Fat kids!!!!!! About flipping time!!!!!!!

of course i dont think murderers and rapists are hard done by, what a stupid statement.

All i am saying is do you know what circumstances this woman has lived in, what is her past??? no!!!! neither do I!!

we are all so quick to judge people and the lack of compassion in certain circumstances is appalling!!!

rapists/murderers/and child abusers are the lowest of the low in our society, and people who abuse children sexually or physically dont deserve a second chance!!!

What I am saying is this woman is very lacking in social skills but what I do find amazingly contradictory is the fact they may appear mentally impaired but they are clever enough to court the media enough to probably make a nice tidy sum of money and that is unforgiveable. this boys welfare and health is whats important and i think that all those well educated social workers who usually have no common sense or real life experience need to get their finger out and look after this child.

@ubermik wrote:

Thats a very selective and brainwashed arguement, many rapists and murderers are EQUALLY that way because of cheap wine poor parenting too, or are you claiming they are totally sane, well balanced individuals with a happy childhood behind them who consciously and cognitively CHOOSE to be what they become but THIS woman is totally and completely different and a victim of HER enviroment and past???

Well?

Whatever her past SHE is responsible for her choices today, many will have gone through far worse and NOT buckled, and many buckle at the slightest hiccup or just through dissolution with their life. Her predicament firstly isnt a guarantee of some horrendously hard life, and even if its a symptom of it SHE is still the only person ultimately responsible for her choices and actions or lack thereof

How come the word judgemental is wheeled out for a disliked statement of fact and observation, but words like empathy and compassion is used the exact same action when its agreed with and arrives at a soft and fluffy conclusion?

In either case its a comment of what is seen and is therefore the same, a society that buys too much into touchy feely victim culture is a weak one that panders to self chosen victim status and encourages it as a result, like always giving in to a noisy child

Screw the women, the child is far more important as far as I’m concerned, she chooses to be how she is, the child had it inflicted upon it as effectively as if she were abusing it in any other way. That point shouldnt be allowed to be clouded by tree hugging victim stroking

She isnt a fit parent and saying anything less will only serve to let that situation continue for longer

my sentiments exactly of course the child is more important than any of them. we will have to agree to disagree on the other points , enjoyed the debate tho :wink: :wink:

@nogginthenog wrote:

@smiley wrote:

Rubbish. I was on different kind of medication too, and I lost 6 stone!

So all this “oh I was on medication.. So I can’t lose weight!” is a load of goat b0llocks.

Tut!

I used to be fat, but now I’m a human. So as a former heavy-goer myself, I know what’s b0llocks and what’s not. [-( People get fat because they eat or drink alcohol (not mutually exclusive) too much, too often and they can’t be ar*ed to exercise. I know, I was there! I’ve got the t-shirt, although it’s too big for me to wear now!

Hey, when you lose weight you also gain an inch. No, I wasn’t talking about your penis, I was talking about height – But yes, you also gain an inch there, too!

If you class yourself as human I want to leave the human race. I’ve just cancelled my subscription. Where the hell do you people get off criticising others. Aint the world bad enough? The Arabs hate the Jews, thin hates fat, cats hate dogs & everyone hates us smokers. Whats wrong with a little understanding & less condenming. So you lost weight, so what? Were you a lazy, over eating drunk?

For you fatties, stop going with stupid diets, they don’t work. All I did was cut sugar out of my diet, cut down on drinking alcohol, stopped eating snacks… Perhaps amphetamine helped a little, I don’t know, I’m not a scientist. But I wouldn’t recommend the latter to help an 8 year old lose weight.

But no longer am I a cast member in ‘Land of the Giants’

You’re a communist, so you’re not a human anyway. And yes, I was. That’s my point. Atleast I’m honest about it, unlike the rest of ’em that make excuses up!