February is dead

@minim wrote:

My cat is dead!

Im sorry to hear that, I love my cats and know how sad I would be to lose one.

@sharongooner wrote:

@r.O.T.T wrote:

this to me is the personification of jc
Gloria has bared her soul in this post i can only applaud her honesty
Her summing up of individuals is not quite accurate except in one case she was spot on
My view on why people use chatsites is they are lonely the married people the happily shacked up or whomever can protest all they like. The people i am talking about are the heavy users you can dress it up anyway you like the time spent on here is to escape the humdrum of your surroundings its fantastic escapism.
The vitriol is another since my wife and i parted so many of the jc conscience have made constant reference to this in what can only be described as gloating gleeful malice kick someone when their down mentality. That never has and never will bother me my marriage was over before JC not because of it.The fact that i now see more of my son than i did when i was with my wife is a blessing i cannot even begin to tell how delighted i am with that.My wife and i have a fantastic relationship we get on really well there is no bitterness no regrets to the point we are going on holiday together this year.
I would like to thank gloria for opening my eyes to me , for that i will be forever grateful. She is the most compassionate person i have ever met .
Good luck
BSG at you cringing at this

I agree, and if someone on the internet has helped you come to terms with your life then it must be good must’nt it?

ya know what..its my babygirls 21st.. I have NEVER felt so lonely as i did there..a Party. a true image,with HER mother in law etc.. and the perfect wee man,,laughing,,as laughing can ,can ! and i kinda went quiet..

i wish her Daddy was here ..to help me ! I never mentioned him,,

good greif Jack,,,i miss you sooooooo sorely. its our babies 21st.. !

@sharongooner wrote:

@r.O.T.T wrote:

this to me is the personification of jc
Gloria has bared her soul in this post i can only applaud her honesty
Her summing up of individuals is not quite accurate except in one case she was spot on
My view on why people use chatsites is they are lonely the married people the happily shacked up or whomever can protest all they like. The people i am talking about are the heavy users you can dress it up anyway you like the time spent on here is to escape the humdrum of your surroundings its fantastic escapism.
The vitriol is another since my wife and i parted so many of the jc conscience have made constant reference to this in what can only be described as gloating gleeful malice kick someone when their down mentality. That never has and never will bother me my marriage was over before JC not because of it.The fact that i now see more of my son than i did when i was with my wife is a blessing i cannot even begin to tell how delighted i am with that.My wife and i have a fantastic relationship we get on really well there is no bitterness no regrets to the point we are going on holiday together this year.
I would like to thank gloria for opening my eyes to me , for that i will be forever grateful. She is the most compassionate person i have ever met .
Good luck
BSG at you cringing at this

I agree, and if someone on the internet has helped you come to terms with your life then it must be good must’nt it?

For seven years Dagger has been using this site and for seven years he has been informing people of how sad they are for being here. Most people in that time have been and gone. Moved onto different or more interesting things. The fact he is still here says more about his own life than it does about anybody elses.

Your problem is Dagger… you compare everybody else in this place to your own failings. Yes there are a lot of lonely people out there but there are a hell of a lot of people who use this place for other reasons as well. Its a form of entertainment… a replacement for television, which earlier generations have spent years of their lives sat in front of. People like to read books… listen to music… take advantage of all the other electronical devices that are available to entertain. And then there are those… who, after a long day at work, or days out spending time with their partners/family/friends, like to spend a few hours of an evening relaxing and having fun online. Is that so wrong?

You have spent a huge part of your life sitting behind your computer. More than most infact. To the point were your online friends have become involved in, and helped shape and influence your real life. Before you start ridiculing others and using your own style of vitriol to belittle people then maybe you should take a step back and look long and hard at yourself first. Get your own life sorted before you try and advise others on how to sort theirs. Look at your own style of abuse before you condone others for theirs. And try opening that narrow mind of yours to the fact that each and everyone of us is different and not a clone of yourself and your life.

@fastcars wrote:

@sharongooner wrote:

@r.O.T.T wrote:

this to me is the personification of jc
Gloria has bared her soul in this post i can only applaud her honesty
Her summing up of individuals is not quite accurate except in one case she was spot on
My view on why people use chatsites is they are lonely the married people the happily shacked up or whomever can protest all they like. The people i am talking about are the heavy users you can dress it up anyway you like the time spent on here is to escape the humdrum of your surroundings its fantastic escapism.
The vitriol is another since my wife and i parted so many of the jc conscience have made constant reference to this in what can only be described as gloating gleeful malice kick someone when their down mentality. That never has and never will bother me my marriage was over before JC not because of it.The fact that i now see more of my son than i did when i was with my wife is a blessing i cannot even begin to tell how delighted i am with that.My wife and i have a fantastic relationship we get on really well there is no bitterness no regrets to the point we are going on holiday together this year.
I would like to thank gloria for opening my eyes to me , for that i will be forever grateful. She is the most compassionate person i have ever met .
Good luck
BSG at you cringing at this

I agree, and if someone on the internet has helped you come to terms with your life then it must be good must’nt it?

