Do women have it tougher online.

I guess its human nature to “defend” whomever it is you like, although most won’t and those that do are seen as weak. not weak per se, but the terms lapdog, arselicker etc comes to mind to use F3 language, and that is only as my personal experience. many males who have spoken to me or even defended me have been called such names, do I know why? nope, do I even care? nope, but it gets embarrassing to think because someone chats to you or has even met you they then become the brunt of bullying or “teasing” or “banter” to me theyre all the same thing its just that bullies wont admit its what theyre doing .

where does it come from? Jealousy? who knows. i’m not a mind reader.

As I said in F3, when someone shows you a kindness, you tend to trust them, as  they say trust no one, because as sure as eggs is eggs there’ll be a crack sooner or later and that person gives you the flick, moves on and they know all this stuff about you that you’ve confided and because they tend to befriend the needy or lonely youre  an easy target to pass all your inner most secrets to others. they don’t give a toss if it upsets you, that’s their M.O.

to think “they would never do that to me” is daft to say the least.

I digress…..

Some people lash out because they know how daft theyre being, and don’t want to admit it. even if 100’s of people have experience of a person and try to warn the involved defender they’ll believe (because they want/need to) that they are different and special and the person would never do it to them.

Women are treated way better than men online.
No question in my oppinion.

First thing first im not Transgender !!

For a female in F3 its a nightmare as you never know how the pm will start with some of the male chatters. I had to put a m after my name to stop the perves thinking i was female and still get the odd pm now. It really was (great pun time) pain in the butt lol lol But how you females put up with it i dont know.