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@annette-curtain wrote:
I wonder if a father cries , when his son tells him he is gay ?
I remember my cousin telling his family that he was gay. His big burly working class father threw him out, disowned him, and we were never to mention him again. Did he cry? I don’t know, I wasn’t there. But he did cry when his son came home many years later and told his family he was dying of Aids, that he had weeks to live and he’d come home to say goodbye. My uncle wept like a baby, not just because his son was dying but for all the lost years.
When the same uncle’s grandson came out and said he was gay, his mother told the family and said she didn’t give a toss what everyone thought, he was her son and as long as he was happy, she was happy. Lessons had been learned the hard way, and everyone supported him.
To disown your child because they are gay is sad for all concerned. To use a childs sexuality to have a dig at the parent is low and cheap. Enough said.
Agrees totally with jen jen.
As to the thread
It takes a man who is totally sure of himself to be able to express him emotions. As to do women like that, i can only answer for myself. Yes.
agrees with jen jen xx
@annette-curtain wrote:
I wonder if a father cries , when his son tells him he is gay ?
Why would he?,he’d still have a son.
any arguing on my thread and ill ban the bleedin lot of you :)
oh bring it on Sadness :)
laughing :lol:
Again i seem to see it differently to most, but maybe that’s because i post without bias.
Annette has took a lot of stick this weekend of a few people, some jumping on the bandwagon for no apparent reason and her private life brought up, yet when she fights fire with fire she gets moaned at.
If i was in her situation and knew what she does i would be shouting it from the roof tops a long time ago, and so she should.
All over her garden bench…
@jen_jen wrote:
@annette-curtain wrote:
I wonder if a father cries , when his son tells him he is gay ?
I remember my cousin telling his family that he was gay. His big burly working class father threw him out, disowned him, and we were never to mention him again. Did he cry? I don’t know, I wasn’t there. But he did cry when his son came home many years later and told his family he was dying of Aids, that he had weeks to live and he’d come home to say goodbye. My uncle wept like a baby, not just because his son was dying but for all the lost years.
When the same uncle’s grandson came out and said he was gay, his mother told the family and said she didn’t give a toss what everyone thought, he was her son and as long as he was happy, she was happy. Lessons had been learned the hard way, and everyone supported him.
To disown your child because they are gay is sad for all concerned. To use a childs sexuality to have a dig at the parent is low and cheap. Enough said.
Ahhh right ! … but to suggest my hubby uses a i quote- ” a p iss pot “, and god knows what else is ok then is it ? To generally put me down, and slag me off everytime i post , is ok ?
One rule for one … :roll:
And just for the record .,. i don’t give a toffee , who thinks it was cheap- if he can’t take it… he shouldn’t dish it out in the first place.
Enough said !
If people want to trawl through the muck of each others lives that’s up to them, I’d rather not see it personally but it seems that’s the nature of the chatrooms and the boards. However bringing people’s children into it is low and a step too far in my personal opinion. Annette isn’t the first to do it, no doubt she won’t be the last, but each time it happens, whoever does it, my opinion will remain the same.
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