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Well I’m really not sure I should reply to this now, as I don’t want it to turn into a ” you said , she said” thread… So all I will say , and I will try to make it brief( which usually doesn’t work )
The ” incident ” as you call it about your photo…. When you first put it on the boards , I said what a little minx you were and winked at you. Then, you posted one of you ..how shall I put it? erm … well …. putting it bluntly – Naked from what I could see anyway. So of course, people commented on it in the room , you were there at the time , and I remarked that it wasn’t so much the photo , it was the content of the photo . If that is the ” incident” you are referring too .. then so be it …… As far as I recall I said nothing abusive about it at all, unlike some did at that point.
Of course , as I should have known ( silly me ) the likes of Thin then jumped on the bandwagon and accused me of abusing you about it . How ridiculous!! Even to the point of posting on the boards ” over the road that you were leaving because of the abuse I gave you about the photo… total madness !! But typical of Thin , and of course Moon joined in, saying I had called you a ” whore” Lmao …. I have never called anyone that in my life. You seemed to believe the likes of Moon and Thin but that is your choice…. I seem to recall saying to you in the room when you first joined … believe nothing , and trust no one. Something which it turned out , you clearly took no notice of .
I will not sit here , and say I like you Laine … one thing I am not , and that is 2 faced. I never had a problem with you , until you , Moon and good old Thin :roll: decided to make one. Accusing me of things I had said , when I hadn’t. I have always “said It as it is” , and if I have something to say I will say it . I had nothing against you at all …. other than the fact all you did when you first came in the room was brag about what you had ( and good for you if that is what floats your boat) Some , and I mean some , not just me – got a little tired of it …. and contrary to what people think ie: Moon . I am not jealous of you. why would I be ?
We all have out cross to bear , so to speak with problems in our lives …. whilst I appreciate you have had yours, I honestly believe mentioning them in the room , was taken as a form of attention seeking . It’s ok ! I have been there , done that myself , and been accused of that..all because I was letting people know I had nothing to hide , so consequently like you , gave too much away. I leant my lesson , and now only tell people what I want them to know .
Here endeth the lesson of Just Chat :wink:
And I refuse to go all over that and correct the typos .. so if anyone can’t work it out ……………………….Tough! :lol:
As Netty says chat is what you make it….. again I am not getting into the wheres what and hows suffice to say, everyone has been through traumas, yours admittedly is up the scale there but noone’s trauma can be compared as we all deal with things differently and move on in different ways. You talk a lot about your own traumas and whilst there is nothing wrong with that you quickly quieten those with their own.
Many chatters also deal with physical pain daily some not able to get out and sail and play golf, but are confined by their pain, so there is always a positive, always someone worse off than yourself.
I am not known for my tact as say as I find and will say when I feel I am being verbally attacked as you have found out, but abuse works both ways…..snide comments have been forthcoming recently and unprovoked attacks directly related to conversations that have been had in the room. Sadly sometimes if you play with fire you get burnt….as the old adage goes you reap what you sow, and whilst many of us aren’t innocent of perfect behaviour, nor are you.
As Netty says the ignore button is put in place for exactly that. If there is someone you don’t like then just ignore them! You can in essence form your own chatroom with those that you wish to chat to!
hi laine,sorry to hear about the kerfuffle
but im a bit confused,do you mean you are giving up chat?
