It depends on why you’re crying. I disagree with the idea that men shouldn’t cry; bottling up emotion isn’t good for you, whatever your gender, and I wouldn’t call a man namby pamby for expressing his emotions. I’d rather see a man cry and getting the emotion out of his sytem than see him bottle it up and making himself ill or, worse, exploding in anger and lashing out at others as an emotional release instead.
Maybe some men would be better off having a cry at the end of a relationship then move on than wallowing in self-pity then trying to destroy the ex and lashing out at others…just a thought…