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All I spoke about was the fact her picture was a fake and that the IP didn’t match where she said she was, the whole ‘fake relationship’ and all of the other rumours that are going around came from others adding their own opinions and being kept alive by certain male chatters who have nothing better to do.
The 2 parts I spoke about happened to be fact, not rumours.
Why you jumped to the conclusion that I said you were bullying people Lucy is anyones guess! :shock: Don’t be so para woman![/quote]
cant help it sarah im hormonal!! and in all fairness I think melody did voice concerns to the male involved and he took no notice so its his loss, if he wants to be fooled by this woman then leave him to it but Melody was only concerned that he was gonna be hurt.@grotbags wrote:
We could be talking about anyone, I don’t particular care about the couple involved, they’re inconsequential to me :lol: I’m discussing the topic itself.
My gut feeling is, if it was a genuine concern, a real dilema that someone was thinking their friend should know something they had found out about…then if it was genuine, it would be discussed with the friend surely, and not posted about on a message board…for all and sundry (including myself) to come and respond to. I’m suggesting it was a mistake to put it on here, knowing that it would be blown out or all proportion (and I’m sure Mel would be the first to admit she’s been on here long enough to know that’s what happens).
It’s a chatroom with a message board – we all know if something on here/said in there is posted about it’s going to cause gossip and speculation and lead to nastiness from some people (as has already been requested by Mel for certain people/trolls to stop witch -hunting) that in my opinion is bullying!
Why you jumped to the conclusion that I said you were bullying people Lucy is anyones guess! :shock: Don’t be so para woman!
When I started this thread, no one had been mentioned. Unfortunately the sequence of events that followed have now meant that ppl in the chat rooms knows who is being discussed. My main regret is speaking about it at a very quiet time in F2 with a certain troll present (a moment of stupidity I admit). I would like to point out that I tried to give the male individual the opportunity to discuss this and they chose not to talk to me, prior to all of this.) I would also like to point out that if I hadn’t have mentioned it, it was going to be said by someone else on a much more confrontational level.
Sarah if stating that someones picture was a fake makes me a bully then so be it.
lol hormonal, Lucy *hands chocolate and steps away*
lol @ Mel also thinking she’s a bully… I have no choc left for you so hope you’re not also hormonal!
I guess if he didn’t want to discuss it with you Mel – that’s his decision…he will find ou the truth, whatever it is at some point no dou.
…and I said “I agree with the comment…
“I think that the subject should be closed and put to bed once and for all”
as it stinks of internet bullying to me.”
Like I said, I was talking about the THREAD itself…not one individual action. I was agreeing with a comment from another poster.
well said Sarah………..balzz to him!!! let him learn the hard way and i still love you Melody xxx
Flippin eck! Remind me not to get on the bad side of any of you lot!!!
Also, just to clarify, it’s a chatroom. You may have noticed that on occassion people lie, cheat, abuse etc etc etc. I have even spotted a few people in there using fake names……like mucky1234, which isn’t my real name btw!!!
Chillax and enjoy the sunshine would be my advice
xxxx
I will admit my real name is not ‘The’.
I am very sorry.
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@mucky1234 wrote:
Flippin eck! Remind me not to get on the bad side of any of you lot!!!
Also, just to clarify, it’s a chatroom. You may have noticed that on occassion people lie, cheat, abuse etc etc etc. I have even spotted a few people in there using fake names……like mucky1234, which isn’t my real name btw!!!
Chillax and enjoy the sunshine would be my advice
xxxx
Yes people on here do fake, from lies to deceit to taking peoples lives as a complete nothing and throwing them about like a toy. I don’t think it is something you just write off as ‘hey it’s just the internet’… it affects lives whether you think it sad or lonely or not. There are laws nowadays that protect people from online harassment and abuse, so it is actually quite serious.
In all seriousness though, this is far from bullying.
Nobody that comes in fresh will know who is being discussed and the only people in the room that give a flying fúck are the trolls that would just as easily make stuff up, just to create friction where none would be needed.
My thoughts are these:
1) if said couple are genuine, why haven’t they come on to defend themselves? (OK, they don’t need to but it’s easy enough to prove and it’ll then mean a lot of JCers eating a whole load of humble pie, which is tempting enough)
2) They won’t stop coming in JC, they’ll just use different names (as they have done before, over the years) and may well avoid F2 anyway.
3) If you are going to come on a chatroom and put on a big act, you have no-one to blame but yourselves if and when it all gets found out.
It’s a chatroom. Be yourself, or be a fake. But bear in mind the fakes don’t last as long.
just a silly point to add
it was the couple themselves who tripped themselves up in the room and then a fumbled attempt to cover it up dug them deeper in the hole they were digging, and if a idiot like me noticed it so did alot of others. it wasnt this thread that revealed them or anyone that has responded to it.
but as my favourite chatter stated theres nothing to see here lets move on :)
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