if so that’s your decision,but theres no need to flounce from the boards
anyway you cant flounce after 18 posts lol
I feel well qualified to comment on this,as I have known the “alleged perpetrators” for years,ive had many run ins with that lot,and I still do
heres my take on on the said suspects
joker a sad very old git whos only happy when hes stirring or causing trouble
thick slice… ditto
moon,ah come on moons moon she gets her fair share of flak,goes over the top a bit but hey shes ok,just a bit lonely cos her hubby is always at sea catching crabs for a living
curty
chatted for years,if you are ok with her,she is with you,a tad sensitive but what woman isn’t whos knocking on a bit :D
but imho she bears no ill will or malice to anybody
joker and thin are banned from the boards,so its safe to come on here and air any views,if you cant think of anything to post just be like me and make preposterous titles up
so you don’t have to flounce from jc per se,stick on the boards with us kid
problem with chat is,its like a disposable chip wrapper,for want of a better analogy
but what you post on boards,it will stay on the boards,i mean people can see what you posted can stay on the boards for days,weeks,years even
so don’t get worried if some fly by night name changer comes in feeling brave and abuses you its them who have the problem not you laine
just a quick word of constructive criticism,well its not even critiscm really
more friendly advice,go easy on your pics,theres a lot of lurkers out therehope that helps xx
You do make me laugh Rogue …….. from what Laine has said in the room ,she and Thin and good mates :wink:
ffs I might have known
they be on the phone later
I don’t know why I bother sometimes,i really don’t
im not admin on here so cant delete my post
it be on for years now :(Annette-Curtain wrote:Well I’m really not sure I should reply to this now, as I don’t want it to turn into a ” you said , she said” thread… So all I will say , and I will try to make it brief( which usually doesn’t work )The ” incident ” as you call it about your photo…. When you first put it on the boards , I said what a little minx you were and winked at you. Then, you posted one of you ..how shall I put it? erm … well …. putting it bluntly – Naked from what I could see anyway. So of course, people commented on it in the room , you were there at the time , and I remarked that it wasn’t so much the photo , it was the content of the photo . If that is the ” incident” you are referring too .. then so be it …… As far as I recall I said nothing abusive about it at all, unlike some did at that point.
Of course , as I should have known ( silly me ) the likes of T hin then jumped on the bandwagon and accused me of abusing you about it . How ridiculous!! Even to the point of posting on the boards ” over the road that you were leaving because of the abuse I gave you about the photo… total madness !! But typical of Thin , and of course Moon joined in, saying I had called you a ” whore” Lmao …. I have never called anyone that in my life. You seemed to believe the likes of Moon and Thin but that is your choice…. I seem to recall saying to you in the room when you first joined … believe nothing , and trust no one. Something which it turned out , you clearly took no notice of .
I will not sit here , and say I like you Laine … one thing I am not , and that is 2 faced. I never had a problem with you , until you , Moon and good old Thin :roll: decided to make one. Accusing me of things I had said , when I hadn’t. I have always “said It as it is” , and if I have something to say I will say it . I had nothing against you at all …. other than the fact all you did when you first came in the room was brag about what you had ( and good for you if that is what floats your boat) Some , and I mean some , not just me – got a little tired of it …. and contrary to what people think ie: Moon . I am not jealous of you. why would I be ?
We all have out cross to bear , so to speak with problems in our lives …. whilst I appreciate you have had yours, I honestly believe mentioning them in the room , was taken as a form of attention seeking . It’s ok ! I have been there , done that myself , and been accused of that..all because I was letting people know I had nothing to hide , so consequently like you , gave too much away. I leant my lesson , and now only tell people what I want them to know .
Here endeth the lesson of Just Chat :wink:[/quote
I have never once told laine you called her a whore ,what I did say if you had called her that, I wasn’t there at the time because I never saw it.I wish you would stop telling lies about me nette.You also told people I ran you down to laine.I never did because laine isent the sort of person to listen to gossip or rants about other people she actually makes her own mind up.
Look laine iv sed it to you and I will say it againe, in chat room slow it down a bit, sort of like hide your light under a bushel, because the jealously that some people have shown towards you has been incredible.
Iv known some people with money ,brilliant life styles come in and talk about ir.Whis is fair enough but unlike you have been snide to people less fortunate, people who cant get work ect,i hate that. You have been one of the few who have stretched a hand of friendliness out to me, who have talked to me and listened. That to me is friendship, kindness, and caring. I think your an amazing woman, and glad yo be your friend.I have to add some more because im shocked about her hypocrisy. Telling laine putting her problems through the room is attention seeking. Well nette I know your health problems, only because you put them through the room. Pots and kettles.
moon
it was the thicky bricky who slagged netty off over the road
and was also ridiculing laine behind her back
and joker well ,,, pah,,,, whats new?@rogue trader wrote:
ffs I might have known
they be on the phone later
I don’t know why I bother sometimes,i really don’t
im not admin on here so cant delete my post
it be on for years now :(:lol: Well what more can I say! :wink:
Moon ……………. where did I say that you Had told Laine anything?
I could say lots to you on here about it all .. but I don’t speak to you in the room , so I’m certainly not going to on here. Now toodle off and do your shyte stirring and ar se licking… I for one, am not interested in anything you have to say.
Poor Laine ……….she will eventually learn like most of us have , how you turn at the drop of a hat. :-
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