Does it bother you?

I also think it depends who it is…….I have come to realise that I only have very few real friends in jc……..ones a witch from Surrey and ones a witch from Newcastle ( both str8 before anyone ask) haha and I cant forget Aussie Sassy(I can tell sassy anything)……I have realised that some people who I thought I would be friends with for a very long time weren’t real friends in the end….but i don’t regret the friendship whilst it lasted its been a learning curve for me and some people just connect better than others……what I find very hard is seeing ppl who were “good friends” tell the whole room private stuff about the other person just because they av fallen out…….I find it very sad that, that one person you thought you could trust then goes and tells everyone stuff that you confided in them about, Ive fallen out with someone and I wouldnt dream of going in the room and saying hey everyone by the way joe bloggs is blah blah blah ……….its wrong and yeh some of you will say well dont tell ppl stuff you dont want others to know BUT maybe a person thinks he/she can trust someone and opens up to them, maybe its me but I dont think its right to sh it on someone just cuz u dont wanna be their friend anymore………….just sayin!!

@anc wrote:

Guilty, I’m afraid – lost a really very good friend over it – learnt my lesson the hard way – typical me, I got really really angry, and decided to get my own back – I am never, ever going to do it again. Thank god, I didn’t tell ‘all’, but, it was enough! I miss you – you know who you are x

glad u learnt from it anc, we all make mistakes thats why pencils av erasers on them, maybe one day he/she will forgive u xxx

@lucylocket wrote:

I also think it depends who it is…….I have come to realise that I only have very few real friends in jc……..ones a witch from Surrey and ones a witch from Newcastle ( both str8 before anyone ask) haha and I cant forget Aussie Sassy(I can tell sassy anything)……I have realised that some people who I thought I would be friends with for a very long time weren’t real friends in the end….but i don’t regret the friendship whilst it lasted its been a learning curve for me and some people just connect better than others……what I find very hard is seeing ppl who were “good friends” tell the whole room private stuff about the other person just because they av fallen out…….I find it very sad that, that one person you thought you could trust then goes and tells everyone stuff that you confided in them about, Ive fallen out with someone and I wouldnt dream of going in the room and saying hey everyone by the way joe bloggs is blah blah blah ……….its wrong and yeh some of you will say well dont tell ppl stuff you dont want others to know BUT maybe a person thinks he/she can trust someone and opens up to them, maybe its me but I dont think its right to sh it on someone just cuz u dont wanna be their friend anymore………….just sayin!!

Very true.

People seem to stop think it’s OK to do things online that would be regarded as a bit dodgy outside, just cos they think there are no consequences.

Sadly there can be really nasty ones and people get hurt.

You keep your principles girl. At the end of the day, you’re the only one who really has to live with you. At least you can have some self-respect.

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@anc wrote:

@momentaryloss wrote:

@lucylocket wrote:

I also think it depends who it is…….I have come to realise that I only have very few real friends in jc……..ones a witch from Surrey and ones a witch from Newcastle ( both str8 before anyone ask) haha and I cant forget Aussie Sassy(I can tell sassy anything)……I have realised that some people who I thought I would be friends with for a very long time weren’t real friends in the end….but i don’t regret the friendship whilst it lasted its been a learning curve for me and some people just connect better than others……what I find very hard is seeing ppl who were “good friends” tell the whole room private stuff about the other person just because they av fallen out…….I find it very sad that, that one person you thought you could trust then goes and tells everyone stuff that you confided in them about, Ive fallen out with someone and I wouldnt dream of going in the room and saying hey everyone by the way joe bloggs is blah blah blah ……….its wrong and yeh some of you will say well dont tell ppl stuff you dont want others to know BUT maybe a person thinks he/she can trust someone and opens up to them, maybe its me but I dont think its right to sh it on someone just cuz u dont wanna be their friend anymore………….just sayin!!

Very true.

People seem to stop think it’s OK to do things online that would be regarded as a bit dodgy outside, just cos they think there are no consequences.

Sadly there can be really nasty ones and people get hurt.

You keep your principles girl. At the end of the day, you’re the only one who really has to live with you. At least you can have some self-respect.

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I agree and disagree, I don’t think it is ok at all, that is why I feel so awful – however, having said that, I would have done the same in ‘real’ life.

Least you’re a big enough person to be honest. Many aren’t. Takes a better human being than most to admit their mistakes and weaknesses, especially around here.

Was referring to others without your self awareness or conscience.

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