well known perv, so he and others like im are tolerated in an amused way. You were correct in your description of Joker, he is a sociopath, with no morals or conscience, as is Thick Slice, its a pity you didn’t listen to the advice instead of taking it as a form of jealousy from others.
In JC people earn respect, it’s not a ‘given’. In the real world all deserve respect until they prove otherwise. In Cyber world you trust nobody until you gradually form your own opinions and learn who you can trust, only then can you actually make some real and lasting friendships.
I wish you well with your health issues but Laine, It Was All Too Much Too Soon !!for the record……….. people on here (mentioning no name) keep saying i am good mates with thin…………. untrue, yes i have said hello to him, yes we have eachothers phone number, do we keep in touch often ? no……… why? because i have real friends and he is an acquaintance i made in chat that to MY FACE has never been nasty, is it any business of mine what is said when i’m not around….no! people judge constantly, as i said (at risk of repeating myself) im just an ordinary middle aged woman, open hearted, friendly, and kind, it appears that people who want to BE ME are jealous and will find any way possible to put me down, sucks to be them in my opinion, i am a grown up.
and yes i was called a whore, in the room, whilst i was there, she who said it either has selective memory or is afraid to admit it. me a whore?? ive slept with two men in my life both were my husbands, not many can say that i fear? but i am single, and can and will do as i please get over the petty jealousy, and grow up.
no matter, its childish to keep sniping, ive been through a hell of a lot in my life and i’ll quote something
She who is without sin cast the first stoneive never gossiped, ive related how upset i am to some, that even though i apologised to someone when i was told “oh dont speak to him he belongs to so n so” i got crap for it. i genuinely apologised……. appears that means nothing, except lets kick her a bit harder
well, i’m afraid i see a certain member in a new light and i pity her, i cant do the dont do as i do do as i tell you because its morally wrong. far be it from me to put people down but go look in a mirror i can with a clear conscience. i apologise when i am wrong, and i try to be nice to everyone but i take crap from no one especially those who cannot be bothered to get to know me.Its all Me Me Me again sigh….
Laine, with all due respect, I don’t know you beyond what I read here but (putting aside the sniping/she said I said and usual bandwagonners) several people are making very valid observations about the world of chat and how you have conducted yourself within that world and how it is viewed. Going by your responses you don’t seem to be able to see beyond yourself though. Relationships are always better when we take more interest in others than in ourselves, don’t you think?
Please read the comments that people have made as if they were being made about someone else, take some time to reflect, and maybe come back to chat with a different approach. There are some good people in there worth getting to know, it would be a shame to just walk away. :wink:
I have never read such rubbish in all the time I have been using the boards as what you have just posted Moon Laughing
Keep going …all you are doing is making yourself look even more stupid that you already do .
Actually …… in all honesty – I think you need serious help .
Now carry on ……..but don’t expect any further response from me …. You really are deluded Confused Rolling Eyes
Maybe it’s time for your next drink Wink
^^^^^^That right there is what you are all about nette,you really should use that as your ciggy. :wink:
@coathanger wrote:
Its all Me Me Me again sigh….
You took the words right out of my mouth then !
I really am bowing out of this now ……… it’s all going in one ear and out the other…. but one last thing I will say is ….
I HAVE NEVER CALLED LAINE A WHORE.
But quite frankly , at this point in time- I don’t give a shyte wether anyone thinks I did or not …. this has all got out of hand now ………… Still , as someone not long said to me … Laine has finally got the attention she was wanting :wink
Shyte happens , get over it , and move on Laine :roll:
i really dont need or want your opinions coathanger.
i am me.
you are you.
yes new, yes possibly naieve. still no reason to be bullied or called a whore or that i have VD.i dont drink, does that mean i can call the majority alcoholics?
i dont cheat when i am in a relationship or a marriage, does that mean it is valid for me to call others who do cheap tarts and whores?
eh?
lets put the boot on the other foot shall we?
ok i dont struggle financially, (now) but do you work 12 hour days then on call for 4? do you sit and hold peoples hands who have been cruelly abused? or raped whether by their partners or a stranger, or stop people from committing suicide……? because that was my job. did you bring up two kids on your own and work while your husband/wife/partner was away sleeping with anything they could around the world? did you find time in between the death of parents death of a grandchild and a cancer scare to do an honours degree? ive worked damned hard all my life, i only gave up work because i nursed my husband til his death from cancer, and the last two years i have struggled with the legalities of the probate system living on my saving which i worked hard for. and there are far more people than me bragging about holidays, holiday homes, and who is sleeping with whom and how drunk they can get.
think on………………
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