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To cut a friend off because they do not value your opinion seems a bit harsh but that is your choice
@j_in_france wrote:
To cut a friend off because they do not value your opinion seems a bit harsh but that is your choice
If you and I were friends and I didn’t value your opinion and you knew I didn’t. Why on earth would you want me as a friend???
Wake up and smell the coffee!
I find that when a friend says can I ask you for your advice/opinion, they actually don’t really want it, they just want to talk it out with someone they trust. They come to their own conclusion anyway! ps. If it is really bad, my usual reaction is to say “well tell em to feck right off” – it normally creates a laugh, that is the point – they want to off-load! :)
For Terry……….
…………Je constate que quand un ami dit peut je vous demander votre conseil/opinion, ils ne le veulent pas vraiment vraiment, ils veulent juste le parler dehors avec quelqu’un ils se fient. Ils viennent à leur propre conclusion en tout cas! Ps. Si c’est vraiment mauvais, ma réaction ordinaire est de dire “disent bien à em au droit feck de” – qu’il crée normalement un rire, qui est le point – ils veulent écouler!
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@anc wrote:
For Terry……….
…………Je constate que quand un ami dit peut je vous demander votre conseil/opinion, ils ne le veulent pas vraiment vraiment, ils veulent juste le parler dehors avec quelqu’un ils se fient. Ils viennent à leur propre conclusion en tout cas! Ps. Si c’est vraiment mauvais, ma réaction ordinaire est de dire “disent bien à em au droit feck de” – qu’il crée normalement un rire, qui est le point – ils veulent écouler!
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…………I see which when a friend said can i you ask your conseil/opinion, they don´´ the want not really really, they want just the speak abroad with somebody’a they herself rely. They come to their clean conclusion wholly case! PS. If c’are really bad, ma reply common are adjudge “say well to em au droit feck of” – that’he akershus area normally a chuckle, which are poised – they want sell!
Something tells me I need a better online translator !!!!! :D :D :D :lol: :lol:
@terry wrote:
@j_in_france wrote:
Then you have to accept their choice and be there if they need your support in the future, but not be judgmental if things go wrong
Why support someone who doesn’t even value your opinion?
Are u not refusing to value his opinion?
@A.Groanup wrote:
@anc wrote:
For Terry……….
…………Je constate que quand un ami dit peut je vous demander votre conseil/opinion, ils ne le veulent pas vraiment vraiment, ils veulent juste le parler dehors avec quelqu’un ils se fient. Ils viennent à leur propre conclusion en tout cas! Ps. Si c’est vraiment mauvais, ma réaction ordinaire est de dire “disent bien à em au droit feck de” – qu’il crée normalement un rire, qui est le point – ils veulent écouler!
:lol:
…………I see which when a friend said can i you ask your conseil/opinion, they don´´ the want not really really, they want just the speak abroad with somebody’a they herself rely. They come to their clean conclusion wholly case! PS. If c’are really bad, ma reply common are adjudge “say well to em au droit feck of” – that’he akershus area normally a chuckle, which are poised – they want sell!
Something tells me I need a better online translator !!!!! :D :D :D :lol: :lol:
:lol:
At least the ‘feck’ came out eh?! :lol:
Qu’est-ce que c’est que ça!
:shock:
Friends fall out all the time….. its natural….. with a real friend you speak your mind and as anc said tell em to feck off….. few days later though you start to rethink things and wonder what all the fuss was about…… my advice… ignore each other for a while it will remind you why you were friends in the first place :D
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