For seven years Dagger has been using this site and for seven years he has been informing people of how sad they are for being here. Most people in that time have been and gone. Moved onto different or more interesting things. The fact he is still here says more about his own life than it does about anybody elses.

Your problem is Dagger… you compare everybody else in this place to your own failings. Yes there are a lot of lonely people out there self included but there are a hell of a lot of people who use this place for other reasons as well. Its a form of entertainment… a replacement for television, which earlier generations have spent years of their lives sat in front of. People like to read books… listen to music… take advantage of all the other electronical devices that are available to entertain. And then there are those… who, after a long day at work, or days out spending time with their partners/family/friends, like to spend a few hours of an evening relaxing and having fun online. Is that so wrong?

You have spent a huge part of your life sitting behind your computer. More than most infact. To the point were your online friends have become involved in, and helped shape and influence your real life. Before you start ridiculing others and using your own style of vitriol to belittle people then maybe you should take a step back and look long and hard at yourself first. Get your own life sorted before you try and advise others on how to sort theirs. Look at your own style of abuse before you condone others for theirs. And try opening that narrow mind of yours to the fact that each and everyone of us is different and not a clone of yourself and your life. [/color]

POPPYCOCK

@nanny ogg wrote:

and now at peace.
I did ask her if she had any last words for JC.
She said, “What’s the point? No one would take a second glance at my thoughts.”
I said, “That’s exactly the point: it is the room of lost thoughts.”
She said, “Ok. These are my words:
PB should find something a little more worthy of his age and life-long knowledge.
Geoff should consider attending an AA meeting.
Ugo ~ you have a good heart but you’re a pleb. Do not try to measure yourself by other plebs. You will find no succour there. Aim higher.
Pats ~ not everything is black and white. You have dealt with a great deal of hardship and heartache. You are not the only one. See the grey. It is all around us. That said, I do believe that you were almost certainly the nastiest bully in your school.
Dagger ~you’re a womaniser. It is quite probable that the reason your wife now finds your company acceptable is because she no longer needs to find faith in you. Attend more to your children: they may be lost.
Mimsey ~ curiosity killed the cat, and probably the Jabberwocky too.
Diane ~ I wish you painlessness.
Janey ~ if you are not a sexphone call girl then stop pretending you are. If you are ~ then stop. It is not a memory you will hold dear on your death bed.
Sunny and toybulldog ~ you have always made me laugh. You will forever be on my dinner party list.
For those of you I have not mentioned: I know even less of you than those above, except, that you shouldn’t be here. The anonymity of an internet site ~ while it can be powerful as a dumping tool ~ is, in the end, heartless, fake, and soul destroying.
I could tell you a little about me. The words would be seeds on hard ground. But for what it’s worth: I have been places many of you have also been. But I have been further. Dark, desperate places that you will have only read about in tabloids or seen on crime dramas. I have also flown to places you cannot even imagine: I have watched the northern lights, dined with lords, swam with dolphins, drunk with legends. I am in the top 1% of the country in terms of ability, in the bottom 1% of the country in terms of degeneration. I know what I am talking about. What I do not know, and could never know, is how deep your own demons can take you. But I know this. They will take you much further into the depths if you let them. And this is they’re playground.
There are some words you should take note of.
Every cloud has a silver lining. Yesterday doesn’t matter, only tomorrow.
Be wary of Wikipedia.
Great words often come from weak specimens.
The world has an end.
Your life is short.
You will judge your life in the moments of your death. Ensure those thoughts are the best you can make them.”

She gave a gasp after that, and said no more.
I’m off to join her. She looked so content when she left.
These words are hers, and mine, and anyone who has the tiniest understanding of what it means to be alive ~ it is nothing more than a journey into nothingness. The only moment that counts is the last, and the visions you recall.

Signing off. Believe it or not, I won’t be back to read any replies. So, feel free to contradict and ridicule. I’d like to think you might even debate. But I doubt it.

One last thing: try to remember that there are real people on the other end of these keyboards. And in the end, there isn’t really that much seperating any of us.

what a load of self indulgent…self pitying….patronising…bulls/hit. cya feb/nanny/gloria/rotts occasional sh/ag/……….between ya/ll. :wink: :wink: