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15 January, 2019 at 7:37 am #1111224
Is Artful Mizzy? or am I missing something because I thought Mizzy and Moon got on
Anyway hope all you posters are OK
15 January, 2019 at 10:41 am #1111226I just think when you tell lies to your “friends”,your giving them nothing.You can write as much poitrey can blame as much folk as you like but the truth always comes through.Taking the absolute piss out of someone who cares and tries to help is not fair,You leave someone feeling around in the dark ,when you tell them lies.Make them look like a fool,because your taking advantage and using them,while evryone thinks,how stuped that person is.I just think you dont think very much of a person if you build the friendship you have with them on lies.
15 January, 2019 at 10:43 am #1111227You wouldent know Kenty because its all lies.Hope your feeling a bit better kenty.x
15 January, 2019 at 3:45 pm #1111229Scep. you know I listen. But give me a break. Numerous names and numbers. Hacks all up always. You now for real. Enjoys it. Loves it. Spews it..u giving a free reign it o.k. to abuse, troll all day and night..and… oh forget it. Not worth it really. Goes after me. Simple I am tired of it. Will call it out. Games seize. So do I. Get it..done..
I’ve never made any secret that I encourage her poetry.
Or that I have no desire to be part of any quarrel between the two of you.
I’m not changing on either.
I don’t curry favour with anyone, despite the opinion of Philomena’s peep-eye.
15 January, 2019 at 5:48 pm #1111233No secret on encouraging poetry..I have no issue with at all..
However, your direction of suggestions on others things IF NO OTHERS have helped her..what makes you think your suggestive advice any friggin better.. well you are a man so she may swoon in to your pretty encouraging words… She needs a man’s attention and support.. But the strength of many woman here have supported her..tried to help..including me….
You crossing over a line that is far beyond reach at this point, as she needs to help self first.. this has nothing to do with favor. I give a rat’s cheese on what is or not is whom and what favorite is..and to who, you may think..have..or behave with.
It is harmful to self and others..destructive in path to purposely take down any and all who agrees or not. Death threat and wishes direct to some one very sick if sober or not. Not right…those are threats to others wishing harm. Talk to your own psych.
I have gone 10 steps up a ladder to try to figure engagement and conversation in which I may not come out of form. No longer going to try..sick of it. Needs to be in a behavioral unit..get true help it needs..
So dont look and tell me you don’t get frustrated with her. She holds the voodoo doll..sticks pins in all the time.. wait..your turn will come..but lol..she already has done you a few times already..gets tiresome to continually be forgiving, look away..turn cheek. Your’s gets slap enough times cant wait to see what you say about poetry again..with her and suggestive advice.
Gooood……luck open your eyes. Ears has nothing to do with what I typed
15 January, 2019 at 6:10 pm #1111234I think you’re letting your hatred of her get in the way. I don’t see any way she can hurt me as there’s no contact between us.
I’ve said before that I want nothing to do with your argument against her, except to criticise the cruelty of her attacks on you. She has claimed that I have no idea of what led to her attacks, and she’s right. I don’t. But I’ll criticise what I do see, and that is when she loses it. I have no wish to join in attacks on her, or any other person that people on these boards try to isolate – which isn’t to say that they’re not asking to be isolated.
I have seen other women try to help her, and I’ve seen her reject that help. I’ve seen that with other women with real alcohol/mental health on these boards, and sometimes it works. Help is extended, and rejected viciously. That’s par for the problems. Sometimes, if the victim can get it together, then eventually the help isn’t rejected.
However, I’ve always said, and I can find where I said if necessary, that if she responds to attacks on her then there will be a descent into Hell for all. I stand by that, I’ve seen it with others and it would happen with me if I allowed some of the people here to provoke me into it. The tit-for-tat nastiness is a serious stain on jc’s, and the boards have been filled with them. I’m in the process, a continual and difficult process, of not meeting personable insult with personal insult. I would give this advice to anybody. If she can learn not to attack others, then she’d be a big asset to the boards. If not, then she’s just helping the poisons. big time.
I’m encouraging her poetry, and her (eventually) encouraging pushing of others into poetry. It’s the strength of hers, and I’ve seen it several times..
If you can see any point where I’m encouraging her in any other way, then please say. If I’m shown this, then I’ll apologise and make a point of withdrawing it. Otherwise, I think you’re seeing things which are really not there.
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15 January, 2019 at 6:32 pm #1111235Scep. you know I listen. But give me a break. Numerous names and numbers. Hacks all up always. You now for real. Enjoys it. Loves it. Spews it..u giving a free reign it o.k. to abuse, troll all day and night..and… oh forget it. Not worth it really. Goes after me. Simple I am tired of it. Will call it out. Games seize. So do I. Get it..done..
I’ve never made any secret that I encourage her poetry.
Or that I have no desire to be part of any quarrel between the two of you.
I’m not changing on either.
I don’t curry favour with anyone, despite the opinion of Philomena’s peep-eye.
I presume I’m Philomena, also presume you feel very witty…. yea, everyone is rolling around at that one. I don’t want you to change your mind, or your views, or your opinions, I don’t want anything from you nor anything to do with you. After a long time of ‘thinking’ I sort of got you and sort of understood what you stand for, I now know I was totally wrong and that no one will ever ‘get’ you, because there is no foundation. The goal posts shift continuously to suit your own ego. I believe the only thing you actually stick to is a desperate need to be important and to ‘win’ what you perceive to be some sort of battle. It’s all about you. Your need to be respected, your need to talk about you, your need to be listened to, you swap from aggressor and name calling, to poor me I’m a victim of bullies. As we said to Q , just because more than one person disagrees with you doesn’t mean it is a gang of people bullying you, yet you try and portray that to readers in an effort to what ? gain support ? who knows. I can recognise an aggressive, loud mouthed bully when i see one, as can anyone, what takes longer to spot is a chameleon , changing its tone and attitude in a subtle way, weaving and dodging, misquoting and insinuating, all in an effort to make people look stupid and boost their own ego. It must be a lonely way to live. Give me the loud mouthed bully any day, at least you get what it says on the tin. So, you see, I don’t want you to change anything, finally I see you and now nothing you say or insinuate matters !! Nothing !
Have a lovely day Mr Reasonable
15 January, 2019 at 9:54 pm #1111239I’m really uninterested in this sort of rubbish. Character assassination is always the cheapest way of avoiding difficult discussion
More important things are happening.
15 January, 2019 at 10:39 pm #1111243Of course you’re not interested lol, hardly character assassination, merely Philomena’s opinion ! What difficult discussion ? I realise your’e drooling at the TV, watching the parliamentary soap opera, but you’re on the wrong thread. You can’t direct all the threads to suit you, as hard as you may try. Anyway what your’e interested in isn’t of value to me, it just DOES’NT MATTER lol
15 January, 2019 at 11:56 pm #1111244I’m really uninterested in this sort of rubbish. Character assassination is always the cheapest way of avoiding difficult discussion
More important things are happening.
[/quote# Calling people names like philomena to goad them,how important is that?
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